Bait & Switch how do you guys put up with it?

[Guest102419]

If, the girl is not the girl in the picture. "True bait and switch" I am done right then. I leave. I won't even thank them for wasting my time. I have done this a few times. I will not, have not and refuse to tolerate that crap. if they don't like it, I don't care.

Now a lil off topic

If, I ask them to be wearing a certain type of out fit. And they are not. I do not like it. (I never ask for more than a normal woman should have) Heels, skirt etc...

If, they advertise GFE and won't LFK or DFK. That really sets me off. I have been known to just say, this isn't going to work. I could care less about a bbbj. I am fine with a cbj. I rarely see anyone that is not GFE. Just a better time for me. If GFE is advertised and not available. To me, that is a form of bait and switch. However, not the true definition there of.

JMO

[falconbueller]

Originally Posted by TheSearcher

If, the girl is not the girl in the picture. "True bait and switch" I am done right then. I leave. I won't even thank them for wasting my time. I have done this a few times. I will not, have not and refuse to tolerate that crap. if they don't like it, I don't care.

Now a lil off topic

If, I ask them to be wearing a certain type of out fit. And they are not. I do not like it. (I never ask for more than a normal woman should have) Heels, skirt etc...

If, they advertise GFE and won't LFK or DFK. That really sets me off. I have been known to just say, this isn't going to work. I could care less about a bbbj. I am fine with a cbj. I rarely see anyone that is not GFE. Just a better time for me. If GFE is advertised and not available. To me, that is a form of bait and switch. However, not the true definition there of.

JMO

+1 to everything you just said! I look at P411 and occasionally run across girls that say DFK or something but don't actually do it. So annoying...

[ilickit]

Great post, Mya,
Yes, "Classic" def of B&S is that a different girl than the girl in the ad shows up.
For me personally, however, I can see where Mya is coming from. I consider myself having been bait and switched if there is anything misleading. If she says she's 25, but she's 35, I have been mislead. If she says she does one service and comes up with a reason to not do it during the session, I am pissed. And yes, if she is unkept or her place is a mess, I think it's a form of B&S. The girls here are not street walkers, and I expect an 'escort' level of service.
In terms of how I handle it is another matter. Since I usually do outcall, it is a tough situation for her to show up and me throw her right out. I usually go with it a bit, and find an excuse to cut the session short. It happens less and less as my experience grows.
I'll write a review on such an experience if I think it will help others.
Basically, however, I chalk it up to experience and move on.

[ManSlut]

Originally Posted by falconbueller

+1 to everything you just said! I look at P411 and occasionally run across girls that say DFK or something but don't actually do it. So annoying...

Yes, I completely agree with this statement falconbueller !! I have never had a girlfriend that wouldn't DFK. I truly hate the one's that try to play Hide-The-Tongue and call this DFK...This thread has gotten my interest thinking, "Should we write our reviews if services were misrepresented as a Bait-n-Switch?"...I can imagine alot of provider rebuttals would start popping up if they are members, calling the dudes fat smell asses or such & such, as to why they didn't do what they state they do...But absolutely, if more providers were like Mya this Hobby World would be a much better place.

My last thought is sometimes providers have an off/bad day. I doubt anyone brings there 'A' game every session. It just wouldn't seem fair to a Lady to classify a bad/not up to expectations as a Bait-n-Switch, which I could see some guy's trying to do. But, changing the services is a 'Shouldn't Happen' type of thing.

[VIP Mya Michelle]

Originally Posted by ManSlut

2) How do you know what we do or do not tolerate? How do you know the providers we see have unkept incalls or they answer the door in their pajamas or are unmade up? This seems to be a huge assumption on your part and more like an ad?

I know because i have had lots of attempted friendships (i say attempted because i cant aggree with their mindset and have to sever) with other providers and even i cant believe the way they do things. I have heard the attitudes of girls who are like all i'm trying to do is get them to the door. I have heard lots of hobbyist stories first hand not to mention the alerts and reviews posted. I am sure us Providers know the behind the scenes better than you hobbyist think you do. Granted some guys do because they have been in the game for a while. I am always amazed to hear how some providers think about the hobby. Some really don't care...

When you show up and the girls is different or doesnt do what she says she does or has gained 20 pounds or has lied about her age, thats not an accident. They did it on purpose and basically said "fuck you" before you ever got in the door.

[ManSlut]

Originally Posted by Mya Michelle

I know because i have had lots of attempted friendships (i say attempted because i cant aggree with their mindset and have to sever) with other providers and even i cant believe the way they do things. I have heard the attitudes of girls who are like all i'm trying to do is get them to the door. I have heard lots of hobbyist stories first hand not to mention the alerts and reviews posted. I am sure us Providers know the behind the scenes better than you hobbyist think you do. Granted some guys do because they have been in the game for a while. I am always amazed to hear how some providers think about the hobby. Some really don't care...

When you show up and the girls is different or doesnt do what she says she does or has gained 20 pounds or has lied about her age, thats not an accident. They did it on purpose and basically said "fuck you" before you ever got in the door.

Good for you, Mya, you have a good head on your shoulders (not to mention a helluva body), even choosing to not befriend someone who is a ripoff artist...Oh believe me, we know you gals talk to each other.

These bad types you speak of, ABSOLUTELY don't get my repeat business. I have few of these type of sessions because I do my homework. Again, I look at the 'Yes' or 'No' recommendation differently then most guys. Would you spend the same amount of money again to see this Lady and did she meet or exceed expectations are the questions I ask myself.

Keep doing what you're doing Mya !! If it's not paying off right now, IT WILL !!

The Passionate ManSlut...Gatekeeper for the Truth and all Humorous Things

[guest043013-2]

Nice threAD.

[Guest062316]

It's a sad sad day when you have to put BASICS in your mission statement!! ALL of the girls should have a clean place, be on time, not answering phone ect.... I would like to think WE all do it and there is no need to ADD the OBVIOUS but WOW! LOL it would be like adding a

#11 I promise not smell with BO and PO and brush my teeth

#12 I provide condoms

You sound like a very nice well kept lady MYA and that is portayed in your posts, pics ect....

Guys do enjoy different things, I usually go with light to no make up as seen on my pictures, nice college girl next door! very cutesy and not as done up, someone to have a beer with flirt have fun and most importantly laugh!

The real message is, different strokes for different folks! and most of the statement SHOULD be a given. (all kudos to MYA)

[Eva Damita]

Originally Posted by tigercat

Nice threAD.

I was waiting for that...

" It's a sad sad day when you have to put BASICS in your mission statement!! ALL of the girls should have a clean place, be on time, not answering phone ect.... I would like to think WE all do it and there is no need to ADD the OBVIOUS but WOW! LOL it would be like adding a

#11 I promise not smell with BO and PO and brush my teeth

#12 I provide condoms "

...RIGHT ON Lolabrea01

#13 I promise to not tell your wife /SO hehe

Any more basics ??

Of course we know not all providers have these standards, and obviously, that's what makes them a poor provider. But those who do, it shows in reviews, finances, business growth, etc.

[pyramider]

Damn girls ... Lola, Eva, and Mya forget the most important item ... taint. Not one of them mentioned taint or taint activities ... I had so much hope for them.

I remember one lady was 23 for ten years ...