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Originally Posted by LilMynx69
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IMHO, a gym (though a good idea) won't do as much to help as going to some upscale places and observing how higher class ladies (not hookers) act and interact with rich men. And reading news magazines, watching news channels, attending cultural events to improve her knowledge base.
Some general hints:
Observe everything, like clothing and hair styles and go to Nordstrom. Ask a salesperson to help pick out a few very nicely tailored pieces from the clearance rack...then go to Marshall's or TJ Maxx and look for similar pieces. While at Nordstrom, get measured to find out your true and accurate bra size. Again, get one nice set and then look for similars at the outlets or online.
For hair, you need to go to Dry Bar at Uptown Park and have them wash and style your hair. It cost $35 and if you pay attention, you can learn to do it yourself. For $10 extra dollars, you can have then put in clip in extensions (any hottie's best friend). Go to Mari Hari to get color matched, then order them online for a 1/3 of the price.
Never go out without the nails done and a fresh pedicure. Keep a set of matching glue-on nails in your purse in case you break a nail and need a quick fix. Nothing says trashy like messed up nails. Blood red, French or pale pink nails are probably your best bet.
Drink Martinis...preferably a real one and not some silly apple tiny or chocotini...think classic cocktail. A sidecar is a great drink that will sometimes inspire a conversation. If you smoke (I suggest not but if you do), use a cigarette case. Have calling cards (personal business cards with your name, tel., email) printed on nice card stock with raised print, to give to people you meet.
Go to nice restaurant bars at happy hour...make friends with the bartenders. Chat them up and find out other nice places to go or when the bar gets full. Be friendly, but don't ever "work the bar." Tip well, but not obnoxiously.
In a short amount of time, if you are a quick study, you can greatly improve your social circle as well as your ability to attract more upscale clients. Most of the time at upscale bars, someone will offer to pay your tab or buy you a drink. Always accept, graciously and NEVER offer to buy a man a drink. It's unseemly.
Good luck.
LMx
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Great stuff L Mx...
1. That's the lady I like to meet
2. Smart in many ways both toy hobby and IRL
3. A version of this advice will be going to a.) my daughters when it is time b.) a young lady that will benefit for other objectives
Thank you
I hope the OP got the post too ...
Really like the way you think.