What is a high class provider to you?

[Marcus Aurelius]

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[Ansley]

Ooops, I didn't see the link. I could have gone all day, probably the rest of the year without seeing something, how shall I put it... that different? Red rubber bands would have made a better statement.

[Ansley]

Originally Posted by Marcus Aurelius

Blank post is when it's tagged private; For premium members viewing.

Thanks Marcus. I thought those were only used in the review sections. That's what I get for thinking.

[LNK]

Originally Posted by Ansley

What does a blank post mean?

That the comment is made using PRIVATE tags, which limits the viewers to those (putative) male members who have Premium Access.

Edit: Sorry, didn't see the thread was on to the next page, and answered the question that had already had a response.

[pjorourke]

Originally Posted by Ansley

I agree that experience is a much better way to learn, than to just watch. I was mainly thinking of learning appropriate attire and how ladies carry themselves in nice places. To have a (male) mentor to learn from would be fantastic.

A quick piece of advice -- loose the acrylic 7" heels.

[Marcus Aurelius]

Looks like things are growing in there.

[MrNaughty]

Originally Posted by pjorourke

A quick piece of advice -- loose the acrylic 7" heels.

Another thing is manners, know how to present yourself. There are reasons why the classic teachings of cotillion classes survive to this day. It is important for any Gentleman or Lady to know how to conduct themselves, although it was humorous in Pretty Woman, in real life it is just embarrassing for all parties. Think summer weekend in the Hampton's, although that has gotten watered down with the nouveau riche, and ill mannered ill behaved celebs. A natural flowing class and poise will be a lot of work and training, it is something that one is not born with it is taught over many years usually, although most of it is just common sense. You develop this and with some of the other good advise that has been presented here you should easily realize your goal.

I am not saying you are ill mannered, just saying one of the biggest differences I have noticed is a sense of refinement. Good luck to you!

[Gentlemen Rendezvous]

Presentation, attitude, delivery, discretion

Presentation - present yourself as a lady, a courtesan, a companion. From you showcase, to your website, to your profile, present yourself as someone not involved with the BNG / half hour, use 50 symbols in my ad crowd. The fastest way for me to cross a lady off my list is for her to advertise 15 or 30 minute session.

Attitude - keep an attitude of giving your companions the exact experience they would hope for. Friendly, attentive to TCB, responsive, willing to engage in pre-meeting banter/flirting. An email from a lady a few days in advance saying "really looking forward to seeing you" goes along way.

Delivery - nice in calls, nice part of town, clean, and with the feeling that no one else is there or will be there. On an outcall, dress appropriately for a business hotel. No need to broadcast to the world why you are there. Be yourself BCD in fulfilling his fantasy. He chose you based one what he has read and seen. Many to choose from, realizing and acknowledging his selection of you, pursuit of you, should be flattering and appreciated.

Discretion - select your clients wisely. Have an air of mystery around you. Don't have 15 pictures of your backside on your website, have 5-10 good pictures of you in a variety of looks, leave something to the imagination and mystery. And finally, be discreet when in public with your dates.

I echo the comments about hygiene, nails, hair, etc, etc, etc.

[Tiffani Jameson]

There's no crash course for being a high class provider. Being a high class person and provider are the same thing. If you don't have the means to live a lavish life, or do things that require an above average financial situation, then don't fake it. Just find that balance between the value you have for yourself, and the amount you can charge in order to make ends meet where the phone won't stop ringing.

Being high class is a state of mind. I don't know how your got your start, or why you decided to become a companion. But there are companions of all types advertising on the internet. Being that you are married, I would think that you two would put a great deal amount of thought into the way you would work as a companion. Deciding to start with half hour sessions says a lot. I'm not judging you, but I'm just saying. It says a lot about your business sense, needs, and attitude.

Balance is key. Live your life. You should not be focused on 'becoming' an HDH. HDH's are HDH's because they can be. They are so many things, and just looking the part is only the beginning. If you can't afford to wait on clients at HDH rates, don't attempt it just for the hell of it. There is no shame in working the way you HAVE TO in order for you to make it.

One day, you and your husband will have everything you need in order to meet your goals. Your wardrobe will be the envy of all women. You will have been so many places, and done so many things, and accomplished so much. There will be nothing to do but celebrate, vacate, and appreciate. At that point, you will be a HDH, and you can charge whatever you want.

