Developing feelings for my provider

[Guest092216]

Originally Posted by GingerKatt

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And you don't think they would need proof of a job? I can certainly start calling around and trying. But someone else asked if he would co sign and I don't think he wants to. He's very protective of his credit rating and wouldn't want to risk it. Although I was in an apartment when he met me, and I was always a month or two ahead on the rent. And he convinced me to leave it and move in with him. But I'm a big girl, it was ultimately my decision. But I just really want my own apartment again! And many of them check your tax returns and credit history now. I have nada in the way of financial records.
And by the way, I appreciate the kind and supportive words about our breakup, and really 14-15 months is longer than many relationships I've had before. The hobby and my profession had nothing to do with why it didn't work. I really was relatively inexperienced, (still am I guess), because I had only been working a year, and I always worked alone, I never had anyone to show me the ropes or tell me easier ways of screening or doing anything. I just kind of figured the job out by trial and error and gut instinct. And reading lots of ECCIE and learning from the smart ladies here.
As for the poster who said when he got feelings for a provider he thought about how many clients she did that week and then read her raunchy reviews; I've always stayed a little UTR and kept pretty much a low profile on this site, I'm not much for posting; (except right now I guess!); and extremely low volume. I would see an average of 3 clients a week, and before he met me, he would see that many providers a week sometimes. Not always, but I never judged him and he never judged me. And he thought the reviews were sexy. One of our favorite things to do was to go to a SC and get a private dance from a girl in the VIP room. We were thinking of going to the LIDO in Dallas before we broke up. We had also planned to visit a provider together, but we never got around to it. So we were actually pretty compatible. I told him from the beginning he could never throw my profession up to me, even when we were arguing, and he never did.

But anyway, he still doesn't want to sign the lease!

You don't need it if you secure your lease with three months rent +deposit. It protects them from eviction time and damage costs. I got into a highrise downtown with that. Trust me. Its enough.

[KeepinItReal]

Originally Posted by joey1234

Have seen a particular provider several times ....... and I think I may be developing feelings for her that go beyond the regular client/provider relationship. What should I do.....tell her, find another provider......I'm kind of getting tired of taking cold showers :-) I don't want to ruin a perfectly good thing and screw it up. Suggestions?

Run, Run as fast as you can away from her. Speaking from my own personal experience, most of these women are not even capable of maintaining a friendship with men. Even if she decides to give you free pussy, don't take it, well maybe take it, but don't expect her not to fuck you over in the long run. I learned that lesson the hard way and it cost me about $56,500 because of the shit I did to help a hooker out when she needed it. If she even thinks she has you pussy whooped, she will lie and do things and expect it to be fine with you, because she is giving you free pussy, fuck that shit.

Maybe when wifey's new ride finally gets here she will quit wanting to fuck that bitch up for the shit she did.

There is no such thing as friendship, or free pussy in the hobby

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by joey1234

Have seen a particular provider several times ....... and I think I may be developing feelings for her that go beyond the regular client/provider relationship. What should I do.....tell her, find another provider......I'm kind of getting tired of taking cold showers :-) I don't want to ruin a perfectly good thing and screw it up. Suggestions?

Don't give her any extra help and see the good thing will disappear, keep it professional like a business transaction. If you still feel the need to give money away that you will never get back, send it over my way.

[planojim]

I ended up getting feelings for a provider when I was 15. It didn't turn out that well. No recommended.

[GingerKatt]

[QUOTE=KeepinItReal;1054999803]Run, Run as fast as you can away from her. Speaking from my own personal experience, most of these women are not even capable of maintaining a friendship with men. Even if she decides to give you free pussy, don't take it, well maybe take it, but don't expect her not to fuck you over in the long run. I learned that lesson the hard way and it cost me about $56,500 because of the shit I did to help a hooker out when she needed it. If she even thinks she has you pussy whooped, she will lie and do things and expect it to be fine with you, because she is giving you free pussy, fuck that shit.

Maybe when wifey's new ride finally gets here she will quit wanting to fuck that bitch up for the shit she did.

There is no such thing as friendship, or free pussy in the hobby [/QUOTE

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Did you seriously say that!? Most of these women aren't capable of maintaining a friendship with a man?! Why?

Because we're whores? What are you? Can you maintain a friendship with anybody?

Besides my romantic partner of the last year, who is STILL my good friend, when I was working for the 1 short year that I did, I made a couple of good friends that I no longer see as clients but keep in touch with. You can't speak for the women on this board. Why would you even try?

And you think that every woman here wants to fuck over the men? You are messed up. I have no desire to fuck over anyone, and I never have. You do realize that you insulted every single provider on ECCIE, saying they will lie and fuck you over and can't be friendly. I don't understand why you would do that. It sounds like someone did you very wrong. So you had an awful experience with a woman who was not nice and not a good person. That is not true for most of us.

And if you think the providers here are truly such reprehensible people, why would you be a member here? I wouldn't associate with people that I think lie and live to screw people over.

[planojim]

I agree with you Ginger. Just because a woman is a provider doesn't mean she's not a woman. Your job doesn't prevent you from being a human being.


