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Originally Posted by Nolatailchaser
I'm concerned about HPV and cancer. Why doesn't the vaccine work for us folks older than our 20's. I've been down on a lot of women and even was the SO of A hot little provider for several years. So I'm probably cursed.
Herpes is scary too. I knew a provider as a semi-friend back in the day in another city that wouldn't tell anyone she had herpes. I thought that was flat out wrong. She just took her meds to control outbreaks and went on her way. We didn't stay friends for long and thank god I didn't sample her goods. But are there others I don't know about?
And you can get gonno from a rough bbbj. I know of it happening to a close friend. He then gave it to his GF before he got the itch. At least she knew and approved of his activity. What a girl. Lol.
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Who told you the HPV vaccine doesn't work in older people. It does. There's two issues though - first, the healthcare system is more concerned with protecting populations - vice individuals - so it's most cost effective to inoculate early. Second - if you've been exposed to one of the HPV viruses - the vaccine won't do you any good - you're already infected.
Herpes - I don't have herpes - used to be scared of herpes but ...
A couple of things ...
First - there's no reason any MAN should be more concerned about catching an STD than a provider is. Male to Female transmission rates are ALWAYS higher than Female to Male rates - so the ladies are managing more risk.
For men - having BAREBACK sex with a partner infected with HSV-2 carries a risk of 4 percent per year. That's pretty low - for unsafe sex.
Using a condom further reduces the risk about 30 percent. Using daily suppressive therapy reduces it 48 percent and using both reduces it farther than either method alone.
So I don't see a problem for a provider with HSV-2 who takes daily suppressive therapy and ensures her clients use a condom. She should also refrain from having sex during an outbreak - if and when she has one and not everyone breaks out - especially on suppressive therapy.
Believe me - given the shear number of people who are infected with HSV-2 in this country - if you've been in this hobby for any amount of time you have already experienced and HSV-2 positive provider. And yet - here you are.
As far as your friend that got gono from a blow job - how can you possibly be certain? You have no clue who else he had sex with - or if he had unprotected sex with that girl, or if his girlfriend actually gave it to HIM!