What is the point to including Conversation as a review activity?

[Zabrina Sarafina]

If I had a smokin hot woman or male provider conversing with me ...I'd be Sooo turned on. Heck yes I'd include it in the review. Mental turn-on Hello!

[davidsmith0123]

Zabrina +1. Although I am definitely thinking about a certain female provider. Smart and hot, but she is not in chicago....

[Guest062716]

Originally Posted by Codybeast

Once again to clarify the thread Question which I thought was perfectly clear.

The thread topic is "What is the point to including Convo as a review activity?

I have listed "convo" in previous reviews. Some people are interested in seeing it there, some don't care.

If it does not matter to you, then ignore it.

There are plenty of examples of superfluous "review activities". I simply skip over them and look for the activities that are of interest to me.

A common superfluous example is "MPCFS" and then the hobbyist lists 6 different positions (Mish, Doggie, CG, RCG, ACG, RACG)

Another example is "DFK/LFK" and then the hobbyist lists "kissing"

I may question the purpose of putting "convo" in a review of a 10 min B&G session, but hey, it IS the REVIEWERS' PEROGATIVE.

I have routinely booked multiple hour and even overnight sessions . "Convo" was a big part of the evening to me.

To each their own.

I personally don't have an issue with "convo" listed in the activities.


Respectfully,

OldSarege

[Peyton's Pleasures]

Originally Posted by davidsmith0123

I am definitely one of those clients who wants a provider to be a good conversationalist, someone who is smart enough, and mature enough, to carry on an interesting discussions on a variety of issues during interludes. And I typically book longer appointments, so there are interludes.

It goes without saying that anyone booking a provider for a business engagement or formal evening event would definitely want to know about conversation skills. Think about certain provider posts you have read and consider taking such a poster to a business event! It could have all the makings of a good comedy, and funny to everyone except you.

That said, I understand Cody's point -- why list conversation? Especially because anyone can claim it, and it has so many dimensions and means so many different things. I much prefer to notice that the woman is a good conversationalist -- in my judgement, with respect to the dimensions I care about -- by examining her posts. (And that, gentlemen, is one big reason why I much prefer when these boards are friendly to the ladies -- I want to encourage their posts, to see how they communicate and decide for myself. Put differently, I want to judge the 'book' by the words as well as the pictures -- lol.)

I have to agree with Davidsmith0123. It can be helpful if you are someone that looks for communication as a turn on, for business & formal engagements or just simply something you both enjoy during your interludes.... besides watching the paint peel.

I think that if you are going to list it in a GFE review perhaps commenting on what type/level of discussions you enjoyed with her (dirty talk, travel, politics, weather, car repair... hehehe)...?? Yes... no... maybe?
Other than that, I agree looking at her posts would be another good way to observe her communication skills.

[SofaKingFun]

Whenever I see it listed as an activity,
I've always assumed it meant the dude had a quick-trigger.

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[er48665]

No CONVO is a deal breaker for me.

[BePrepared]

Conversation is actually a NECESSITY for me. I am not the kind of guy who is comfortable stripping down and getting to business with someone i've never exchanged a word with.

If it were up to me, i'd take a provider to dinner before a session just to get to know her first, but since that's fiscally unlikely, a few minutes of conversation is quite welcome

[Zabrina Sarafina]

Originally Posted by er48665

No CONVO is a deal breaker for me.

Originally Posted by BePrepared

Conversation is actually a NECESSITY for me. I am not the kind of guy who is comfortable stripping down and getting to business with someone i've never exchanged a word with.

If it were up to me, i'd take a provider to dinner before a session just to get to know her first, but since that's fiscally unlikely, a few minutes of conversation is quite welcome

Same here. People who can't engage me intellectually bore me to living hell, and I would rarely agree to see them again