Eye contact is key, not just during BBBJ. I'm just saying

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There is nothing like looking into his eyes as he is cumming, if he can keep 'em open for a sec LOL
That goes for any gent I see. I don't favor men due to age or appearance. I just love to please, and nothing pleases me more than making someone feel good. Some ladies struggle with that. I find it incredibly erotic.
Fuck YMMV 
! Consistency and the
actual enjoyment of what you are doing, are key to ANY mind-blowing time together. Eye contact is just the beginning IMO.