INCONCEIVABLE!!

[DestinyInKC]

Originally Posted by JS42

Why am I not surprised when it comes to this guy? Some people are clueless......in the hobby, or in real life.

I think that some people believe that because we are "hookers" they can talk to us any way they would like. The words that come out of some peoples mouths makes a great screening tool.

[Carlylov]

Originally Posted by DestinyInKC

I put a disclaimer on my bp ads. Not sure why, just always have lol
I also say no texting because the conversation a guy can hold with you is another big part of screening. You can tell a lot about a person by the way they speak to you. I do not mind texting clients I have met before though.

I'm the same way. And omg I love ur heels..!

[DestinyInKC]

Originally Posted by Carlylov

I'm the same way. And omg I love ur heels..!

Thank you! I did too until my puppy ate them the other day LOL

[Carlylov]

[QUOTE=DestinyInKC;1054685854]I put a disclaimer on my bp ads. Not sure why, just always have lol
I also say no texting because the conversation a guy can hold with you is another big part of screening. You can tell a lot about a person by the way they speak to you. I do not mind texting clients I have

Awe.. I so had that happen to me..

[Bomb Pop]

ME TOO!!!!! (ok not really, I just wanted to be part of the cool kids for a sec.)

[wmnizer122]

The issue of grammar is always laughable, however when they add "intelligent" it's just too much.

[blade76]

Originally Posted by JS42

Why am I not surprised when it comes to this guy? Some people are clueless......in the hobby, or in real life.

Some people seem to think this place is like a store, where we pick out goods we want, or we ask about goods we want
I didnt know this place is full of secret handshakes and subtle crap..(drama)
That's what I'm trying to avoid by coming here...I avoid drama by directing asking what I want and not playing games, that's why I pay cash for what I want instead of games.
I thought this was a place where goods/services were sold. I didnt realize that everyone thinks they are gods gift to men and they should be treated like super queens.
if they were super queens, they wouldnt be posting on this site or in the skin trade, right?



See, when I go to a store and I want to find where the plasma TVs are, and I see a person who works at the store, I bluntly ask them "where are the plasma TVs"?

They don't ever respond to me, "OMG WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU?
1stly, DO YOUR F***** research, we have SIGNS all over the place
2nd, how DARE YOU come into MY STORE/where we sell these things, and USE SUCH VULGAR LANGUAGE such as naming WHat you want!
OMG! "

[blade76]

Originally Posted by DestinyInKC

I think that some people believe that because we are "hookers" they can talk to us any way they would like. The words that come out of some peoples mouths makes a great screening tool.

no, people are thinking you are selling a product and when asked about that product, you get mad....
tells us all about what a provider thinks of herself and how the customer will be treated.

Most of the provider ads I see have what is termed
MISPLACED CONFIDENCE

[bbwlover]

I can't think of the tits that are worth 100 just to see. But, if your interest has been piqued, you should check it out. And please ask those other folks to stop trying to peak at my interest. That's rude, unless it's a double date.

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

Originally Posted by blade76

...I thought this was a place where goods/services were sold. I didn't realize that everyone thinks they are gods gift to men and they should be treated like super queens. If they were super queens, they wouldn't be posting on this site or in the skin trade, right?

Originally Posted by blade76

no, people are thinking you are selling a product and when asked about that product, you get mad.... tells us all about what a provider thinks of herself and how the customer will be treated.

Welcome to the board, blade. Enjoy your time!

[bbwlover]

Sorry. My previous post was primarily I response to WhiteGentleman. I didn't realize I had skipped a whole page of responses.

Blade, ( I hope this doesn't go too far off topic)
What's being traded here is information; not services or goods. Unfortunately, the world we live in requires us to be a little more guarded in how we, as an Escorts and Clients Community, choose to handle our Information Exchanges. At a Best Buy, Johnny Law doesn't come running in the room if you ask for the price of a plasma vs HDTV. If he did, you might ask "do you like TV? I like TV. What kind do you have? ( wink wink)." Or you'd carefully read the reviews and quietly "drop" your money on the appropriate aisle, and just walk out with the TV and hope management didn't come chasing after you for dropping on the wrong aisle or being short.