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Did you seriously say that!? Most of these women aren't capable of maintaining a friendship with a man?! Why?

Because we're whores? What are you? Can you maintain a friendship with anybody?

Besides my romantic partner of the last year, who is STILL my good friend, when I was working for the 1 short year that I did, I made a couple of good friends that I no longer see as clients but keep in touch with. You can't speak for the women on this board. Why would you even try?

And you think that every woman here wants to fuck over the men? You are messed up. I have no desire to fuck over anyone, and I never have. You do realize that you insulted every single provider on ECCIE, saying they will lie and fuck you over and can't be friendly. I don't understand why you would do that. It sounds like someone did you very wrong. So you had an awful experience with a woman who was not nice and not a good person. That is not true for most of us.

And if you think the providers here are truly such reprehensible people, why would you be a member here? I wouldn't associate with people that I think lie and live to screw people over.[/QUOTE]

[MaximusBlake]

I agree too, Ginger! And Welcome Back Sweetheart!
But KeepinItReal is TOTALLY out of line for insulting the providers. He shouldn't be here, because the site is a place for clients and providers to meet and socialize and he seems to think so little of the women and thinks they're all out to get him. And guess what Keepin: They're NOT!

[thereisnospoon]

Take a break......or a vacation. Or both. It is easier than you think if you see someone regularly. But ultimately this is a fantasy land and you have to realize that. You can have an ATF, sure, or care for someone deeply, but falling IN LOVE just won't end well for you, man. IMO some of us might write off providers as being mechanical, devoid of feeling, not human, and somehow what they are doing is worse than what you are doing. But we are all human and have feelings, and YOU BET they can get in the way. Keep in mind this relationship you have is atypical and needs to stay purely business. PM me dude and we'll go have a few beers.

[eccienewbie]

[KeepinItReal]

[QUOTE=GingerKatt;1055000639]

Originally Posted by KeepinItReal

Run, Run as fast as you can away from her. Speaking from my own personal experience, most of these women are not even capable of maintaining a friendship with men. Even if she decides to give you free pussy, don't take it, well maybe take it, but don't expect her not to fuck you over in the long run. I learned that lesson the hard way and it cost me about $56,500 because of the shit I did to help a hooker out when she needed it. If she even thinks she has you pussy whooped, she will lie and do things and expect it to be fine with you, because she is giving you free pussy, fuck that shit.

Maybe when wifey's new ride finally gets here she will quit wanting to fuck that bitch up for the shit she did.

There is no such thing as friendship, or free pussy in the hobby [/QUOTE

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Did you seriously say that!? Most of these women aren't capable of maintaining a friendship with a man?! Why?

Because we're whores? What are you? Can you maintain a friendship with anybody?

Besides my romantic partner of the last year, who is STILL my good friend, when I was working for the 1 short year that I did, I made a couple of good friends that I no longer see as clients but keep in touch with. You can't speak for the women on this board. Why would you even try?

And you think that every woman here wants to fuck over the men? You are messed up. I have no desire to fuck over anyone, and I never have. You do realize that you insulted every single provider on ECCIE, saying they will lie and fuck you over and can't be friendly. I don't understand why you would do that. It sounds like someone did you very wrong. So you had an awful experience with a woman who was not nice and not a good person. That is not true for most of us.

And if you think the providers here are truly such reprehensible people, why would you be a member here? I wouldn't associate with people that I think lie and live to screw people over.

I should of said some of these women instead of most, but like I said this has been some of my personal experiences with a couple of ladies here and no, it doesn't have a damn thing to do with these ladies being whores as you put it.

I don't know how my post all of sudden became about you, expecially since I don't fucking know you, but you can refer to my avatar. I didn't even read you post about your 15 month relationship and I realy don't care to either. I was giving the OP my thoughts on dealing with things from my experience and that is it. As far as disrespecting the ladies here on the board, the ones who know me, know exactly what I am refering to and where I am coming from with this.

[Kendall4U]

[QUOTE=KeepinItReal;1055001498]

Originally Posted by GingerKatt

I should of said some of these women instead of most, but like I said this has been some of my personal experiences with a couple of ladies here and no, it doesn't have a damn thing to do with these ladies being whores as you put it.

I don't know how my post all of sudden became about you, expecially since I don't fucking know you, but you can refer to my avatar. I didn't even read you post about your 15 month relationship and I realy don't care to either. I was giving the OP my thoughts on dealing with things from my experience and that is it. As far as disrespecting the ladies here on the board, the ones who know me, know exactly what I am refering to and where I am coming from with this.

I still love you boo!

[KeepinItReal]

[QUOTE=Kendall4U;1055001543][QUOTE=KeepinItReal;1055001498]


I still love you boo! [/QUOTE

Aww sugar, can I come let you show me how much

[Kendall4U]

[QUOTE=KeepinItReal;1055001648][QUOTE=Kendall4U;1055001543]

Originally Posted by KeepinItReal

I still love you boo! [/QUOTE

Aww sugar, can I come let you show me how much

You know how to "reach" me

[joey1234]

This is when we all pop over to Jillian's Warm and Fuzzy thread ....

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by eccienewbie

Follow me lol