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Carlylov · 12-11-2013, 11:24 PM

In order to enjoy the services of an escort, you need to learn how to discuss their services properly. Escorts do not sell sex. In fact, you can almost guarantee a bad experience with any escort if you ask her how much it will cost to have sex with her. Escorts sell their time. What happens during the time spent with an escort is between two or more consenting adults who posses similar likes and interests. Escorts are like any other woman, if you are nice, clean, respectful, polite and fun to be around she will probably like you enough to consider getting closer to you. However, you must do your part first. If you walk into this with any expectations, you will only frustrate and disappoint yourself. Leave the donation in a plain envelope. Place the envelope on the table or dresser in plain sight. All escorts will tell you what they expect in pay before they arrive. Do not make the escort ask you for money. The escort will assume you are trying to rip her off. When attempting to arrange a meeting with an escort, please keep the conversation polite, simple and clean.
No talk about sex.. PERIOD! If you are inappropriate or disrespectful during the conversation with her, the meeting will be terminated. Don't be mean, on drugs, drunk, or try to rip your escort off. If you treat an escort badly, not only won't she see again, but she may also blacklist you. If this happens your name will go on a bad client lists so other escorts will not see you either. Always assume that someone knows where the escort is at all times. Just because the escort is an independent provider does not mean
that she does not inform someone of her where abouts. Its a cautionary measure girls take to insure their safety. So, just think of your time with the escort as any other date. Relax, have fun, and just be cool.

DestinyInKC · 12-12-2013, 12:16 AM

+1000

magicallydelicious · 12-12-2013, 01:30 AM

+ten million... I think this should be part of the regulations

pmdelites · 12-12-2013, 05:12 AM

carlylov, added some line breaks to make it easier to read.

good info about the techniques and procedures wrt escorting/providing.

however, if this came from some website or book, it's a good idea to give credit to the author. just as you would prolly want credit if someone quoted/used your thoughts elsewhere.

when i websearched for "All escorts will tell you what they expect in pay before they arrive." lots of hits but didnt that exact sentence.

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In order to enjoy the services of an escort, you need to learn how to discuss their services properly.

Escorts do not sell sex. In fact, you can almost guarantee a bad experience with any escort if you ask her how much it will cost to have sex with her.

Escorts sell their time. What happens during the time spent with an escort is between two or more consenting adults who posses similar likes and interests.

Escorts are like any other woman, if you are nice, clean, respectful, polite and fun to be around she will probably like you enough to consider getting closer to you. However, you must do your part first. If you walk into this with any expectations, you will only frustrate and disappoint yourself.

Leave the donation in a plain envelope. Place the envelope on the table or dresser in plain sight. All escorts will tell you what they expect in pay before they arrive. Do not make the escort ask you for money. The escort will assume you are trying to rip her off.

When attempting to arrange a meeting with an escort, please keep the conversation polite, simple and clean.

No talk about sex.. PERIOD! If you are inappropriate or disrespectful during the conversation with her, the meeting will be terminated.

Don't be mean, on drugs, drunk, or try to rip your escort off. If you treat an escort badly, not only won't she see again, but she may also blacklist you.

If this happens your name will go on a bad client lists so other escorts will not see you either.

Always assume that someone knows where the escort is at all times. Just because the escort is an independent provider does not mean
that she does not inform someone of her where abouts. Its a cautionary measure girls take to insure their safety.

So, just think of your time with the escort as any other date.

Relax, have fun, and just be cool.

pmdelites · 12-12-2013, 05:13 AM

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Originally Posted by magicallydelicious

+ten million... I think this should be part of the regulations

yep, they should be required readings.
but, for better or worse, eccie only has guidelines, not regulations or rules.

Carlylov · 12-12-2013, 09:12 AM

thanks for the advice I'll keep that in mind for next time, and no it was not copied and pasted. I noticed there's been a lot of talk on the board about services and how to conduct yourself, so I thought it would be helpful to post this as a friendly reminder. because I would hate for one of you gents to miss out on seeing a wonderful lady because you're not sure how to setup a date.

Quote:

Originally Posted by pmdelites

carlylov, added some line breaks to make it easier to read.

good info about the techniques and procedures wrt escorting/providing.

however, if this came from some website or book, it's a good idea to give credit to the author. just as you would prolly want credit if someone quoted/used your thoughts elsewhere.

when i websearched for "All escorts will tell you what they expect in pay before they arrive." lots of hits but didnt that exact sentence.

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In order to enjoy the services of an escort, you need to learn how to discuss their services properly.

Escorts do not sell sex. In fact, you can almost guarantee a bad experience with any escort if you ask her how much it will cost to have sex with her.

