Beware of Jay6165

[Guest111016]

Tonight I was asked by Jay6165 to do a three hour appointment. He stayed for two and a half. Yet, he paid for only a little over an hour. I took the appointment despite it being past my available hours because I am trying to get my kiddo work done at the orthodontist. I had to pay for a babysitter and I had to beg all my in-the-know friends to let me use their place because he apparently couldn't find a hotel. So, I made, in all actuality, 33% of what I should have been paid. Oh, and I picked up the bottle of wine, too.

I saw the donation left in a was on the couch, so I simply put it in my pocket. I didn't want to count it out in front of him. I thought that would be rude. Well, I would much rather have been rude in hindsight.

I'm rather upset just now. I've had nothing but great experiences up to this point. All of the other gentlemen have been precisely that - gentlemen. This has left a somewhat sour taste in my mouth. Now, I am concerned that he will write a negative review in retaliation. I simply cannot afford that at this point.

I have texted him and called him to no avail. Perhaps I am being naive, but I sincerely hope that this is simply an accident. I will keep you updated.

[rockerrick]

Sorry to hear that happened . Was the appt scheduled for 1 hr ? The time is your responsibility , and many ladies will go over time if they choose . Of course those instances are their choice to do so , and many times they will say your time is up . Many reviews will show you this like 1hr + . I realize you are new , but if it's going past the 1hr , you will have to speak up and make it clear ! However he should reply to your text , just the same as we expect ours to be answered .

[johnny punk guy]

Sorry that happened. I don't understand why people would risk their reputation like that. Johnny is trying hard to gain a good one. And why take advantage of a girl that I have heard nothin but good things about.

[MARICOPA]

Sorry to hear that K.
Good to get you side of the story out there.
Hope he makes good, or gets ignored.

[Toyz]

Originally Posted by Kiera

Tonight I was asked by Jay6165 to do a three hour appointment. .

If it was asked to be 3 hours...and the rate was agreed beforehand...or a 3 hour rate is posted on your profile, then he is wrong and needs to pay up...

If as RR suggested it was a 1 hour and you just didn't say anything, then its kinda on you.

I have lots of OC appts go well over, but I periodically ask "are we good on time". If she is really enjoying herself I will get to the "Hey you are welcome to stay as long as you like, and I hope you do, but I don't want to take advantage as I paid for 1 hour".

Sometimes I get "no, I'm enjoying myself"...then I let it go and its ALL on her to say when she wants to leave.

[Puccipleaser]

I hate that happened to you, you are doing the right thing by letting everyone know what he did. I'm sure he won't be seeing anyone else on here anymore.

[ztonk]

Originally Posted by Kiera

Now, I am concerned that he will write a negative review in retaliation. I simply cannot afford that at this point.

One negative review will generally not adversely affect a lady's reputation here. Most hobbyists do their research and will take one bad review of an otherwise reliable and fun provider with a grain of salt, especially if the reviewer has a questionable (or no) reputation.

I'm sorry that this happened to you, but this does not qualify as an alert per the definition at the top of the forum:

Issues which could endanger the safety of a member or members of our community go here. Please reserve this space for legitimate alerts, and not general FYI material.

Moving to Coed Discussions from Alerts - Austin.

ztonk
AustinModStaff

[rockerrick]

Sorry Kiera just noticed you stated it was to be a 3 hr appt . This guy owes you money ! That is just wrong , guess I should have had coffee before replying

[Guest111016]

It was scheduled for a three hour. And we did agree on the rate beforehand.

[Codybeast]

Originally Posted by ztonk

I'm sorry that this happened to you, but this does not qualify as an alert per the definition at the top of the forum:

Moving to Coed Discussions from Alerts - Austin.

ztonk
AustinModStaff

I thought deliberate shorting went under theft and theft was alert worthy. Up to now that has been the case.

[Zimmie6942]

Don't let one bad experience have an negative effect on how you look at the business. Learn from it but don't let it have a negative effect on you because why let some one like that effect you. Hes the one with a problem and if he effects you in a bad way then you give him more power. Karmas a bitch and he will get his.

Any sales or service business is a numbers game and if you have a bunch of good sessions your eventually going to get a bad one soon. In my business we sell to 9 out of 10 customers and if I make a bunch of sales I know that a no sale is going to come soon. Also every once in a while i'm going to get someone who bounces a check or disputes a charge on there credit card.

There are assholes out there but there are way more cool people who are going to treat you right. It's not worth our time to worry about some dick who screws us over. What is great about this business is you can write up a notice about them and hopefully save another provider from having the same experience with him and eventually he will learn or no one will see him.

So I guess what I'm saying is have a bigger effect on him then he has on you. Your a bad as and hes an ashole so don't let him change you.

[Toyz]

Jay, where the fuck r u man? I for one get offended if my donation is counted but peeps like u fuck it up for the rest if us. Is there another side to this story or did u screw her over? There is an obvious code here where both guys and gals with good reps look out for each other....

[TheDude88]

So sorry this happened to you sweety.

Toyz, +1, totally agree.

The Dude

[AfterDarkIFeel]

So sorry to hear Kiera... you sound really sweet. Please don't change because of one jerk. Most of us are super nice!

It sounds like you got super unlucky here. I just glanced at his posting/review history and I wouldn't have expected this from him either.