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mrsMercedez · 04-30-2013, 08:39 AM

Im one of the more laid back providers. Never known to be in trouble nor have i been the reason for it. I been on the board for almost a year now and i have ran into and seen allot problems with respect on this board. NOW why i s it so hard to respect one another?

Providers: watch who you call a bitch you might need her for a.refrence or need more
info on a bad hobby. THIS IS A TEAM EFFORT NOT A GOLDEN PUSSY CONTEst

HOBBIES: WHATCH WHoSE THREAD YOUR HIJACKING BECAUSE IT MIGHT HAVE BEEN IMPORTANT AND NOW NO ONE WANTS TO READ IT AND THAT CAN CAUSE MORE ISSUES LIKE PLAYING WITH SOME ONE SAFETY THAT DOES COME FIRST OR YOU HIJACKERs DONT GIVE A FART??

so why is it you feel your so mouch to critize you think your better? LOL HELL NO OR BECAUSE YOU FEEL LIKE THE BALL IS IN YOUR COURT BACAUSE YOU HAVE THE WALLET? HELL NAW . OR MAYBE YOU WERE JUST BORN AN ASSHOLE.
ETHER WAY ITS WRONG. HOW CAN OUR OWN ACTIVE BOARD MEMBERS BE SO CRUEL AND HOSTILE I CALL THIS MEN WITH BP ATTITUDES WITH A wanNA BE ECCIE/EROS EGO.

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sweet.treat69 · 04-30-2013, 08:47 AM

Mercedez, people are going to act how they act and be who they are, whether they are a good person or not, on here. You can't change many of these providers and hobbyists. We're all grown and many of us stuck in our ways and beliefs.

I do believe some things are better left unsaid, or like Mama used to say, "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all." Sometimes people can be downright mean and unnecessarily nasty... But I wouldn't let it get to you. Try not to pay it any attention.. As hard as that may be.

Some folks LITERALLY wake up wanting to bust somebody's balls or bitch somebody out... It's all apart of the hobby and dealing with some of these characters unfortunately. I've dealt with it myself.. But the best advice I think anyone can give you is BRUSH THAT SHIT OFF and keep conducting your business!! The more they see it gets to you, the harder they will laugh and try to fuck with you more... Just let it go, girl. Trust me. Just do you!! Don't pay it any attention.. Posting more threads about why people are dickheads will only make them flock to threads like this. They DO get defensive. LOL.

Hope this helped... Don't hesitate to PM me if you ever have any questions.. I've been learning how to deal with some folks better as my time here has gone on....

Have a wonderful day! Don't let it get you down!
XOXO Savannah/SweetTreat

mrsMercedez · 04-30-2013, 09:00 AM

To the providers i will no longer be giving refrences or posting alerts no time.for the fuckery of hijackers. NOW I DO WANNA APOLIGIZE TO THE MODS MY LANGUAGE AND THE CHOICE OF WORDS were very unlady like. But i was pissed that my thread got jacked and screword and i got beat up threw a thread for a mispelling. WHAT WAS THE POINT LOL THREAD IS STILL OPEN IF ANY BIDY ELSE HAS.SO MORE RUDE THINGS TO.SAY.ABOUT ME ITS NO LONGER AN ALERT THREAD ...

ITS SPELLING 101 WTF

mrsMercedez · 04-30-2013, 09:03 AM

Ty sweet your words helped a little. Ill be pm you soon.

sweet.treat69 · 04-30-2013, 09:07 AM

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Originally Posted by mrsMercedez

To the providers i will no longer be giving refrences or posting alerts no time.for the fuckery of hijackers. NOW I DO WANNA APOLIGIZE TO THE MODS MY LANGUAGE AND THE CHOICE OF WORDS were very unlady like. But i was pissed that my thread got jacked and screword and i got beat up threw a thread for a mispelling. WHAT WAS THE POINT LOL THREAD IS STILL OPEN IF ANY BIDY ELSE HAS.SO MORE RUDE THINGS TO.SAY.ABOUT ME ITS NO LONGER AN ALERT THREAD ...