The point is: being respectful and tasteful in contacting the ladies has been mostly halpful for me. The other thing is doing your "F****** research!!!" LOL

[blade76]

Originally Posted by bbwlover

Sorry. My previous post was primarily I response to WhiteGentleman. I didn't realize I had skipped a whole page of responses.

Blade, ( I hope this doesn't go too far off topic)
What's being traded here is information; not services or goods. Unfortunately, the world we live in requires us to be a little more guarded in how we, as an Escorts and Clients Community, choose to handle our Information Exchanges. At a Best Buy, Johnny Law doesn't come running in the room if you ask for the price of a plasma vs HDTV. If he did, you might ask "do you like TV? I like TV. What kind do you have? ( wink wink)." Or you'd carefully read the reviews and quietly "drop" your money on the appropriate aisle, and just walk out with the TV and hope management didn't come chasing after you for dropping on the wrong aisle or being short.




The point is: being respectful and tasteful in contacting the ladies has been mostly halpful for me. The other thing is doing your "F****** research!!!" LOL

LOL
Asking someone if something is on the "menu", doesnt mean I didnt do research, It means I don't see if so WHATS THE HARM IN ASKING
The harm was the girl wigged out, as I mentioned.
Johnny law has arrested some for some PMs?
really?
nope, don't buy it.

[Indefinable Ms. M]

Originally Posted by blade76

LOL
Asking someone if something is on the "menu", doesnt mean I didnt do research, It means I don't see if so WHATS THE HARM IN ASKING
The harm was the girl wigged out, as I mentioned.
Johnny law has arrested some for some PMs?
really?
nope, don't buy it.

It's not just about Johnny Law. You sir are a new member here and have no reviews/no references as I can see. For all a provider knows is that you could be an ex, co worker of their RL job, pimp, the possibilities are endless.
Safety of all is a major factor in this Hobby.

Discretion and respect are also factors in this Hobby. Rudeness and smart ass comments either here in forums or PM's to Providers will not help you get references.

This is the Provider's business, you are the customer. If you go into a restaurant or store and are rude to the staff, would you get away with it? NO you wouldn't. There are situations that the Customer is not always right

[blade76]

Originally Posted by Indefinable Ms. M

This is the Provider's business, you are the customer. If you go into a restaurant or store and are rude to the staff, would you get away with it? NO you wouldn't. There are situations that the Customer is not always right

BINGO

Lets take that restaurant analogy and use it as what actually happened with Destiny

I was not rude
I asked if she had XXX on her menu, same as you would at a restaurant,
ME--Can I have an eggwhite omeltte.?
HER--WHAT THE F** IS WRONG WITH YOU? READ THE MENU< DO YOU SEE IT ON THERE!
HOW DARE YOU ASK FOR SOMETHING using SUCH VULGAR LANGUAGE AS WHAT IT IS CALLED!

and she lashed out

that's what happened

I even apologized to her and asked her what i did wrong, she accused me of being someone else and told me I wasnt allowed to asked for stuff by name.

Can you tell she's still taking the stance,"I did no wrong"

You all seemed so pussy whipped on this board,

[DestinyInKC]

I made a mistake bringing this on the board but I felt the need to say something when you made that comment yesterday on this thread.
I think my clients know I am a very level headed girl.. In my response to you I was calm and polite simply saying I was not interested in booking with you and not to contact me any further. You kept messaging so I let you know what you did wrong. Like it or not its not my problem since I am not booking with you. You didn't like what I said and now you are showing me another reason I am glad I immediately chose to not be interested in having a conversation with you. I choose who I do and do not want to see for ANY reason I choose. If you come at a girl inappropriately in the very first message then she may just choose not to see you. If she does choose to have that conversation with you in the very first message ever then I would be concerned about her discretion. That message you sent me may have been better suited and had a much nicer response if you would have taken the time to have a conversation with me first before being so immediately vuglar.I am done with this conversation since there is nothing more on my end that needs to be said. Have a great day sir. I am very sorry for taking this thread off topic and it wont happen again.