Have you tried telling this person to stop messaging you? That is what I woukd suggest. Because if you tell this member to stop, and they don't then staff can intervene. However if you post this question here and then phone this person several times , (say for example, 4 or 5 times), and never inform that person of your wishes, it sort of sends a mixed signal... not to mention that it brings into question the intent of this threAd. ya' know?
Just let them know via private message.
Sounds simple enough to me.
...but what do I know? heh!
Good Luck and best wishes!
skf
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