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Guest120113 · 02-16-2013, 07:15 PM

Since this is NOT a hobby related article, I hope this is the proper forum to place this rant in...

With my son having health issues, I have spent the last couple of days at my folks place. Because some so called "friends" of mine have 5 children in their home and very limited funds, I allowed them entry into my apartment Friday evening so they could spend some alone time together as a belated valentine's gift. We didn't have the mutual respect conversation because I ASSUMED they would show some respect and grattitude for the favor I bestowed them.

WRONG!!! They raided my sex toy stash, left toys with SHIT on them on my bed, trashed my place, left ciggerette burns on the carpet and on one of my comfortors, overflowed my toilet, stole money I keep in a Bailey's tin on my bartop, rifled through my lingerie drawer ( GOD ONLY KNOWS WHAT THE HELL IS MISSING ) and made so much ruckus I had a lease violation on my door when I got back today.

UGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE!!!!????? It was easy to change the locks, but hard to accept the sheer AUDACITY OF THESE ASSHOLES AND THE RESPONSE I GOT WHEN I CONFRONTED THEM WITH THE INFORMATION I AM SHARING HERE. " Miss high and mighty" they called me.

WOW. Never, EVER AGAIN!!!

Guest061815-1 · 02-16-2013, 07:24 PM

One word - karma. Yours, and theirs. I think we know who'll win in the end.

SpursFan · 02-16-2013, 07:27 PM

Unbelievable,

Show some kindness to be repaid with this kind of gratitude?

Looks like you need a new circle of friends.

SF

Baldeagle · 02-16-2013, 07:27 PM

Sorry, and that doesn't help I know. I guess people can't be trusted anymore and that is a shame.

Guest100114-1 · 02-16-2013, 07:29 PM

Wow!!! Sorry to hear that. Perhaps they are not real friends. Certainly not anymore anyway.

Guest081519 · 02-16-2013, 07:29 PM

You should probably be more picky as to who you choose as friends.

I couldn't lend my bedroom to someone. If I wanted to be THAT nice, and THAT concerned how others got freaky with each other, I would get them a hotel room.

Sonya Playmate · 02-16-2013, 07:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JJ

You should probably be more picky as to who you choose as friends.

I couldn't lend my bedroom to someone. If I wanted to be THAT nice, and THAT concerned Dow how others got freaky with each other, I would get them a hotel room.

True...

Guest120113 · 02-16-2013, 08:10 PM

Sheets can be washed. Showers can be scrubbed.
THIS type of backstabberry... ( made up word, sorry ) cannot be erased and frankly, I'M HURT.
Whether I " got them a hotel room" or NOT isn't the issue. The issue is, frankly, I'm trying to turn over a new leaf, a softer side, a far cry from the revenge seeking "gangster mission" bitch known as " GYPSIE" and "CJ." Tonight... both those aliases have returned and I am going to take KARMA on my damn self.

Fuck it... strike that from the record. I don't have anything to prove. God knows I could make the wrath rain down on their pathetic lives, but for what purpose really? To ease my own pain over being disrespected in such a manner? Not worth it anymore. Not with so much on the line with my child... who REALLY matters. Karma already got them anyway. They are broke down penniless losers, scraping up the lowest of hustles to break a dime. Just ranting about it makes me feel better.

Now, I think I shall go paint something purple.

DallasRain · 02-16-2013, 08:38 PM

damn that sucks! Just goes to show you cannot trust people you call friends!!

so sorry that happened baby!

Guest081519 · 02-16-2013, 08:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ginger Lovelace

Sheets can be washed. Showers can be scrubbed.
THIS type of backstabberry... ( made up word, sorry ) cannot be erased and frankly, I'M HURT...

...They are broke down penniless losers, scraping up the lowest of hustles to break a dime. Just ranting about it makes me feel better.

Now, I think I shall go paint something purple.

Awesome! You can only pick yourself up and take the high road. It may be time to sit down and start making better choices for both you and your child.

In the end, the only people in the world that should really matter is your children. Would you like to raise your children in an environment where they could be influenced by jackasses?

