Just want to put this out there;
I have heard this rap before and from various people who do not seen to have connection to each other....not saying it is not true or advocating anything but unless you have physical proof or firsthand knowledge maybe don't dive head first.
Maybe in another thread we could cull all "woe is me", "my plight as a provider", and "save me please kind sir!!!! (with money)" back stories.
Not that all ladies do it but the story plots are often so similar I have been very tempted to finish the story for them. I am cynical by nature so perhaps I am the odd duck and the common path and plot twist are real
Either way good luck on your quest to change behavior through the Internet.