Quid pro quo

[Abigail (Source of JOY)]

Originally Posted by KinkLover

So much hostility and name calling on this thread. If you don't want people's opinions, don't start a fucking thread asking for their opinions. Yeah, I know, you claim you didn't ask for a review, but your posts make your feelings pretty clear: clients who ask for okays but don't do reviews are non-contributing trolls. Does that sum it up?

Nope... my post asked a simple question... what you take and assume it to mean is up to you... and I didnt call anyone in particular a name who actually gave an opinion. Ijs

[Eccie Addict]

I've see Abigail and have yet for her to ask for a review........ and she gave me an ok.

I don't think she asks for reviews and I'm not certain she even cares about them.

[Syncial]

I don't care to get an OK on p411. Hell my last OK was over a year ago and I do book via p411.

Originally Posted by Wakeuр

P.S.-I don't need an Okay afterward, I already know I'm awesome...

Damn, I guess that would explain why I don't get OK's. I thought it was cuz the girls are just lazy.


I do not like doing reviews anymore for a few reasons:

1. It takes time to write one.
2. I'm lazy
3. Sometimes the reviews get pretty repetative.
4. Had a girl throw it in another girl's face that I wrote a review of her.

[JohnnyYanks]

Ο πνιγμένος, από τα μαλλιά του πιάνεται.

Translation: Beware large breasted women spouting Latin

(Do you prefer Horace to Virgil?)

[LexusLover]

Originally Posted by KinkLover

So much hostility and name calling on this thread.

.... clients who ask for okays but don't do reviews are non-contributing trolls. Does that sum it up?

.. No. You left off the "not Mental Giants" part.

[oilfieldscum]

Originally Posted by Abigail (Source of JOY)

Yet another fucktard who just aint getting it.....NO ONE ASKED FOR A REVIEW!!!!!!!!!!

Sweetie I didn't sat anything about you. My post was addressing this chica....

http://www.eccie.net/member.php?u=68788


But since you brought it up....

Originally Posted by Abigail (Source of JOY)

Most often means a more or less equal exchange or substitution of goods or services. English speakers often use the term to mean "a favor for a favor"....

I was having a conversation with a client, whom booked with me off of P411, and had ample "OK's". We got onto the discussion of "reviews" here on ECCIE, and he was very adamant about "I don't post reviews, PERIOD"....

Got me to thinking... I have been hounded for days by clients wanting me to "ok" them on P411... and I have logged on and done so. (In particular by the said client mentioned above!!) Full well knowing that if I asked him to do me the same favor by posting a review, I would be told NO. I have plenty of reviews, but what if I wanted to "freshen the stats" so to say, with a new review? So, now I am feeling like the Quid pro quo is lacking a little.....

Does this happen often to others? Or even, the other way around? Do some providers hold out on giving "OK's"? Is it really a UTR thing? (like your wife won't find out about P411, but will see a review and know it's you) Or, is it just lazy?

You didn't say you asked for a review. You insinuated that you would have asked for one as a return favor for and OK on p411 but you already knew the hobbyiest would say no.

[Guest123018]

Exactly!
From my understanding she didn't verbally ask, but wanted to ask but already knew the answer
so she figured she'd hold out on giving an OK.
Atleast that's how i understood it from what she wrote

[LexusLover]

Originally Posted by Seeking ~P

Exactly! From my understanding she didn't verbally ask, but wanted to ask but already knew the answer so she figured she'd hold out on giving an OK. Atleast that's how i understood it from what she wrote

Which is the "best case scenario" from the OP.

But what does a "trolling-not-a-Mental-Giant" know?

[Eccie Addict]

Really stuck on that huh

[LexusLover]

Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Really stuck on that huh

I'm not, ...

but it is one of those ignorant disrespectful comments .....

........... characteristic of many posts on this board.

[Abigail (Source of JOY)]

Originally Posted by oilfieldscum

Sweetie I didn't sat anything about you. My post was addressing this chica....

http://www.eccie.net/member.php?u=68788


But since you brought it up....



You didn't say you asked for a review. You insinuated that you would have asked for one as a return favor for and OK on p411 but you already knew the hobbyiest would say no.

It was really more of a "what if or a hypothetical" question.

I dont ask for reviews. I have reviews and have been around long enough to have established myself (both bcd and on the board). At this point, if anyone chooses to write a review it is solely for their benefit (on this free board, where men gain premium access without paying for it).

It really is a shame that someone cant post a thread that is a legitimate topic and it not turn to this... yes, I said Mental Giants, and I will stand by that still... because in my opinion it takes very little knowledge to be nothing but argumentative and closed minded instead of being open minded and discussing something other than whale watching and "Im leaving" threads. Personal attacks on me or other posters bring nothing to this thread.

Mods... feel free to close...

[Abigail (Source of JOY)]

Originally Posted by Abigail (Source of JOY)

Most often means a more or less equal exchange or substitution of goods or services. English speakers often use the term to mean "a favor for a favor"....

I was having a conversation with a client, whom booked with me off of P411, and had ample "OK's". We got onto the discussion of "reviews" here on ECCIE, and he was very adamant about "I don't post reviews, PERIOD"....

Got me to thinking... I have been hounded for days by clients wanting me to "ok" them on P411... and I have logged on and done so. (In particular by the said client mentioned above!!) Full well knowing that if I asked him to do me the same favor by posting a review, I would be told NO. I have plenty of reviews, but what if I wanted to "freshen the stats" so to say, with a new review? So, now I am feeling like the Quid pro quo is lacking a little.....

Does this happen often to others? Or even, the other way around? Do some providers hold out on giving "OK's"? Is it really a UTR thing? (like your wife won't find out about P411, but will see a review and know it's you) Or, is it just lazy?

Just a What If....In this hypothetical scenario....

[Valerie]

Originally Posted by enderwiggin

And to answer your question about providers holding out on giving OKs, they can't unless there are legitimate reasons for her to withhold, i.e. short/stiff on the donation, harassment, violence, etc. Any time a provider has flaked on the OK, I've emailed the staff at P411 and they've disabled her account until she gave it.

Not always the case... I will not give an OK if I personally wouldn't see the guy again. That situation happened to me before and I explained to them why I wasn't going to give an OK. The guy was "safe" ( not LE), and didn't short me but I refused to give him an OK because I wouldn't recommend him to another lady, nor would I see him again.

To the OP- I totally get what you're trying to say... I don't ask for reviews anymore, but if hypothetically I did, and the guy told me no, then I would prob tell him that's fine, but if you can't be bothered to review me, then don't expect me to be bothered to go out of my way to OK or Whitelist you...If a guy refuses to review after being asked to, then has the audacity to ask me to whitelist him or whatever, I find it very cheeky.

[Eccie Addict]

What if you asked for a review and he said no but didn't ask for an ok, would you still give him one or would you still not give it cause you didn't get a review?

[Valerie]

I generally only give OKs if they are requested..