Doubles Newbie and questions

[RedLeg505]

Originally Posted by M A X

And no, I wouldn't "script" the session, but do give them an idea if you really expect them to give you their best.
You could just keep your mouth shut and let the chips fall where they may and it still turns out great. IMO...communication is always a KEY element if you really want an outstanding sexual encounter. Don't take my word for it. Experiment and experience, I say! And do both often! I have and still do! woot!

Have fun, hon!

This was my concern before I set up a doubles. I don't KNOW what I like specifically about two girls at once, because I've never done it. I'll know what I like when we are in the session and going for it, but I can't say ahead of time "I want this, and then that, and some of that other".

So what decided me to set this up was knowing that these two providers that I've seen individually before, have enough girl/girl fun that they jump each others bones off the clock for fun. That to me takes a lot of the pressure off. Hell if nothing ELSE works out, they can have fun with each other while I watch But I'm pretty sure that watching will lead to participating and I know what I enjoyed with each of them solo so it should be easy enough to have a great session. And thanks to the heads up from those with more experience in this thread, I will be ready for a 90 minute session instead of the originally planned 60 minute.

[MaxiMilyen]

Originally Posted by RedLeg505

This was my concern before I set up a doubles. I don't KNOW what I like specifically about two girls at once, because I've never done it. I'll know what I like when we are in the session and going for it, but I can't say ahead of time "I want this, and then that, and some of that other".

I gotcha. So, ya never had that fantasy? It's one of the most common among men, but I'm sure you have plenty of others, as many of us seem to...LOL. Mine are pretty vivid, but then again, I only know how and what I fantasize about, unless someone shares theirs and then I know theirs too... BUT...that could be a whole other thread....Tell us Your fantasies, frequencies, etc....LOL

Sharing is Caring.....

EDIT: Disregard....I see you do fantasize about it. That's what I meant about sharing it.....
Have ya ever lived out a fantasy and been disappointed, I have....totally ruined a perfectly good fantasy I had for
years...damn it! LOL

[RedLeg505]

Originally Posted by M A X

I gotcha. So, ya never had that fantasy?

I know, odd hmm? But no, I never really did have fantasies about 2 ladies at once. Might be that porn watching with 3 somes of various mixes suppressed any fantasies because I could "watch the real thing", or a close approximation. Does watching a lady with a strap on give it to another lady thrill me? I've found it interesting to watch in porn vids but not something I go in search of. But again there's that difference in what you watch vs what you may see first hand. I'm actually excited and tingly with anticipation to spend time with these two ladies for doubles..mostly because I love being with each of them individually so I think I would like ANYTHING we did. Plus its the excitement of "unexplored territory" I think that's adding that extra 'edge' to the countdown.

[MaxiMilyen]

Originally Posted by RedLeg505

I know, odd hmm? But no, I never really did have fantasies about 2 ladies at once. Might be that porn watching with 3 somes of various mixes suppressed any fantasies because I could "watch the real thing", or a close approximation. Does watching a lady with a strap on give it to another lady thrill me? I've found it interesting to watch in porn vids but not something I go in search of. But again there's that difference in what you watch vs what you may see first hand. I'm actually excited and tingly with anticipation to spend time with these two ladies for doubles..mostly because I love being with each of them individually so I think I would like ANYTHING we did. Plus its the excitement of "unexplored territory" I think that's adding that extra 'edge' to the countdown.

Not odd at all and actually, I have kind of wondered whether readily available visuals interfere with our own fantasies. I don't watch much porn, maybe why mine are so vivid? hmmmm......

Previous edit....was the OP that fantasizes....my bad. I'm tired, I should get off and go to bed. And yes, that's exactly what I meant...LOL Night all!! xoxo

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by RedLeg505

This was my concern before I set up a doubles. I don't KNOW what I like specifically about two girls at once, because I've never done it. I'll know what I like when we are in the session and going for it, but I can't say ahead of time "I want this, and then that, and some of that other".

Geez, what lights your fire when watching threesomes in porn or two girl action? Just communicate that to the ladies.