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Originally Posted by Deeznuts
Well said! It's not that I can't have an affair but I would certainly deal with guilt. With providers, I'm just fulfilling a fantasy and a need.
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I totally agree with these guys.
I entered the hobby BECAUSE I had the opportunity of affairs. The hobby relieves the pressure that is built up by those opportunities without so much of the risk on my relationship.
In my sick head, I also don't see sexual relations as cheating. Sex is a small part of a real relationship. My idea of cheating is stealing time from your SO and giving it to someone else.
My hobby time does not deter one iota from the quality time that I can spend with my SO.
If anything, it enhances that time, because my eyes and mind wander less.