Escorts, GFE ...and the Courtesan experience

[Wakeup]

All of those terms mean exact same thing...every person described by those terms is exactly the same as the rest...believing you're different is the problem...

[stimulatethemind]

Originally Posted by Wakeuр

All of those terms mean exact same thing...every person described by those terms is exactly the same as the rest...believing you're different is the problem...

Yes, hot dogs and hamburgers, chicken fried steak, filet mignon and chateaubriand are all food; however, I choose to believe that there are significant differences to the palate. I believe that what you are saying is that all categories of ladies are selling their services, which is true, but you also must know that there are significant differences and values to those services. Those differences enable us gentlemen to have choices in how we spend our time and money. You may choose a quick B&G, while I may choose to spend a complete evening with a lovely lady, having a nice dinner and attending the theatre, followed by some nice BCD time. Neither of us is wrong in our choices, just choosing different experiences.

BTW, I don't believe that either Ms. Serafina or Ms. Rivers have a problem. I'm quite sure that they know who and what they are and seem quite comfortable in their own skins.

[Wakeup]

Nope...

Certain whores are HDH because certain tricks are stupid enough to pay them...no other reason...

[ladylove12]

If you are paying her or giving her gifts, she's a prostitute. People make differences about everything. hobbiests, providers, escorts, hdh, it's all still trickin and whoring. if you dress a pig in a tux, all you'll have is a pig in a tux. You still won't get steak from it. It's still pork.

[ladylove12]

If I call my self an escort, a provider or a hooker, I'm still doing the same thing . If I'm fucking Joe snow or Eliot Spitzer, making 250 or 25,000, I'm still doing the same thing. Selling ass.

[ladylove12]

And guys, hobbiests? please. Nobody ever wants to be called what they are. Own It!!!lol

[ladylove12]

I agree with wake up. Not a nice way to say it, but true non the less. My sister works at burger king. She makes burgers. Do I call her a chef? She cooks. she's preparing food like chefs do.

[stimulatethemind]

Originally Posted by ladylove12

I agree with wake up. Not a nice way to say it, but true non the less. My sister works at burger king. She makes burgers. Do I call her a chef? She cooks. she's preparing food like chefs do.

Yes, whether you choose to eat at Burger King or at the Capital Grille, you are still eating. However, you must agree that the two experiences are significantly different, in terms of quality, ambiance and service. Quality, in anything (food, automobiles, clothing, etc.), always costs more. Quality, and beauty, are always in the eye of the beholder. If you choose to drive a Ford and I choose to drive a BMW, neither of us is wrong in our choice, just different. My personal preference is to not JUST buy sex from a lady, but also her company, her intelligence, her wit, her conversational skills and the essence of herself as a human being. I don't believe that you will get any of that from a streetwalker or a regular escort. That is my choice. If you choose to ONLY purchase sex and sex only, that is your choice. We will pay significantly different amounts for our experience. Again, neither of us is right or wrong, merely different. I happen to feel that the additional funds spent are worth it.

I don't get why labels seem so important to some people. Find the experience that you are seeking, one which provides value to you, pay the appropriate amount for the experience and just enjoy. I, personally, have been very fortunate in that I met a lady who meets all my needs and provides the experience I desire. She is beautiful, charming, intelligent and classy. Whenever we are together, we have wonderful times, whether it is a simple dinner, attending a concert or just hanging out at my apartment and sharing a bottle of our favorite wine. Whatever I may have provided for her......an allowance, gifts, a five day vacation to Mexico, all of it is money well spent TO ME. If that type of experience is not for you, no problem. Enjoy your Whopper. Bon apetit!!!!

[Ansley]

Originally Posted by stimulatethemind

Y My personal preference is to not JUST buy sex from a lady, but also her company, her intelligence, her wit, her conversational skills and the essence of herself as a human being. I don't believe that you will get any of that from a regular escort.

Sorry wakeup, I can't associate with you any longer. I just found out that I am able to be an HDH.

Sir, you really do underestimate many women that are regular escorts.

[stimulatethemind]

Miss Ansley, my apologies to you. I meant no disrespect. By "regular escort", I believe that I was attempting to differentiate between a lady who does not provide the complete, true "gfe" type of experience and one who does, and the fact that they are two completely different experiences. We both know that there are ladies who are able to arouse a penis just fine, and then there are those who can also "stimulate the mind". Again, just different experiences. I am very aware that there are many lovely ladies, who could be categorized as escorts, who are able to do both. I admit, I am somewhat spoiled by the particular lady that I see. Our typical date tends to average approximately six or seven hours together and can encompass a wide variety of activities, of which, normally, only perhaps an hour or so is BCD. I never get tired of spending time with her, because she challenges me intellectually.

Again, I meant no disrespect to anyone.