Escorts sell their time. What happens during the time spent with an escort is between two or more consenting adults who posses similar likes and interests.

Escorts are like any other woman, if you are nice, clean, respectful, polite and fun to be around she will probably like you enough to consider getting closer to you. However, you must do your part first. If you walk into this with any expectations, you will only frustrate and disappoint yourself.

Leave the donation in a plain envelope. Place the envelope on the table or dresser in plain sight. All escorts will tell you what they expect in pay before they arrive. Do not make the escort ask you for money. The escort will assume you are trying to rip her off.

When attempting to arrange a meeting with an escort, please keep the conversation polite, simple and clean.

No talk about sex.. PERIOD! If you are inappropriate or disrespectful during the conversation with her, the meeting will be terminated.

Don't be mean, on drugs, drunk, or try to rip your escort off. If you treat an escort badly, not only won't she see again, but she may also blacklist you.

If this happens your name will go on a bad client lists so other escorts will not see you either.

Always assume that someone knows where the escort is at all times. Just because the escort is an independent provider does not mean
that she does not inform someone of her where abouts. Its a cautionary measure girls take to insure
So, just think of your time with the escort as any other date.

Relax, have fun, and just be cool.

Helicopter206 · 12-12-2013, 09:18 AM

So what page has the Menu Listed, does and don'ts. (GFE or PSE or None of the Above)
That way no sex positions will be discussed, likes and Hell No I won't...
having all information before hand make's for a better meeting.

Sure the Provider Count the Donation in front of the Client...???
Before or After...???

Wizard of Ahhhhs · 12-12-2013, 09:23 AM

So, is asking a lady if they tick kosher..??

Nia Baby · 12-12-2013, 09:30 AM

Carly LOV!!! Thanks for this babe... I think all guys and girls should read this

Carlylov · 12-12-2013, 09:38 AM

yes I agree with you helicopter they should have that posted on their website. I don't think it's the donations that is become a problem, I don't mind being asked the donations but I do have a problem when someone calls an ask can I put my finger in your WHOO.. Or can I do this and that.

I understand that you want to know what services are rendered but there's a way to conduct yourself when setting up an appointment in this industry, if I told every Tom Dick and Harry that called my phone about my menu then I would most likely run into an LE at some point in time.

I want to be comfortable with you the last thing I want to do is walk into a date and my nerves are jumping off the wall because you don't know the proper steps.

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Originally Posted by Helicopter206

So what page has the Menu Listed on.
That way no sex or positions will discussed.
having all information before hand make's for a better meeting.

DestinyInKC · 12-12-2013, 10:05 AM

Yes I agree all ladies should have a menu. I have a complete menu on my website and it has helped a lot

Indefinable Ms. M · 12-12-2013, 10:38 AM

This thread from National Main Discussion may help some in composing PM's or emails to providers

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=915320

Although a description is nice, that happens very rarely.

JS42 · 12-12-2013, 10:39 AM

Bottom Line for the guys: Have some common sense and common courtesy.

The providers definitely need to have a complete menu. That would help eliminate most of the guys asking the dreaded "activities question". Especially when a provider expands her menu or contracts it. Case in point, there is a provider I am interested in seeing who expanded her services. No new reviews yet to know exactly what the new activities are that comes with the new services. I did extensive research and was able to figure out, for the most part, what she does or doesn't offer on activities. We all know research is important in this hobby, but atleast with eccie providers, a guy shouldn't have to dig deep to come to some sort of conclusion.

Bottom Line providers: If you don't want the dreaded questions asked, have a clear cut menu.

R. Stone Jr. · 12-12-2013, 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted by JS42

Bottom Line providers: If you don't want the dreaded questions asked, have a clear cut menu.

This is great advice.

DestinyInKC · 12-12-2013, 01:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JS42

Bottom Line for the guys: Have some common sense and common courtesy.

The providers definitely need to have a complete menu. That would help eliminate most of the guys asking the dreaded "activities question". Especially when a provider expands her menu or contracts it. Case in point, there is a provider I am interested in seeing who expanded her services. No new reviews yet to know exactly what the new activities are that comes with the new services. I did extensive research and was able to figure out, for the most part, what she does or doesn't offer on activities. We all know research is important in this hobby, but atleast with eccie providers, a guy shouldn't have to dig deep to come to some sort of conclusion.

Bottom Line providers: If you don't want the dreaded questions asked, have a clear cut menu.

Yes, I even had to add a couple of the things I DO NOT offer at the bottom for people who asked anyway. I point people in the direction of my menu in all of my ads, my signature and in my showcase.So if they ask me now what my menu is or if something is or isn't on it I know at that point that they did not do their research before contacting me.