I only say the first few seconds. It looked, initially, hot.
The issue that I have with all of the back and forth snowball play is that after orgasm, most of the time, men are done.
And it's rather gross to play with jism at times. I know that I might have just lost business by saying this but Jesus, sometimes it's alright to just say no.
It's the excessive "playing" that I often don't get. So I see your conundrum.
I took a few days off this past weekend. And a few other days during the previous week. I'm trying to find some balance.
I'll let you know how that's working out for me.
With wanton thoughts and intent,
Elisabeth