Why is there such a bad attitude in ft worth?

[OldGrump]

If there is a bad attitude in Ft.Worth, it is because, with the construction, Dallas is an hours drive.

[Blacksheep07]

I'm assuming he's talking about this:

http://www.whiteknightentertainment.net/

Like I mentioned before, your best bet is to look at provider ads here to get some idea and then start searching for what tickles your pickle.

Originally Posted by shortguy

and btw, I've never heard of that agency (that's not saying a whole lot), but the name alone raises flags with me so be careful. Be sure to research what you're getting yourself into.

Google it, Bing it, TinyEye it, run it through the search engines here and if you still can't find anything, move on, leave them be and stay safe. Maybe you can go back later if they're still around and more info has been revealed on them.

[oldbutstillgoing]

Dude, your still blaming, not looking for solutions. Maybe this is just not your kind of place? Try the strip clubs, AMPS, or SWs. Lots of new guys have little problem getting laid here. Why do you seem to have so many problems?

After all this, I don't know why most ladies would even consider seeing you. There are always some who will fuck anythng with the money but come on man, really?This much trouble?

[Rufnex]

[Chung Tran]

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[Torito]

I have stated this many times and I will repeat again.
When I started, of course, I had no references.
I saw newbie friendly providers.
I gained references.
Soon I could see just about anyone I wanted.
I never gave out SSN or any other real life info.

Someone mentioned the whiney note of this thread. I agree. There is the same note present in the other almost identical thread in ISO. In my opinion, that will not help you any.

Try contacting known newbie friendlies and speaking or writing with a positive attitude. Leave the complaining at home.

BTW posting essentially the same thread in more than one forum is not cool. The other is going stale now. Otherwise I would close it.

Torito

[doug_dfw]

I agree with the counsel given by the those before me. My experience- FW is more reliable than Big D and Big D more reliable than ANYWHERE I have been. Oh I forgot Kelowna same as FW. I define reliable as friendly, courteous, punctual, deliver what is advertised and as agreed, with little or no drama.

[Rocketman3406]

Ok so lets tell tails first yazmeen is the one who wanted to verify employment deluge falls e mailed Bach and forth allmost a week i asked her about doing something sat she said ok then came back and said my ref did not rember me so i asked what do I need to do replayed with evry newbie deserves a chance and sent me her number the next day maby becaus I didn't call right away shee said it was a bad idea and caused me of being a cop i replayed thanks FYI and explained how my handle was associated with my job told to take care in my mind its done another e mail today wanting me to either call or text. It was just weird ok then we get to white knight nori blue message a couple of times i search bp she is in the escort section has reviews cool i call her talking about when to meet she tells me a little about herself then unsolicited by me she said i don't do the escort thing i only give massages and basically how she does not see how people can do that so i asked about the reviews she said that the "company"had someone put them up in my last ISo they posted and i sent them a message calling them out they back calmly said we have 10good reviews and don't want any drama wtf that is why I told them to give them a chance to take it down but think what you want of me at least i have my self respect and no judgements here but maby its becaus I can still get pussy in the wild that I don't think this is acceptable rocket man out

[Blacksheep07]

Holy word salad man! I cry for your English teachers, as that is neigh unreadable.

I'm seriously thinking that it is your perspective that is off here and your lack of communicative skills via these boards that is holding you back.

Not every newbie deserves a chance with every or any provider. Its that simple -- and what just about everyone has been trying to relay to you. It seems you feel entitled to the services offered here, as if this were some open marketplace where you throw money at a vendor and they give you the product. It isn't. This is a service industry that can be dangerous to both the buyers and the sellers, so if someone you start a conversation with doesn't 'feel right' about a meetup, it is definitely their prerogative whether or not to go through with it.

It isn't just LE that the providers worry about -- its whether you're a stand-up guy that won't hassle, create unnecessary drama, or put them in any danger. From the way your posts seem to read, I can certainly understand why a provider might seriously change their mind after reading a few. You don't just come off as 'whiny' but you also come off as someone that is might be difficult to work with.

Originally Posted by Rocketman3406

Ok so lets tell tails first yazmeen is the one who wanted to verify employment deluge falls e mailed Bach and forth allmost a week i asked her about doing something sat she said ok then came back and said my ref did not rember me so i asked what do I need to do replayed with evry newbie deserves a chance and sent me her number the next day maby becaus I didn't call right away shee said it was a bad idea and caused me of being a cop i replayed thanks FYI and explained how my handle was associated with my job told to take care in my mind its done another e mail today wanting me to either call or text. It was just weird ok then we get to white knight nori blue message a couple of times i search bp she is in the escort section has reviews cool i call her talking about when to meet she tells me a little about herself then unsolicited by me she said i don't do the escort thing i only give massages and basically how she does not see how people can do that so i asked about the reviews she said that the "company"had someone put them up in my last ISo they posted and i sent them a message calling them out they back calmly said we have 10good reviews and don't want any drama wtf that is why I told them to give them a chance to take it down but think what you want of me at least i have my self respect and no judgements here but maby its becaus I can still get pussy in the wild that I don't think this is acceptable rocket man out

[pfmtony]

Torito nailed it..... And 4 yrs after torito I did basically the same exact thing. Once you meet a few ladies and have solid references you are all set.

[Rocketman3406]

Originally Posted by pfmtony

Torito nailed it..... And 4 yrs after torito I did basically the same exact thing. Once you meet a few ladies and have solid references you are all set.

Thank you for your advise and its not waisted I did not mean to offend by stating my preference

[HDnTX]

Rocketman, I think i get the jest of that. You might try proof reading next time. Funny you mentioned Yaz, she is one of the nicest providers I have seen. I do not want to judge you, she had some reason to not see you.......

[Torito]

Originally Posted by pfmtony

Torito nailed it..... And 4 yrs after torito I did basically the same exact thing. Once you meet a few ladies and have solid references you are all set.

Thanks for the vote of confidence.
Actually, I did it in '02 on the old board.
When we came here, everybody already knew each other and most kept the same names.

Torito

[pfmtony]

Originally Posted by Torito

Thanks for the vote of confidence.
Actually, I did it in '02 on the old board.
When we came here, everybody already knew each other and most kept the same names.

Torito

Well it works. Be nice, be polite, respectful, and some lady will take a chance on you. Meet other ladies she recommends and then you have your references. My big issue now is I really like ladies, want to meet a few more, and most of them I'd love to see again.

Torito, you and some of the other mods should probably write a sticky on how to.getbstarted if there isn't one. The one thing I would add.is offer to meet her for coffee or tea to ease her mind first if needed. Most ladies love Starbucks anyway. It's how i put my first ECCIE lady at ease with me. And she has been absolutely wonderful to me ever since.

So basically after 10 years being polite still works.... Imagine my surprise.

Rocket refine your approach. If you read my PMs and hobby e mail you'd be shocked, and 3 months ago I was new too.....

[Rocketman3406]

Originally Posted by HDnTX

Rocketman, I think i get the jest of that. You might try proof reading next time. Funny you mentioned Yaz, she is one of the nicest providers I have seen. I do not want to judge you, she had some reason to not see you.......

Yes she wanted to verify my employment i explained that i work for family and was not comfortable with that and so that was the deal breaker i was prepared to giver her more information than I normally would and yes she was very nice and I was very polite but there was still no solution