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Originally Posted by domenic
I'm not speculating on the "why", I have a one stroke policy here though. If I wanted games and wanted to give a partner chances to make things right - I'd be dating instead of hobbying.
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That has been my take, I just haven't said it very well. Those known for NCNS are off my list. I'm not going to pay for drama. If someone can't be courteous to (at the very least) send a text or PM at the first convenience then they have shown that they could care less about you. All this BS of "give her another chance" and "people change" may be fine in a non-competitive world that is not charging anywhere from $150-$400+ an hour.
(and if you are not known for NCNS then this doesn't apply to you. If you are known for it … then as I've said, Live with your reputation!)