Question for providers about prescreening?

[sms918]

I saw Candi's thread about providers and references, my question is recently I thought about prescreening. Usually I see providers through p411 and ones I see more than once, so I haven't had any real issues with references. P411 makes things alot easier and I'm still not that comfortable asking for references. I don't plan ahead alot and realize that providers have trouble screening in a couple of hours. I didn't want to get prescreened for a provider or several providers that I wasn't going to see that day or the next, like some hobbyist mention doing.

After all that my question is, do you think getting prescreened by provider or providers weeks ahead of time is a good idea, or do feel this is just a waste of a provider's time until you commit to a time and day?

[Guest061815-1]

Pre-screening has always worked well for me, and there's some science behind why it's a good idea. Popular providers are bombarded with messages every day. But once they've focused on you long enough to get you verified and approved, even if weeks or months go by before your next contact, while they may not remember your handle right away they will see your avatar and the visual cortex will immediately send a "I've seen this before and it's OK" message, and instead of going through the approval process again the response you get from the provider is, "When do you want to meet?"

[Samcro84]

Agree with PDid 100%, I always do pre-screening. Have done the same a couple of weeks out. So she is not having to do a last minute ok.

[Guest101314]

Prescreening is the best in my opinion. I hate having to wait on ok emails especially if the guy is wanting an appointment that day. It's like watching a pot of water try to boil. If you want to see a certain gal, send her your info a few days out if you can.

And guys, why do you feel scared to ask for references?? Don't be, I'm more than happy to vouch for those of you that have been cool, including you sms918.

[thatgirlbailey]

Originally Posted by PDid

Pre-screening has always worked well for me, and there's some science behind why it's a good idea. Popular providers are bombarded with messages every day. But once they've focused on you long enough to get you verified and approved, even if weeks or months go by before your next contact, while they may not remember your handle right away they will see your avatar and the visual cortex will immediately send a "I've seen this before and it's OK" message, and instead of going through the approval process again the response you get from the provider is, "When do you want to meet?"

You could not have said it more perfect hun! From a providers take I would have worded almost the exact same way.

[Candi Staxx]

Originally Posted by PDid

Pre-screening has always worked well for me, and there's some science behind why it's a good idea. Popular providers are bombarded with messages every day. But once they've focused on you long enough to get you verified and approved, even if weeks or months go by before your next contact, while they may not remember your handle right away they will see your avatar and the visual cortex will immediately send a "I've seen this before and it's OK" message, and instead of going through the approval process again the response you get from the provider is, "When do you want to meet?"

YES!!
Exactly

[Hottassamelia]

+7!! Pre screening is HIGHLY Recommended!!
Makes things so much easier...especially those who need short notice availability and those that enjoy a late night rendezvous....
and like these sexy ladies,you can always use me for a reference!!

[thatgirlbailey]

Originally Posted by Hottassamelia

+7!! Pre screening is HIGHLY Recommended!!
Makes things so much easier...especially those who need short notice availability and those that enjoy a late night rendezvous....
and like these sexy ladies,you can always use me for a reference!!

Yes yes amelia is good for references. (forgot her on my list lol)

[Netx9]

Originally Posted by PDid

Pre-screening has always worked well for me, and there's some science behind why it's a good idea. Popular providers are bombarded with messages every day. But once they've focused on you long enough to get you verified and approved, even if weeks or months go by before your next contact, while they may not remember your handle right away they will see your avatar and the visual cortex will immediately send a "I've seen this before and it's OK" message, and instead of going through the approval process again the response you get from the provider is, "When do you want to meet?"

I'll +1 this and also add that since I'm not from SA, I have always sent pre-screen hello-s sometimes weeks in advance of a trip to schedule something. I have limited time in town and want to make the best of it w/O screening delays on short notice requests.

I'll admit, and use this thread to apologize to those lovely ladies who have had this happen... I may contact a couple of providers I'm interested in seeing who I haven't seen before to cover my bases. Some may not respond or not see the pm or p411 request (found out about the Gmail problem that way). Whoever responds first and prescreens is the one I'll try to see and schedule something. Inevitably, I'll hear back from someone else and I'll have to politely decline to see them that trip because I've already scheduled something. I won't cancel on the first one even for 'something better' or less $ or whatever bc that's just not my style to cancel for selfish reasons. All who I contact are ones I'm interested in seeing and have great referrals or reputations.

I hope the ones I have to decline don't think I'm wasting their time and I will often ask to see them on a subsequent visit and usually that's ok, and since I've been pre-screened already, that part is done and we are just talking logistics at that time. Some I've been pre-screened months ago and am finally getting around to meeting and they've been phenomenal about it bc they remember my polite inquiries and complete references from back then!!

So yes, more often than not, pre-screening is best!

Again, if I've contacted you and been screened but we haven't met, I apologize - never my intent to waste anyone's time. Be seeing some of you soon

[Slave Guinevere]

Originally Posted by thatgirlbailey

Yes yes amelia is good for references. (forgot her on my list lol)

Ditto!!

Hottassamelia and Dakota give GREAT references!! I love it when men get pre-screened in advance and that way... if they want to see me at the last minute... and I am available... I am HAPPY to work them into my schedule...

This is another GREAT THREAD and thank you for asking our opinion on this matter!!

Your appreciative slave,

Guinevere

[Blaze]

It makes the job part so much easier. Once I have due diligence, I got the record so to speak and its easy to go back at last minute and then agree to a last minute,,, especially if your refs were rock solid. There is no hesitation on my part if my schedule allows.

I wish the night timers would do this more. The chance of getting a solid reference after hours is almost impossible.

[sms918]

first, I should have added hobbyists to the question, great responses. I can see what your saying about making it easier and more comfortable for the provider in the future with you. Netx9, what you were saying is alot of my concern, I like women in general and their are so many different women that you meet at socials or see profiles that are interesting. There are still providers from the first social I went to in august I would like to see, but I tend to play with a few providers who I like talking to and can feel comfortable with, instead of seeing others where it would be all new.

I like the threads about data bases: providers who gives references, verified hobbyist, verified providers
That's the major reason I joined p411 and date-check
Like candi said, some providers don't respond or take a long time to respond about ref checks

thanks tracy, I'll apologize now if I do prescreening and use you as a ref a couple of times.

[Candi Staxx]

Originally Posted by Slave Guinevere

Ditto!!

Hottassamelia and Dakota give GREAT references!! I love it when men get pre-screened in advance and that way... if they want to see me at the last minute... and I am available... I am HAPPY to work them into my schedule...

This is another GREAT THREAD and thank you for asking our opinion on this matter!!

Your appreciative slave,

Guinevere

As usual I 100% agree with Slave! They only time I CAN even offer a same day appointment request is for a regular or if its someone who's gotten pre-screened with me already. Then its no problem! If it your first time contacting me, chances are slim I'll be able to see you the first day usually.

[sms918]

I'm taking your advice, I went on p411 and sent out prescreening requests to 4 providers, which may not sound like many but to me it does. I try not to think about how many I would like to see.(especially after that halloween party and those costumes)

There are so many beautiful women here, although I admit some still intimidate me either because of looks, personality, or specialities. It's easier when you can talk to people and get a sense of them.

[MsPrittiKitti]

Ill be the oddball here!!! (whats new )
I dislike prescreening if a gent has no earthly idea "when" they would like to meet.
No idea, at all, just "one day" they know they want to play.

P411 prescreening requests are totally different.
P411 makes things soooo much easier