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Originally Posted by cunning
………... That said it is just meaningless sex. …………....
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Meaningless? I don't think so. All human activity has a meaning. Sex is fun, it is pleasurable. But most important, the orgasm is much more than a physical pleasure; it is a mental pleasure that affects the pleasure area of the brain that brings all of an intense satisfaction. It is a pleasure to both give and receive. The result is that it calms all of us and brings satisfaction to our lives. That is why our species, and all species, procreate. Without the pleasure and satisfaction, how would we produce enough offspring for the species to survive. Even my tom cat knows that. The old guy, still has to go out at night to meet his women.
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Originally Posted by cunning
…………... There is not nor should be emotional attachment. Yet I read reviews that are a laundry list of positions and inuindo the woman involved begging for or wanted intimacy. …………………....
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One thing you should have figured out by now sony: emotional attachment is very precious and hard to find. You have to work at it, because it is worth it. The emotional commitment is what we all want, and the support of family and friends. The love between a woman and a man is so very special, when you are able to find it. It is so very heart breaking when you are separated from one that you truly love.
I know, I have lost two wives and I am caring for a third wife who I love very much. It is great to have three families, even if my physical needs are separate. Don't ever confuse the two areas of your life.
A big thank you to the girls who held me and gave me sex, even if it is not love, after loosing two different wives. I surely wasn't going to ask for sex from friends or relatives. I had children left, and they were the most important area of my live. I had a mother, and a mother-in-law to help me raise the kids while I worked. I have the brothers, sisters, and mother-in-law from the second marriage. I have the step children and grandchildren from the third marriage.
Recognize the difference between meeting your responsibilities as a man, a father, a husband and a leader in the community. Society does not look favorable on anything that threatens the family, and the girls that may or may not compete with the wives may not be looked at favorably.
There need not be competition for there to be perceived competition. So keep your mouth shut about the hobby to all of your friends and family. It will come back on you.
The ladies we meet are sure to have problems with acceptance. Just think about their position. Try to love them, just a little, when you see them. It will do you good. It is not a commitment. Why should one fear being kind to others. I recognize mean people. One can preferably avoid them, but I still keep a gun in my desk even though I very seldom have to reach for it.
I was lucky to have found a second wife who would help with the children and be an emotional companion and partner. I lost her too, and again visited some of the girls. Recognize that your life and responsibilities come first. It is the same for all of us, man or woman. Our personal needs may be important, but they are secondary.
These ladies here are just people, and should be respected as such. So cut out the insults. We may not respect the rip off girls who will only use us. None of us need that. In your search for the physical you will find those who are not worth the effort, the time or the money you spend to be with them. So don't see them. Go out and meet some good people.
There are some very special and caring ladies here. We need to treat them all with respect. Just because someone doesn't meet my preferences doesn't mean I should be insulting. I apologize for criticizing one who likes whips and chains. I just don't comprehend why someone would enjoy being beaten, or beating someone else. If I don't like it, I don't have see these individuals.
Just do your homework. You probably will not find true love here, but it can help get your mind in order so that you remain calm, respectful and selective when you are looking for the lady would like for establish a commitment with.
JR
My Bio Page - Colorado - Denver
