Does Friendship exist in the hobby?

[4friedchickens]

No.

Https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i8kp...e_gdata_player

[Guest013121]

Yes, of course friendships exist on any level of any relationship. There are no boundaries on true friendships. And everyone seems to think if one is paying for time and companionship, they cannot possibly form true friendships with the lady....NOT TRUE. Since when do we categorize who or who's not included to be worthy of a friendship?? If people would look past the whole 'escorts and clients cant be friends' situation, people wouldn't be on here questioning their own feelings. Some of my closest friends are my clients. They are the gentlemen who also DON'T judge me and DON'T get on here and say "I can't be friends with Gemma because she is an escort!" Friendships exist in the highest and the lowest and poorest and coldest places in this world. You just gotta be able to overlook others opinions; more importantly, go with what you feel in your heart....Real friendships warm the heart.

[theindanguy]

Thank you Gemma,

That was a simple and beautiful response. I really appreciate you sharing your thoughts here with us.
Yes, you are right when you say that, we have to look beyond the whole escort and hobbyist thing. I have come to realize that there are many good people here and there are so many more not so good ones. One has to choose carefully... Thank you.

[theindanguy]

Originally Posted by 4friedchickens

No.

Https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i8kp...e_gdata_player

I watched it and I loved it, hahaha! So true....

[Grizzly]

Originally Posted by Gemma34

Yes, of course friendships exist on any level of any relationship. There are no boundaries on true friendships. And everyone seems to think if one is paying for time and companionship, they cannot possibly form true friendships with the lady....NOT TRUE. Since when do we categorize who or who's not included to be worthy of a friendship?? If people would look past the whole 'escorts and clients cant be friends' situation, people wouldn't be on here questioning their own feelings. Some of my closest friends are my clients. They are the gentlemen who also DON'T judge me and DON'T get on here and say "I can't be friends with Gemma because she is an escort!" Friendships exist in the highest and the lowest and poorest and coldest places in this world. You just gotta be able to overlook others opinions; more importantly, go with what you feel in your heart....Real friendships warm the heart.

Well stated Gemma, I am glad you are back, missed your words of wisdom and no bs attitude. Even though our lives have taken us apart, I still consider you a friend.

I have made friends with a few ladies in the business. I treat them with dignity and respect and not like a conquest or a piece of meat.

The few ladies I have met I could and would count as friends even if we do not see each or talk much. Sometimes them knowing you be there for them in a pinch, that is sometimes worth its weight in gold.

[OLindsay]

Of course friendships exists, but understand there is a BIG difference between being a friend and checking on them,verses being a stalker and blowing up emails, text messages and phone calls..
I have met a lot of nice fellas in this business, however I have met some very crazy ones too. You just have to be very very careful because not everyone that is nice to your face, is being not so nice behind your back.

[Guest030114]

Yes.

[mrtee]

I have met several wonderful ladies here and some not so...I try and treat everyone as friend..I text a couple occasionally just to say Hi or to see how things are going. I got into tjis hobby not knowing what to expect. I found out very quickly that this isnt dating site for sure. But that doesnt mean you dont or cant be friendly. I have one provider who is absolutely the cutest sweetest I have met here.. I try to keep in touch some but havent seen her for awhile simply because I know it wouldnt take much for me to get in too deep if she asked. Just set your own boundaries and treat everyone with respect and enjoy..Thats my moto :-)

[pmdelites]

Originally Posted by 4friedchickens

No.

Https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i8kp...e_gdata_player

Originally Posted by theindanguy

I watched it and I loved it, hahaha! So true....

and the best part????
when i clicked, youtube had this great ad for CougarTime.com!!!!!

bunch of good looking hunk construction workers hear a school bell and get prepared to watch all the young women come out.

out comes an attractive 30-something blonde [one guy faints]. she takes off her jacket [next guy shakes his soda], takes off her glasses [next guy puts on coke bottle bottom glasses], removes hair scrunchie-thing and shakes her hair [next guy wipes his brow w/ his sandwich].

camera pulls back and she walks up some steps in front of where they are.
"boys, boys, boys! you CAN date someone just like me!"

[cue the CougarTime.com logo and voiceover]