Need advice on donation please.

[Guest123018]

Agree w/Yummy Marie + 1

[RoxyG]

I prefer not to see it until after or if its given before, place it a way from me on the dresser. And if a newb, please don't discuss it

[Pistolero]

Originally Posted by BDD

If I see the provider again I usually have the correct amount in one pants pocket. I place it in plain view at the end as I am getting dressed. I never mention money and I seldom have had a Provider mention it either.

That is my normal routine also.

Once, I had one of the hottest sessions of my hobby career with a provider I had seen probably 6 times before. As I was getting dressed, she was in the bathroom and did not see me put the money down. I said my goodbyes when she returned and headed for the door. She slipped in between me and the door , started rubbing on me and asked if I forgot something. I looked around and said no. Are you sure, she asked. Finally figured out that she had not seen the donation on the table. Funny thing was that I could have left easy anytime without paying, since she was tied to the bed most of the time.

Our next visit she told me to be sure I left it where she could see it easily.

[BDD]

Originally Posted by Pistolero

...Funny thing was that I could have left easy anytime without paying, since she was tied to the bed most of the time...

Fucking HILARIOUS right there!

Sounds like she was very professional about it though. At least she didn't go batshit crazy and start throwing things and screaming and such. She thought something had been overlooked, calmly inquired, got things settled and asked for a slight change in business routine for session number 8. Smart business gal right there.

[Goddess Emma Love]

Money in envelope in plain site before the show or you will be asked to leave. I have no patience for paying at the end of the show nonsense. I run my business not the guy with the bunch of reviews.

[Guest100613]

Originally Posted by Goddess Emma Love

Money in envelope in plain site before the show or you will be asked to leave. I have no patience for paying at the end of the show nonsense. I run my business not the guy with the bunch of reviews.

I'm so glad you found your calling... Dominatrix suits you.

DG and YM both have very sage advice. I find discussing this topic to be disruptive to the date illusion. Envelope on the counter, s'il vous plait.

[OneInAMillion]

I usually take care of it at the beginning, but have had sessions where that was not possible (I'm irresistible apparantly).

Don't hand it to a provider, as YM said: "place it on a flat surface."

[Htowner]

I peel a Benji with every O as I go through the session but they never reciprocate.

[Guest010115-3]

Atf material, when am dressed I drop it discreetly as am picking up my keys from the stand. Regular ones will ask for it upfront. I excuse the first time but I feel a little off if the second session if u ask for it upfront. Even if the session was less than par, i still pay, reason for pay at the end is my illusion of why am there depends on money issues not being brought up since it absolutely kills the mood. So unless it is a non gfe session, I expect to pay at the end. Gfe ladies should know that it kills any sort of emotional attachment if u discuss compensation first. Non gfe I can understand.

[Eva Damita]

Originally Posted by YummyMarie

And btw, many men do leave it at the end. When we don't mention it to you at the beginning, we are extending our trust to you. Please don't take that trust for granted

+1

I personally feel a lot more comfortable when the donation is given to me up front. I'm more confident and it reflects so in my performance.

I believe it's common courtesy to give the donation upfront - to get the "business" part out of the way. Although you are the buyer, you still don't get to eat your cake before purchasing it.

[hornfreak]

Or.....after the session, you can always make it rain.

[tbone77494]

We all pay for most things upfront. Doesn't kill any mood for me. Little details like paying are very unlikely to get me out of the mood to fuck. Actually, I can't think of anything that gets me out of the mood, especially with a hot naked chick in the room.

Now, if we could put it on a credit card and then dispute the charge if the session sucked, that would be cool.

[jbravo_123]

Show up with the donation all in nickels (fuck quarters), all minted the year she was born, in a large sack. Make sure it jingles a lot on your way in. Then, spill it out all over the bed so you can roll around in it to show how balla you are (makin' it hail!).

Or, you can check her website/profile and follow the instructions most reputable providers will have listed there.

The first option is the real way to go though.

[Dorian Gray]

Scrooge McDuck style in this bitch....

[ICU 812]

1. Read her website
2. Read her reviews
3.PM one or two reviewing hobbyiests for more information.

Any provider that you cannot research in these ways is not someone you should see for your first time out— .IMHO.


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