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Guest070514-2 · 10-06-2013, 07:53 AM

I would like to apologize to the man that has given me a "No" for a review, obviously I can't see what you said - but since there are two sides to every story I'll tell mine here where you can see it and I'll then be done with it. We laughed we joked we had fun. Maybe I was bossy, a tad but; because all it seemed like was you were trying to make me squirt, which is fine. But the way you went about it was hurting me and I let you know; you stopped for a while then picked it right back up. I went to my female doctor yesterday afternoon - like I do every 6 months - and she saw I had scratches and tearing because of you. Now call me mean but know that my body is mine and we all get only one. If you are reading this please look at my reviews it's the only "No" that is up there. But I guess that's what a woman gets for when she says "No" and wants to get comfortable after her body is badly scratched from a hobbiest.

Again thanks for the time, you left the phone charger please call for a pick up time..... Oh and I am out of work now for a week because of what you did thank you and have a great day. I will not respond to any replies because it's a wast of my time and I need to heal.

ck1942 · 10-06-2013, 09:14 AM

When a lady says STOP! That means STOP!

It doesn't mean the guy can start again.

In this instance I believe the lady, not the guy.

Guest101114 · 10-06-2013, 09:35 AM

I've met PDid very briefly at a couple socials... His personality didn't particularly peak my interest and I didn't feel like we would be a good fit so I've never tried to set something up with him when he would request... I have been told in the past by another provider that I would regret seeing him... This really alerts and scared me.

I am very YMMV... FIV is not something I do alot in the hobby because guys act as if they are scratching a damn lotto ticket sometimes.

I cannot stand aggressive guys... Or girls.

Novatx · 10-06-2013, 09:51 AM

Sorry this happened to you. Hope you're feeling ok. And FIV is so uncomfortable, feels like someone is rubbing on my urethra and fingers DO NOT feel like penises which is why I don't allow FIV

I have seen PDid and he was respectful about my no FIV rule.

Guest070514-2 · 10-06-2013, 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Novatx

I have seen PDid and he was respectful about my no FIV rule.

I'm glad he was respectful, even now he has text me this morning, claiming that he "is not aggressive as to he is with all the ladies" so this shows me he doesn't FIV often, and I usually check nails before, but if you want to see me squirt awesome I love doing it, but not like that. And I told he stop a few times and even that he was hurting me. The thing that makes me upset is I'm sure his review doesn't lay claim to his blatant violation to my rules or respect for my body. I'm sure it doesn't say "I hurt her and yes she said stop and after a while I did it again" no instead it makes me out to the bad guy and a sucky provider. Well I'm sure my old reviews from my old account as well as this new one can back me up; if not the plenty of men who've been amazed and satisfied can vouch for me.

AngeLisa · 10-06-2013, 10:21 AM

I'd like for a guy to once admit he may have gotten over stimulated and ignored the no....

May not be this situation or maybe it is.. But guys never fess up to doing any wrong....(not just here on the board)

Btw Pdid I've seen twice, it's been awhile but he's so sweet I'd see Him again. Sorry this happened Ma!!!

Laz · 10-06-2013, 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by katie.kartwright

Well I'm sure my old reviews from my old account as well as this new one can back me up; if not the plenty of men who've been amazed and satisfied can vouch for me.

That is the good thing about reviews. There are many perspectives and one bad review among several good ones from well known hobbyists will not hurt a provider. I would not want the challenge of pleasing everyone all of the time. While the burden of satisfying the customer is on the provider, I doubt we will ever see a review where the guy says he was a jackass and wanted more than the provider was willing to do.

colt · 10-06-2013, 11:24 AM

Kati sorry you had a bad experience. Guys need to treat ladies with respect, and like CK says stop means stop.

You are a sweet heart, one of the very nicest providers I've ever seen, hope things work out for you.

bearf15amc · 10-06-2013, 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Tx Peach

I'd like for a guy to once admit he may have gotten over stimulated and ignored the no....

May not be this situation or maybe it is.. But guys never fess up to doing any wrong....(not just here on the board)

Btw Pdid I've seen twice, it's been awhile but he's so sweet I'd see Him again. Sorry this happened Ma!!!

"I fess up all the time"...

Sorry this happened to you...

"Gentleness is not a sign of weakness and kindness is not an indication of lack of resolve".

Bear

bearf15amc · 10-06-2013, 01:35 PM

I hate autocorrect!

Guest070514-2 · 10-06-2013, 01:37 PM

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Originally Posted by bearf15amc

I hate autocorrect!

Yes I do to, or typing really fast on the iPhone.

mrbman · 10-06-2013, 02:13 PM

I will admit I get overstimulated and can get go rough a little . mostly younger girls can't handle that but I never disregard a no. no means no especially when you can tell your hurting her. you can tell it hurts by her face so . Katie hope you are doing better and just so you know you have been on my radar. I love that hair. that no review won't stop me.

gfx · 10-06-2013, 02:15 PM

that was very very despicable of him. I will go ahead and add him to our blacklist

Guest101314 · 10-06-2013, 02:46 PM

Guys... when playing with our lady parts, especially down there, it's better (in my opinion) to be softer than rougher. I've had many dates where the man was too rough, it's not enjoyable and will not make me cum. If it's too much, I'll pull back or reach down and remove your hand. Also, please trim your nails. Only women should have long nails.

Now if you lick, stroke, etc nice and soft and take your time, I will cum exactly how you're wanting to.

Babe, I am so sorry this happened to you and I hope you recover quickly.

Precious_b · 10-06-2013, 03:18 PM

I personally don't like to do the FIV because of the chance of doing such a thing.
It's not that I don't like to. I just don't want the chance of hurting someone.
Even though a womans' pussy can take a pounding

But I always trim up and file my fingernails before a meeting.
And I thank Karrey for being proactive in guiding me with it when I last saw her in town.