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Originally Posted by Centralarnewguy
You aren't pissing me off dude it's all good but some people just don't care or realize how simple words that mildly amuse people who say them can have devastating consequences on those they are aimed at. Why do something that mildly amuses you and can really hurt someone. Girls in this profession go through enough on a daily basis why add to that? Their job is to please us and make us happy and they may not be as smart as you or as well travelled as you but they are better than u in so many ways. You sir sound very successful and well to do and by no doubt of your own hard work and skill level! That is why someone like you if u did care about fellow Man U could have such a wonderful impact on so many! I guess I just don't understand why people who have a choice of how they want to act choose to Hate rather than Love! Jesus I sounds like a Hippie but I am emotional and I care about what happens to those less fortunate or in need of someone to defend them!
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As I've mentioned in a recent thread, I think it's a shame when sides are taken by outsiders who have no knowledge of the goings-on back channel. I agree that random, unprovoked, mean-spirited taunting should not be tolerated. That being said, sending malicious emails from dummy accounts, making prank phone calls, and posting wild accusations with no logical basis should not be tolerated either. Should the inability to intelligently communicate be rewarded regardless of the situation and circumstances? So, because I can complete a sentence and use correct punctuation then I am expected to accept bullying? Slander? Threats? All without the help of my very own WK? When did possessing the strength and ability to defend oneself start being seen as some sort of hidden weapon? Why is it that when we use this ability then we are frowned upon and called bullies? Is intelligence cheating nowadays? An undeserved advantage?? Should it not be promoted rather than discouraged? Why does immaturity earn respect? If I claim to be the victim then does that make it so? Ignorance is not a crutch. Being ignorant does not mean that you are free to provoke and taunt as you see fit without facing any backlash. The WKs are coming out, but why? To protect those
less fortunate or in need?!?
A provider begins a thread encouraging members to view a newly updated showcase; it has been made clear to any and all why this qualifies as a thre
AD. A hobbyist voices a legitimate question regarding the showcase. The provider responds with incomprehensible, rude, arrogant jargon. Where is the victim? Why assign the title of victim to someone who clearly believes themselves to be superior and above all questioning or challenging. By the OP's own admission she is
just doing her thang and her high paying professional gentlman spoil a girl very well. Less fortunate and in need? By who's definition?! The provider throws out wild accusations of jealousy and hater-ation and now the big boys are coming to save her? Arrogant ignorance, in this instance, is the equivalent of slitting ones wrists and jumping into a sharks tank. I doubt the thread would have gotten so out of hand had the OP answered the question like a mature, logical, sane adult. I don't understand how the arrogant, combative, know it all attitude translates into
less fortunate and in need.
This thread has taken an ugly tone and I want to make it clear that Blad and his misogynistic, "I'm so fancy and rich" opinions are not my own. High school was a bad place for me and I will not indulge in unprovoked meanness. The thread is drifting and I think several recent posts are inappropriate and hateful. I can not speak for everyone, but I can speak for myself. Now lets go back to before Blad brought his Napoleon Complex out to play and things got out of hand... The issue of communicating maturely and tactfully should be addressed. Arrogance and ego do not (SHOULD NOT) earn anyone favor, regardless of sexual abilities or social status. After reading this thread it is painfully obvious that the OP (Dreams) and her main antagonizer (Blad) have similar personally traits...