ITS SPELLING 101 WTF

.... Girl you are making a mountain out of a molehill. So because some idiots want to proof read your alert and make comments you no longer will provide references?? Where is the connection or the point of that? Don't let these guys and girls get to you like that and make you have a fucked up outlook on the hobby. It can be a good place to be and advertise... If you pick your battles wisely. You're quite honestly throwing a mini tantrum because people said some stuff you didn't like.... SO WHAT!? It could be WORSE..

Hell people have jumped on threads I have made calling me all kinds of bitches and cunts. But that makes THEM look stupid. You're falling RIGHT INTO their trap.. They WANT you to be mad and upset and make crybaby threads about how your thread was hijacked. It happens. It happens all the time actually. But there's a difference between handling it like a spoiled kid or handling it like a MATURE, GROWN woman and provider.. The rest is up to you.. Conduct yourself like a lady and you will reap the profits... Acting bratty and ranting about it won't get you far except your "haters" will probably attack this thread like a lion to a zebra.

And looking forward to your PM baby girl Just trying to help!!

mrsMercedez · 04-30-2013, 09:14 AM

I know and.understand you were trying to help and i thank you lots and lots.

SD2011 · 04-30-2013, 09:20 AM

Just be you and you'll be fine... There's plenty of haters in the world but keep in mind they're offset by the lovers so it all balances out in the end.

Eva Damita · 04-30-2013, 09:36 AM

Remember to take things with a grain of salt...I know it may be hard to not bite back , but it's what's best. Let fools be the fools. And honestly I had no idea what you were talking about...was going to look it up , but I didn't want to feed into negativity. Stay positive!

mrsMercedez · 04-30-2013, 09:50 AM

And thats why i asked the ladies to pm my computer is down hard to to post from my phone.

mrsMercedez · 04-30-2013, 09:51 AM

But ut was easily over looked because of the nagativity

Epimetheus · 04-30-2013, 09:57 AM

You're dealing with a bunch of "Type A" personalities. They are really head strong and usually the most successful personality types. These are the type of folks who can afford to hobby more than someone else.

mrsMercedez · 04-30-2013, 10:04 AM

But that still doesnt give any one an exscuse to bring some one else down. THAT DOESNT MAKE YOU BETTER JUST AS IGNORANT AND I REAPEAT JUST AS IGNORANT

pyramider · 04-30-2013, 11:05 AM

Mercedez, the bs happens out in the real world, and a lot more of it. Here it just seems more concentrated. Sometimes its worth the battle, other times just let it go and live to fight another day. The hard part is figuring out which is the best action for the circumstance.

Namssa · 04-30-2013, 01:34 PM

sweet.treat will give you good advice.
My advice is to slow down and breath, type what you want to say but do not hit send, wait a few minutes and then read what you typed to make sure you still feel like posting it. Sometimes just typing it out is enough and you can then delete it and feel better and be postive. Yes, the guys do judge you on your posts, so it is good to think about of the online image you wish to present.

You have pryamider afraid, he did not even ask for a taint pic.

oldbutstillgoing · 04-30-2013, 01:41 PM

I am a really bad typist and speller. But, as I want people to read and understand what I write, I try to make sure I follow standard grammer, spelling, and other writing rules and guidelines.

May I suggest:
Use Word to compse your post then cut and paste it. Take advantage of Words spell and grammer checker. It also allows you time to cool down when your upset and gives you time to think if you really want to post what your thinking.

I have no idea what prompted you to post this thread. However, based on your typing, I have no desire to even find out. And, the likelyhood of ever seeing you decreased by every missspelled word and grammer error.

Almost every time these threads do more harm than good. Every time you post, you say something about yourself. Many guys use this as part of their screening and research. Just as many ladies do with us guys.

Best wishes to you dear. I hope all gets better for you.