Topic of discussion this week: WHITE KNIGHTS

[john_deere]

lol! yeah, buster...you're terrible. how dare you.

[Jessie Montana]

I'll chime in and throw my two cents out there...
I came to Eccie when it was still semi-ok to have a WK. That all seemed to change in WT with the fiasco of That Girl Bailey and her WK - Nothing against the girl at all, but I still don't know if I believe the cock and bull story we were fed. The point being, that with good reason, I think it made gentleman back off from being so transparent in their WK-hood. I think its ok to promote your favorites with the understanding that not only do opinions vary, but YMMV. I had a connection with 99% of my gentlemen but on varying degrees. Those that I connected with and in turn connected with me, ultimately became a WK of sorts. I appreciated it to the nth degree; however, I felt more obligated to the gent than I should have, given that this is a hobby and I am only your gfe for an hour at a time. Lines and boundaries are crossed and I often found myself juggling - protecting feelings. throwing up my own walls and often questioning.

Wow! Intense post......

[houston.alexxx]

Originally Posted by Jessie Montana

.... however, I felt more obligated to the gent than I should have, given that this is a hobby and I am only your gfe for an hour at a time. Lines and boundaries are crossed and I often found myself juggling - protecting feelings. throwing up my own walls and often questioning.

Thanks, Jessie for your contribution and insight. Always valuable. (Go ahead... call me her WK. LOL. Not that she needs one, but I'll volunteer.)

My opinion though observation is that WKs usually have the same confusing emotions, then they let those emotions cloud their judgment with regard to the VP. Hence, they refuse to admit that the VP could ever do anything "wrong".

So, that leads me to this question: Are there VPs on here that are ever accused of being a WK for a guy? It stands to reason that it's happened at least a time or two.

[Katharine Butler]

In my opinion it's not WK behavior to lightly promote a lady. "Hey, happy to here you are headed here!" I like crypt kicker saying that a wk often goes against all logic and evidence in vehement denial of majority negative opinion of a given woman. And, yes, in my mid it makes me wonder if one or both of them are bringing some deeper, more convoluted emotion to both the issue and their relationship.
Kat

[Three Piece Chicken Dinne]

Originally Posted by Jessie Montana

I'll chime in and throw my two cents out there...
I came to Eccie when it was still semi-ok to have a WK. That all seemed to change in WT with the fiasco of That Girl Bailey and her WK - Nothing against the girl at all, but I still don't know if I believe the cock and bull story we were fed. The point being, that with good reason, I think it made gentleman back off from being so transparent in their WK-hood. I think its ok to promote your favorites with the understanding that not only do opinions vary, but YMMV. I had a connection with 99% of my gentlemen but on varying degrees. Those that I connected with and in turn connected with me, ultimately became a WK of sorts. I appreciated it to the nth degree; however, I felt more obligated to the gent than I should have, given that this is a hobby and I am only your gfe for an hour at a time. Lines and boundaries are crossed and I often found myself juggling - protecting feelings. throwing up my own walls and often questioning.

Wow! Intense post......