[awl4knot]

Originally Posted by Wakeuр

Certain whores are HDH because certain tricks are stupid enough to pay them...no other reason...

As advertised.

[ladylove12]

Originally Posted by stimulatethemind

Miss Ansley, my apologies to you. I meant no disrespect. By "regular escort", I believe that I was attempting to differentiate between a lady who does not provide the complete, true "gfe" type of experience and one who does, and the fact that they are two completely different experiences. We both know that there are ladies who are able to arouse a penis just fine, and then there are those who can also "stimulate the mind". Again, just different experiences. I am very aware that there are many lovely ladies, who could be categorized as escorts, who are able to do both. I admit, I am somewhat spoiled by the particular lady that I see. Our typical date tends to average approximately six or seven hours together and can encompass a wide variety of activities, of which, normally, only perhaps an hour or so is BCD. I never get tired of spending time with her, because she challenges me intellectually.

Again, I meant no disrespect to anyone.

I still really don't see the difference. I have clients I see that may want to spend the whole day with me. I have one that I connect with that takes me to dinner and shopping. I even have a client a few hours away that I met while here on business and he sends for me sometimes. We don't just Fuck our brains out all day and night(he couldn't handle me like that. Lol jk), but we have a wonderful time. No I can't discuss the ins and outs of turbine energy, but I can keep my head above water until future education and life experience ours me above par. I'm still an escort tho. It's a business, I can be what ever you desire me to be. If you feeling lonely and need your shoulders rubbed or a hard day at work makes you wanna take it out on me. That's what we are here for. Even the most well off successful men in the world just want a "cum-bag" now and then. To me a true provider, whether she calls herself a courtesan or hooker, is able to service all types of clients no matter what walk of life they at from.

[ladylove12]

Originally Posted by stimulatethemind

Miss Ansley, my apologies to you. I meant no disrespect. By "regular escort", I believe that I was attempting to differentiate between a lady who does not provide the complete, true "gfe" type of experience and one who does, and the fact that they are two completely different experiences. We both know that there are ladies who are able to arouse a penis just fine, and then there are those who can also "stimulate the mind". Again, just different experiences. I am very aware that there are many lovely ladies, who could be categorized as escorts, who are able to do both. I admit, I am somewhat spoiled by the particular lady that I see. Our typical date tends to average approximately six or seven hours together and can encompass a wide variety of activities, of which, normally, only perhaps an hour or so is BCD. I never get tired of spending time with her, because she challenges me intellectually.

Again, I meant no disrespect to anyone.

I do agree that there is a difference in the service quality between the levels of a certain career. The Ford-BMW thing made since. I have clients that don't even want sex the whole time. They just wanna talk and get a massage.(maybe with a :-) ending), but they didnt call to see me for the sex. They just want companionship. Why you would want that with someone you're just meeting and don't really know and have to pay is beyond me, but so is a lot of otter things men do. Lol jk. I'm still young tho so I guess I'll learn. My mom always told me, "if you thing you know it all, then you're an idiot"

[stimulatethemind]

Originally Posted by ladylove12

I do agree that there is a difference in the service quality between the levels of a certain career. The Ford-BMW thing made since. I have clients that don't even want sex the whole time. They just wanna talk and get a massage.(maybe with a :-) ending), but they didnt call to see me for the sex. They just want companionship. Why you would want that with someone you're just meeting and don't really know and have to pay is beyond me, but so is a lot of otter things men do. Lol jk. I'm still young tho so I guess I'll learn. My mom always told me, "if you thing you know it all, then you're an idiot"

Miss LadyLove, your mom was a very wise lady. It is only by keeping an open mind to the thoughts and ideas of others that we learn. I believe that some of the concepts and differences that we are discussing are determined by the ladies themselves. I know there are ladies who will continue to see gentlemen that they don't especially care for, and perhaps, even dislike. Then there are those who will not see a gentleman a second time unless they established at least a semblance of a connection with him the first time. Yes, I understand the fantasy aspect of this little piece of heaven that we call hobbying, but isn't it better when there is some actual chemistry between the participants? An example would be the first time I saw the lady that I spend time with. We had scheduled a 90 minute appointment, but spent over three hours together and neither of us cared. We just established an instant rapport. Our second appointment, the same thing happened.......scheduled 90 minutes and it went for over three hours. Our third time was a dinner/shopping date and we have now been seeing each other for fifteen months.

I see nothing wrong with those who are only interested in a sexual component. That is their choice. It's just not for me. And that is why Baskin Robbins has 31 flavors.

[Wakeup]

Originally Posted by Ansley

Sorry wakeup, I can't associate with you any longer. I just found out that I am able to be an HDH.

I always liked you...

Still absolutely no difference...even in service levels or "quality"...a whore is a whore...