Since when did eccie become a dating site?

[AngeLisa]

Karla don't start with me! I already explained that in a previous thread. $25 to sit and watch is a decent rate. I mean, you can buy a porno at that rate.

And as long as I've been here, how many Black girls do u know that stuck around long in San Antonio? It is a different business when it comes to us mixed/ AA escorts. Believe me, I've done this full time before, I know what works best for me. HdH don't work for me. Factly I know some and at the end of the day we shopping at the same stores.

But for being Jucci your no competition with me. I work hard here ,and have a job. Correction I own my business,( www.JuicysSecrets.com )finished school& still like to get Donation for dates. I can make my rates whatever I want. I like to suck nd fuck,geez isn't that why we came here to eccie(also money)
BtW our Hr Rate are the Same.

Lowered Rates coming soon THANKS TO XOXOKARLA

Back on topic, pay the ladies for their time when you meet her movies, drinks. Dinner...Yada Yada nd don't forget to tip the waitress

[Joe Buck]

Originally Posted by Novatx

I don't want to sound mean, but what's up with men (more than one) here pm'ing me to ask me out to a movie or dinner or drinks? It's not cool at all in fact I find it extremely rude. You would think AT LEAST a man will hold these questions until he sees you BCD AT LEAST. I'm not here looking for a boyfriend or for dates. Please refer to what ECCIE is abbreviated for! There's plenty of sites where people can find a date .

I can certainly understand your point. Someone you have never met before sending you a PM to ask for a civi date on here is inappropriate.
I have however been out with some of the ladies on here outside of the hobby, mostly because we have similar interest and enjoy each others company.

[Jten13]

Alot of the ladies here are around my same age. Im single for awhile now. I can get RW dates but nothing at the end of the night. I like eccie so I dont have to foreplay and go out on dates and text, so thats why im paying in my mind is the ease. itd be cool to have drinks one night then bang it out with a provider im just not trying to buy that many hours. Maybe at one of these socials!!!

[SofaKingFun]

Any of you gals want to go to the Spurs game with me?

I've got a pair, 2nd row on the floor and this is for the NBA Championship.

I was going to ask Nova if she wanted to go, but screw that.

I'm not about to get my ass handed to me by that buzz saw.

Skurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrd!!

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[guest092513]

hell she looks like a hottie I would pay for a date

[dbeartx]

I think it's rude to get on here and say that it's rude... Just ignore the PM and move on. Seriously, it takes 5 seconds to skim a message. Don't start with the "you don't know how much time, blah blah..." I work 65 to 80 hours a week and still find time to get my "sexy time" on, play a couple rounds of golf, read PMs and working the occasional porn surfing... When I'm not "on the clock" I've got a department of 200 idiots under me that are constantly emailing, texting and calling.... Somehow I find time....

So just ignore it and move on. It's part of the business, just suck it up and accept it.

[guy fawkes]

+1 I agree. You will never know if you don't ask. All you have to do is be respectful. And be upfront about what you want.

I don't see what the big deal is. If a hobbyist wants to ask a provider to dinner and a movie or drinks, what's the big deal. She really should be flattered. This site is all about filling a need. Sometimes that need is not just the BCD activities.

Men should treat women will respect and kindness. Whether they are a provider or not. I have always tried to be respectful to women. Even if during the session I want to talk a little dirty talk and call them my little whore or something like that I try to make sure afterwords or even before that its just a fantasy to play like that. That k don't really think that.

I guess I just don't get why it would bother a provider to be asked out. As long as the guy doesn't expect anything off the clock. He should always assume that he will compensate the lady for her time. If a provider decides that she doesn't want to charge him for these other activities, that is completely her choice and she should not be judged for it one way or the other.

If you are asked and you don't want to, just politely smile and tell them no. Guys, if they say no, don't be offended. Just understand that they have lives too and maybe they need separation between the hobby and the real world just like you do.

I am married so I would not want to be seen in public on a "date" but if I weren't married I would be more than happy to have one of these lovely ladies on my arm for a night.

[guy fawkes]

I have to laugh

Any of you gals want to go to the Spurs game with me?

I've got a pair, 2nd row on the floor and this is for the NBA Championship.

I was going to ask Nova if she wanted to go, but screw that.

I'm not about to get my ass handed to me by that buzz saw.

Skurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrd!!

[Novatx]

Originally Posted by SofaKingFun

Any of you gals want to go to the Spurs game with me?

I've got a pair, 2nd row on the floor and this is for the NBA Championship.

I was going to ask Nova if she wanted to go, but screw that.

I'm not about to get my ass handed to me by that buzz saw.

Skurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrd!!

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Spurs game?? HOW DARE YOU!! Boring !!



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[rockerrick]

Every post you become less desirable , it's like an alert , thanks !

[Novatx]

Originally Posted by rockerrick

Every post you become less desirable , it's like an alert , thanks !

And?

Unless you're a client of mine, I don't care what you think

[rockerrick]

That's cool , cause most of us don't care what you think either ! We'll just sit back and watch , and wait for the apology thread , and laugh ! We've all seen the Drama Queens come and go before !

[dbeartx]

Originally Posted by Novatx

And?

Unless you're a client of mine, I don't care what you think

Haha, you seemed to care enough about the other guys you haven't seen and "aren't clients of yours" to start a post about them...

[Novatx]

dbeartx, No I made a general statement. Also Helping y'all guys out by letting you know what most providers think and are too afraid say! And I can tell it bothers some of you. The truth hurts

[rockerrick]

Nope we just find providers with better attitudes . Guess you missed how Foxy handles herself with respect and class !