Just something to think about. All the best to you and yours!

[awl4knot]

Tiffani, reading your post made me think of "Breakfast at Tiffany's" which is about a country girl from Tulip Texas who becomes a HDH in NYC. In so many ways reading that short, perfectly written novel will help those aspiring to reach higher levels. And learning how to write like you!

[NinaBrooke]

For me the search for the unicorn ... ah high class provider ..... seems to be like Morpheus explaining the Matrix to "The Dude" (Big Lebowski)

This is so funny

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xqqIUxZTdVc


you can make posts private now? Awesome...... ))))))))))))
ps: How does that work for ladies on here??? I need to be a paid member?

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by christina86

I aspire to be one, so tell me; what makes a girl high class in your opinion?

Inquiring minds want to know!

You might want to watch "Belle de Jour" - the Series based on Brooke Magnantis life as an escort. It is called "Secret diary of a Callgirl" . Dress Code is very important.

See the video below is also nice in explaining the difference... in a fun way.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AVAuH12cvXQ

[Tiffani Jameson]

Originally Posted by awl4knot

Tiffani, reading your post made me think of "Breakfast at Tiffany's" which is about a country girl from Tulip Texas who becomes a HDH in NYC. In so many ways reading that short, perfectly written novel will help those aspiring to reach higher levels. And learning how to write like you!

Hmm. I never saw Breakfast at Tiffani's that way. But I do get the connection.

I saw that she was a girl chasing a dollar without any thought. I would classify Holly as a dreamer, not an HDH. Someone taught her to lose her accent, and hobnob in the best circles, but in the end she was no wealthy man's prize.

It may work sometimes, but not everyone can be that flighty and have things work out. It's best to be as smart as one can be.

[Guest021214]

Tiffani imparted a lot of wisdom. My grandmother was a blue-collar woman married to a coal miner, but she had class. She was clean, well-spoken, polite, reserved and respectful. As Tiffani correctly said, having class is a state of mind. In my eyes, one who exhibits kind and respectful behavior is a classy individual and worthy of respect. Matters of the material world aren't a reflection of being a classy individual.

The world is full of foolish experts, critics and enthusiasts. Expensive clothing, good taste in dining and knowing how to spend money reflect knowledge of given material issues but offer absolutely no insight into whether someone is respect worthy. In other words, worldly doesn't mean classy.

Regarding fees, I'd like to share my thoughts. When I visit Eccie or P411 and find a girl I'm interested in seeing, fees aren't a primary concern. I see girls in all price ranges. Most of the girls I've liked as of late have been in the $300-500/hr range, though some have had very nice multi-hour visit discounts. In my experience, a woman's fees in the $300-1200/hour have had little to no correlation with the quality of my visit as well as the accuracy of her biography. I've seen some very expensive women with some incredibly bad attitudes and women whose services were more modestly priced who never cease to amaze me.

In the end, no matter what you do in life, it's a good idea to strive to be a classy person. It makes life easier.

Regarding the impact of being classy on one's fees as an escort, remember that you'll never be everything to everybody. Character driven clients like me will visit a girl irrespective of her fees, whereas price driven clients will stay within a given price point.

One thing that hurts your image in my eyes is the presence of your husband. Whether he's living out his cuckold fantasy, the two of you have a hot wife fantasy or if you just like a lot of sex and he has to live with it this way or the way of an affair, we don't need to and shouldn't know about it, at least not until we know you well. Another consideration is that as a client, I like to pamper the women I visit, but I don't like to feed her husband or boyfriend. Some will appreciate your open disclosure; most of us will not. We want the fantasy, and if we mutually decide to develop a close client/provider relationship, the discussion of RW lives is open game.

Good luck!

[Guest062114-5]

Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

Hmm. I never saw Breakfast at Tiffani's that way. But I do get the connection.

I saw that she was a girl chasing a dollar without any thought. I would classify Holly as a dreamer, not an HDH. Someone taught her to lose her accent, and hobnob in the best circles, but in the end she was no wealthy man's prize.

It may work sometimes, but not everyone can be that flighty and have things work out. It's best to be as smart as one can be.

When they adapted the novella, they made Holly less hookerish than the book. But your description is spot on in the film.