Catch 22.

[Taskmaster]

Yes, this does go both ways. I am always surprised when guys say that cancellations are no big deal as it is part of doing business and part of the Hobby.

I also find that many of the ladies don't seem to appreciate what the guys have to do to get to an appt. That is especially true with guys who are married and have demanding jobs. A guy has to create a reasonable alibi for work and home, set aside time from work, sneak around with the whole communication part of it etc. and it may be his one chance this week or this month to have all the variables come together. Then when the lady cancels, or almost as bad, wants to change the time on short notice , it becomes very irritating. If my whole setup is done and I have a noon date planned, I can't suddenly change it to 2 pm. I think many of the ladies , especially the less mature ones, lead a fly by the seat of the pants life and don't get that in the real world, we have schedules.

Last month I had an overnight set up that required a lot of planning and changes to my routine -- from working an extra 2 hours each night early in the week to create the time, to missing a family event, to changing my personal trainer appt. only to have the lady NS/NC me. Then she ignored texts and emails until I saw her posting on ECCIE the next morning and texted her at that time asking if she was ever going to respond and she acted like it was no big deal. Well, yeah, it was a big deal to me.

I imagine the frustration is just as great from the lady when a guy cancels out , and maybe even more so as she is losing the income that she was counting on, which can be substantial with an overnight.

[rke324]

Originally Posted by Doove

i think the real point is that married guys, particularly those with kids, are far more likely to have a "damn good reason" present itself at the last minute.

Each client has their own unique situation whether it be married, single, married w/ kids (and how old are those kids ?), single w/ an S O, etc, etc, . . . THAT is why I keep saying I can only speak for myself. My kids are in collage and for all intense purposes considered adults. Even though I'm married w/ kids, I pose no more a threat to cancel because of a "damn good reason" than the single guy with an S O, a brother and 2 sisters who may call him in an emergency situation.

Originally Posted by Doove

Nevertheless, i doubt that either group is more responsible for cancellations than the other.

Which I've pointed out twice and will wholeheartedly agree with again here.

[Guest042416]

Originally Posted by rke324

THAT is the whole point. We have more, I'll call it responsibilities. I can only speak for myself in saying that with all the BS I have to go thru to free up the time to play, the LAST thing I'm going to do is cancel without a damn good reason. So far in more than a year I've yet to have to cancel. If you are not now or have not ever been married, kids, home, your own business to run, etc, etc . . . then you have no idea. I make 99.9% sure the time I need to see a particular SP is free BEFORE setting an appointment. .

Youre right I have no idea, if I was married or a so I wouldn't be doing this, so I don't understand you guys going through all the cover and cheating and lying just to set up an appointment, so I may not get that all thing. I will say I run my own business and have responsibilities too maybe not as much as a married person, but still responsible and I don't like to cancel unless its an emergency and I get the whole time to book travel, etc.

I think if the escorts took a poll, most of their clients are married, percentage wise, don't know maybe 70 percent who knows, so maybe its a mix bag on who cancels, little bit of both. I kind of agree with cowboy on this one, I think the married guys can have things come up at the last minute OUT OF THIER CONTROL kids, wife etc that we don't have to worry about which would cause them to cancel.

good points on both sides though.

[J.J. Walker]

Originally Posted by Taskmaster

Last month I had an overnight set up

How lovely, spending ample time

[tigerjedi69]

Sometimes shit happens. Keep track and have a "three strike rule", 3 canx appointments and their off the list of people you will see. If they want to see you bad enough the can afford a bump in donation to offset the hole(s) they left in your schedule.

[faith28]

Life happens and I have had to cancel entire tours due to weather conditions, personal things, lack of pre-booked appts ( for a five hr one way trip). I am always honest with the reason for cancelling. I never get upset when I have a cancellation I always thank the persoan for letting me know and remind them I look forward to our next time. :-). Cancellations happen on both sides of the fence.
Stay Warm Everyone

[boyscoutnomore]

AND THAT is why Faith is such a top-level provider. class and courtesy, even when "stuff happens". lovely lady and a true pro.

[Lexxxy]

I agree, faith is an awesome chick

[Autumn Bolan]

Cancellations happen. That's life. I'm referring more to the complete total lack of follow thru, and or the failure to respond period.

[jackfengshui]

[Total hijack]

Nice new pink outfit in your ShowCase - especially when seen in person!

[Tiger]

Autumn's pics don't do her justice. She way prettier in person.
New pic is pretty in pink.

[Autumn Bolan]

Jack,
I feel like I should've asked for an Autograph, lol!
Very happy to have finally met with you!

Tiger,
I'm out of hot chocolate. That means I have to plot and plan to get back to ROC, at some point!
The pics in my Showcase... Hmmm... I'm just not a picture person. Some girls love taking pics, and I try to skate by with very few. I know I need to work on this, and getting some more accurate pics posted.

[jackfengshui]

Originally Posted by Autumn Bolan

Jack,
Very happy to have finally met with you!

The pleasure was all mine!

[ben dover]

The pics in my Showcase... Hmmm... I'm just not a picture person. Some girls love taking pics, and I try to skate by with very few. I know I need to work on this, and getting some more accurate pics posted.[/QUOTE]

Hey if you need photos...I know a guy,,,,, BD

[Doove]

Originally Posted by jackfengshui

Nice new pink outfit in your ShowCase - especially when seen in person!

We await your review.