Personally, I detest talking to my parents because they are assholes. Don't be that parent.

Guest120113 · 02-16-2013, 09:01 PM

LMAO JJ! I have a parent I place in the "can't talk to asshole" category as well!

I would never BE THAT PARENT... I will admit I have made many many many mistakes... but where we stand today is: my (almost ) 14 year old boy can talk to me about ANYTHING and can always ensure I will not give him a fake or foolish answer. He has made his OWN decisions regarding his outlook on his father with NO coaching from me. He is the most down to earth, NON MATERIALISTIC, smart little man and has chosen to pursue journalism as his major... ( tears falling, just a sec...)

He's a writer, just like his mama.... or just like his mama WANTED to be. At his age I started making many wrong decisions, and frankly, derailed. I have explained ALL of the consequences of my actions to him, and stressed the UTTER importance of education, following your dreams, and not allowing peer pressure, partying, and yes, frivolous sex, hinder his talents and abilities or stand in the way of his bright future. Believe it or not, the child has actually LISTENED. He's seen ALOT in his short life, knows more about the "real" world than he should... but THANK GOD... he has taken that information and used it as his own personal roadmap to success.

We got his STAR scores back this week... commended in writing, 8 points on an essay out of 8. Off topic... sorry. I am just so damn proud of him. The asshats who trashed my apartment pale in comparison to watching that beautiful baby of mine excel in every way possible.

Now... raising him up in health as well.... as we prepare for the doctor visits that lay ahead.

Guest101618 · 02-16-2013, 10:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ginger Lovelace

... rifled through my lingerie drawer ( GOD ONLY KNOWS WHAT THE HELL IS MISSING ) and made so much ruckus I had a lease violation on my door when I got back today.

UGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE!!!!?????

I'm absolutely certain he doesn't look as good in the lingerie as you do. Oh, you didn't think it was him?

mwsatx · 02-17-2013, 01:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ginger Lovelace

LMAO JJ! I have a parent I place in the "can't talk to asshole" category as well!

I would never BE THAT PARENT... I will admit I have made many many many mistakes... but where we stand today is: my (almost ) 14 year old boy can talk to me about ANYTHING and can always ensure I will not give him a fake or foolish answer. He has made his OWN decisions regarding his outlook on his father with NO coaching from me. He is the most down to earth, NON MATERIALISTIC, smart little man and has chosen to pursue journalism as his major... ( tears falling, just a sec...)

He's a writer, just like his mama.... or just like his mama WANTED to be. At his age I started making many wrong decisions, and frankly, derailed. I have explained ALL of the consequences of my actions to him, and stressed the UTTER importance of education, following your dreams, and not allowing peer pressure, partying, and yes, frivolous sex, hinder his talents and abilities or stand in the way of his bright future. Believe it or not, the child has actually LISTENED. He's seen ALOT in his short life, knows more about the "real" world than he should... but THANK GOD... he has taken that information and used it as his own personal roadmap to success.

We got his STAR scores back this week... commended in writing, 8 points on an essay out of 8. Off topic... sorry. I am just so damn proud of him. The asshats who trashed my apartment pale in comparison to watching that beautiful baby of mine excel in every way possible.

Now... raising him up in health as well.... as we prepare for the doctor visits that lay ahead.

+1000. Way to go Ginger. Let the asshat drama go and focus on your boy. Sounds like you're doing the right things. And if you want to be a writer, it's not too late to give it a shot...

Guest041315 · 02-17-2013, 07:11 AM

I'm sorry that happened to you. I remember what my dad always said "You can pick your friends, and you can pick your nose, but you shouldn't pick your friends nose". Wait, that's not the phrase I wanted. Oh yeah, he also said "Pick your friends, don't let them pick you".

rockerrick · 02-17-2013, 08:38 AM

Damn Ginger those are some real shitty so called friends ! Some people can't be , and are not worthy of being helped . Try not to let it sour your helping or generosity ! Have the mutual respect discussion next time . Material stuff can be replaced , I wish you and your son best wishes for the upcoming issues !