Lesbians as Providers....

[Secret_Amore]

I met another female provider who was a lesbian. when I heard I was shocked thinking wait if you like girls how can you let men f* you??? I never asked her this out loud, I mean there are gay men you their who have kids clearly being gay does not affect your ability to sleep with the opposite sex.

Originally Posted by Passion2015

Lesbians or not they are all here for your money and good laughs when you leave. They know that guys think with their little heads and they take advantage of that with their big heads. Also, if any guy thinks that their so called ATF cares for them, they don't it's only your money so who cares what they are?

>_> um now that i'm independent and can see whoever I desire and not just anybody with cash I only "provide" for guys I like on some level. and I tend to care about the people I like cause i'm not jaded (yet, you never know what the future will do to your mind set)

besides its easier to treat your gentlemen caller well when you actually like the person coming to see you

[Codybeast]

Lesbians are no different than Heteros as Professional Minded providers. Both must possess the ability to have sex without romantic or emotional ties.

Many are lesbian for reasons that do Not include being grossed out by a penis.

There are at least two factors which both lesbian and hetero providers share:

a) Who they prefer to have a romantic relationship which includes emotional ties. For lesbians that would be females.

b) Who they can fuck to pay bills with no romantic/emotional ties which is the trademark of a true pro. That would be men and women but unfortunately for them the client base is mostly men.

I'd wager many lesbians enjoy the physical sensation of a penis just as much as heteros otherwise they wouldn't dominate the dildo/strap-on/vibrator consumer base.

Lesbians are simply not nearly as impressed with the men attached to those penises as romantic or sensual partners as they are with women for a myriad of personal reasons.

[Toyz]

Originally Posted by Codybeast

Lesbians are no different than Heteros as Professional Minded providers. Both must possess the ability to have sex without romantic or emotional ties.

Many are lesbian for reasons that do Not include being grossed out by a penis.

There are at least two factors which both lesbian and hetero providers share:

a) Who they prefer to have a romantic relationship with that largely includes emotional ties. For lesbians that would be females.

b) Who they can fuck to pay bills with no romantic/emotional ties which is the trademark of a true pro. That would be men and women but unfortunately for them the client base is mostly men.

I'd wager many lesbians enjoy the physical sensation of a penis just as much as heteros otherwise they wouldn't dominate the dildo/strap-on/vibrator consumer base.

Lesbians are simply not nearly as impressed with the men attached to those penises as romantic or sensual partners as they are with women for a myriad of reasons.

I echo these sentiments. Two girls I spent/spend serious time with in the hobby (one out of business, one still in) were/are both Bi. One edged towards preferring guys, but liked girls...the other visa versa.

Fact is both enjoyed hetero sex as well...both taught me a few tricks regarding DATY that I did not know...(of course every girls MMV, but when I use what they taught me its generally appreciated).

I think for many girls its much different than for guys...girls can like girls & there is very little stigma attached to it...guys can't like guys that way (& while I have gay friends I am very homophobic to the act my ass is a exiting vehicle only).

[rockerrick]

^^^^^^^

[nuglet]

Many gays have kids and wives. so what?.. I don't care if a lady is bi or straight. I've got a wife, I just look for a good looking, female body to play with... so what? If you're looking for a girlfriend or wife, don't go to Providers, and don't worry that they may have a girlfriend.. most of them already have a boyfriend.

[charly01]

I've had the pleasure of becoming friends with some of these providers outside of the hobby. (And I don't hobby much) Yes, they're here to do a job and if they do the job well, they get paid well but, I don't believe for a minute that the majority of them are devoid of feelings. They do have to separate their personal lives from the hobby and what's wrong with that? If one is a lesbian and you found out? Why would that matter to you? Other than being rude or treating you with disrespect, you know what the 'deal' is so, any other expectations other than that are highly unrealistic.

Use the golden rule of "treat others as you would want to be treated' and most of the time, that's what you'll get!

Just my 2 cents!

[Joan]

Charly,

I love, love, love your above comment! Brilliant thoughts! I'm not lesbian but I AM bisexual and it always worked in my ATFs favours......three somes were AMAZING! ! !

[JohnnyYanks]

Originally Posted by Whispers

Do you WANT to lay down with her to TRY to convert her? or do you walk away knowing you truly do repulse her but she sucks it up and earns a living....

Or #3 - I take great solace knowing I don't view the world, LIFE, through such a strained and narrow lens.