Provider Preferences

[sms918]

I'll weigh(pun intended) in, I'm one of the larger(weight wise) gentlemen we're talking about. Me personally, I would prefer if a provider that just can't stand heavy guys she put it on her profile clearly.(I tend to assume when they say provide description and weight is listed)
I know she'd take criticism, just like the ones who say no AA, no asians, no guys under 40, no handicapped. But it would save alot of problems when meetings happen and provider is uncomfortable, refuses, or makes hobbyists uncomfortable.

Hobbyists always pick and choose who they prefer and interest them. They want providers to be honest in what they look like, so the same thing doesn't occur when a hobbyist meets a provider and he's uncomfortable or refuses and leaves.

You shouldn't be forced to see anyone you don't want to. It's a business, but there's alot of things I wouldn't do in my job, why should they.

This happens to be my biggest fear, when I joined this hobby. I've met some where this was an issue, but most it hasn't. I was surprised at how accepting people are. Be honest in what you can handle.

Does anyone, hobbyist or provider have any fun or business, if one or both is unable to live fantasy.

Thanks I changed my details to include my weight to make it easier for providers when deciding to see me.

[bamatide]

If a provider has any perferences not stated in her ad, should be mention during the screening process.

Just my 2 cents worth!

[Kit_Kat]

Honestly I think there is something attractive to be found in everyone be it their physical looks, smile wit and charm or any combination there of. That said, I also think girls who do not see larger hobbiests don't put that in their showcase or ads because of the criticism. People give them shit for it but honestly do you really want to have a rushed session where it's obvious the provider doesn't want to be there? Because if she's that uncomfortable it'll show up in the session.

She's doing you a favor by telling you you're better off seeing someone else; she doesn't want to offer you less than the excellent service you're expecting.

[Guest081519]

I'm with Hiker on this one. Sometimes no amount of money will do. You can't force someone to do something they don't want to (no matter how much you pay them). From one fatty to another, ladies tend to get grossed out when you ask them to lick the cheese that accumulates under our man-boobs. SEXY!

Just move on. Some day you'll find someone that will... she may be a two headed fugly mutant... but look at the bright side... at least you don't have to tie a steak around your neck so that the dog will play with you.

I'm just kidding. I hope that your luck improves.

[sms918]

jj hahaha, your funny but sound a little twisted(not unusual here).

steak around the neck and the dog chasing you. reminds me

When we were kids up north, at christmas we would go about 1 hr or 2 away to a tree farm to find and cut down our christmas tree. On the way was a health retreat. My dad every year would tell the story of how that how they got people to lose weight. Tie a steak around their necks and give them a head start and have the dogs chase them. We would see these groups jogging and be looking for the steaks and the dogs.(never saw them)


Back on topic, just like everybody tells providers, don't take it personally and find one that will see you. I can tell they are out there. Some have been very nice to me. Their all types, shapes, sizes, ages, colors, ethics. It's the person.

[Guest081519]

Originally Posted by sms918

jj hahaha, your funny but sound a little twisted(not unusual here).

You have no idea.

[guy fawkes]

In light of revelations about providers that hate husky gentlemen, do you think they (providers) should list "no fat guys" in their profiles? Some say "no black guys", so "no fat guys" would alleviate any questions,

A majority of providers cover this items because they ask Height Weight and age in their correspondence.
When a provider sees a client I am sure she knows that Brad Pitt and Denzel Washington is not walking through the door.
Some of us are thin, muscled, husky. It takes all types.
We are the asking the women to provide us with a fantasy or relief from our lives. I am sure they are not asking us to be Ryan Gosling, but to be clean, courteous, and respectful during our time together. (And have the proper donation)

[Guest101314]

Originally Posted by NikkiWhite

I agree with u sweetie if a provider judges based on looks she should make that clear instead of wasting people's time. I personally like a squishy guy to bounce on lol. Sometimes skinny+skinny = bruised thighs lol.

+1

[Guest101314]

Originally Posted by guy fawkes

A majority of providers cover this items because they ask Height Weight and age in their correspondence.
When a provider sees a client I am sure she knows that Brad Pitt and Denzel Washington is not walking through the door.
Some of us are thin, muscled, husky. It takes all types.
We are the asking the women to provide us with a fantasy or relief from our lives. I am sure they are not asking us to be Ryan Gosling, but to be clean, courteous, and respectful during our time together. (And have the proper donation)

Exactly. But I have been surprised with a few handsome blokes.

Honestly, I don't have any sort of discrimination. I find it really odd when a few of my asian clients have asked if I have any issues with seeing them because they were asian. UM NO!!! And the fact that someone would is very disconcerting to me.

As long as you're clean, relaxed and can hold a little conversation (humor is a plus!), we will have a good time!

[Hollywood101]

Originally Posted by guy fawkes

A majority of providers cover this items because they ask Height Weight and age in their correspondence.
When a provider sees a client I am sure she knows that Brad Pitt and Denzel Washington is not walking through the door.
Some of us are thin, muscled, husky. It takes all types.
We are the asking the women to provide us with a fantasy or relief from our lives. I am sure they are not asking us to be Ryan Gosling, but to be clean, courteous, and respectful during our time together. (And have the proper donation)

Exactly, well said guy fawkes. 👍

[Precious_b]

You probably nailed it Guy

[Bungalow Bill]

No idea of the providers this has occurred with, but I would speculate it's better not to choose petite providers. Physical limitations I would think would be a consideration of theirs.