Thank you!

[SweetCara]

I would like to send much to all of you that have supported me with my alert I posted this morning. I took a great risk doing so, as he threatened me with a bad review if I did.
However, I'm not afraid of him trying to ruin my reputation. If someone chooses not to see me because of one bad review out of SEVERAL amazing reviews, then I am sure I wouldn't want to meet that person anyway.
And I am also confident in posting the alert because unlike him, I have PMs, emails and screenshots of texts to prove what I say is true.
I would also like all you ladies to know that my main reason for posting the alert wasn't only to let you know he shorted me, but to let you know that he was a complete jerk and I don't want it to happen to anyone else.


Now, for the point of this thread. I would like to start by apologizing in advance. But gentlemen, because of the actions of NOT ONLY this gentleman but also another gentleman I met a few weeks ago (who just didn't reply AT ALL to my PMs or texts) I now have a new rule for donations. From now on, I ask that you place my donation in an envelope and when you arrive please go to the bathroom to "freshen up" and place the donation in the restroom. I will then go in behind you to freshen up.
If I am coming to meet you at your location then please have the donation in an envelope sitting in your restroom and I will freshen up when I arrive.
This only applies to any new gentlemen that I meet in the future. All of you that I already know, you do not have to worry about it.
Again, I apologize that things have to been this way. And I hope you can all understand why they are.
I look forward to enjoying the company of more new friends in the future. Thank you for listening to me. Have a lovely weekend and STAY WARM.

[nerdy123]

Sorry that happened to you Ma'am. I always donate up front one way or the other.

[Guest010619]

I always use a greeting card, just seems nicer.

[jtmtexas]

That's a good idea Cara. Should alleviate any potential discrepancy in what's been agreed upon.

[Ez5417]

Totally agree with the routine. I too will be reinforcing this particular routine. I haven't had any purposeful " shortage" however I have had many "confused" gents on rates specials etc. .... I never say anything to those personally as I do understand, seeing how it usually isn't discussed... But it's easier for both anyway.

Ty for the post babe.

[phillyintexas]

My method is just the reverse but it ends with the same result. I leave an unsealed envelope in the open and excuse myself to the restroom. That gives the provider, if she so wishes, the opportunity to check the envelope.