Non-GFE

[Novatx]

The GFE subject was brought up in a different thread, and I saw some interesting responses! However, I'd like to explore the subject a bit differently; view it under a different light since everyone's perspective of GFE is different.

I've been told before that I'm not GFE. I do my best to make the experience fun, and I feel I'm GFE all the way!! At the same time I know I can't please everyone and that's just how it is.

So my question for the men is-
What is not GFE ?? Describe to me briefly what is considered a non-GFE session.

[bamatide]

In my opinion a non-gfe session has little interaction such as conversation and kissing. Let's do it and be done with it.

It reminds me of the old saying: slam, bam, thank you ma'am.

Just my 2 cents worth.

[Samcro84]

See Guy's posts.
I think GFE is not necessarily what you do but how you do it. The openness you may have with that person. You may not get all the things you like with the girl or boy friend ever time you are bcd. That's why I think we all get better together the more times we hook up. I consider the gfe experience more of the complete time from door closing to when it opens to keave than what's on the menu. Don't get me wrong there are some menu irems I want but they are not requirements all the time.

[savak]

Limited menu , i.e. no daty, fiv, kissing bbbj is obvious. Also not being amicable or approachable.

But also when a provider makes a session feel like a transaction by telling me "i dont mean to rush you...but you asked for (this) much time". Or if a provider turns a session into a situation where i have to brushed out the door on the dot when the alotted time is up.

i avoid amps and backpages for this reason. I know its a business and we pay for a certain amount of time, but the whole idea is the ILLUSION that it isnt a transaction.

[ttmax]

Novatx, we met once, and thank you!..... GFE to me is convo, allowing some touching and caressing, light LFK, more convo, more light touching...... and then like the old days.................. doing a "homerun". So thanks for the GFE we had.

[Candi Staxx]

I think Bamatide, Travelerman and Savak All summed it up Perfectly, In my opinion!

[Mokoa]

Originally Posted by Novatx

The GFE subject was brought up in a different thread, and I saw some interesting responses! However, I'd like to explore the subject a bit differently; view it under a different light since everyone's perspective of GFE is different.

The reason the term GFE is the topic of so many discussions is because that term is so subjective. As you stated, not everyone's idea of what that term should consist of is the same. So, there will always be a number of different interpretations. You are not going to get the same answer from everyone.

This is why this site is here. So members can do their due diligence and seek the lady that more closely fits their individual interpretation of that term.

[guy fawkes]

+1

I think Bamatide, Travelerman and Savak All summed it up Perfectly, In my opinion!

@Candi Staxx

[canyonman]

Originally Posted by savak

Limited menu , i.e. no daty, fiv, kissing bbbj is obvious. Also not being amicable or approachable.

But also when a provider makes a session feel like a transaction by telling me "i dont mean to rush you...but you asked for (this) much time". Or if a provider turns a session into a situation where i have to brushed out the door on the dot when the alotted time is up.

i avoid amps and backpages for this reason. I know its a business and we pay for a certain amount of time, but the whole idea is the ILLUSION that it isnt a transaction.

Sounds like you need to buy more time up front. Hope you tip if you over stay your paid up time.

[Candi Staxx]

Girls really sweat you guys over time like that? Thats just so odd to me...to keep looking at a clock when I have a naked man in my bed...Im usually more focused on other things!
Starting to think I really AM the ONLY gal who actually unplugs the clock as soon as she checks into a room...im not gonna need that =)

Im bad sometimes with going over on time....but wow I would never ask or expect a man to tip me BC we got caught in a good moment a few minutes longer..

[Blckpr]

I think non-GFE is a provider that rushes the session and there is no connection!! And she makes it clear that she does not want there to be a connection in anyway. It is just a transaction to the provider. Lucky for me, 99% of the ladies I seen have been GFE.

[Candi Staxx]

Originally Posted by Blckpr

I think non-GFE is a provider that rushes the session and there is no connection!! And she makes it clear that she does not want there to be a connection in anyway. It is just a transaction to the provider. Lucky for me, 99% of the ladies I seen have been GFE.

I agree. If a girl is rushing and acting mechanical, obviously not enjoying what she does, deffffinitely not GFE regardless of actual services! A BBBJ or Being friendly does not mean your actually connecting with people either. IMO

[Desperado]

Candi is sounding more and more enticing with every post! On top of that she has a smoking hot showcase!

[Candi Staxx]

Thanks so much! =)

As my regulars hear me rant about constantly....its effing nuts what you guys put up with some providers, I swear Im going to make a Escort Boot Camp for all the "Answers door in Flip Flops and Sweats" and "checks her phone constantly" girls out there....sheesh. Perhaps I worked in customer service too long in my RL, but I just dont feel its fair when a girl is'nt literally giving ALL of herself to a man for that hour or so....*you're getting paid*


Staying on the OP, not sure why anyone would or did say tha Novatx, from you're reviews and others post it appears you do offer what everyones looking for =) but like Mokoa said, there's many different views on this!

[bearf15amc]

Everyone has an opinion on this and if you are interested in mine, send a pm.