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Guest041014-2 · 11-12-2012, 10:19 PM

I am one of those guys that like to try and please my partner as much as she tries to please me. It makes the session fun for me. The first nut of the day is good, second is all right and the third or more is a little more challenging. Two or three days in a row, while feeling good is kind of tired.
Guys- what do you think or do. Don't tell me you bring flowers.
Ladies- how do you do it, with enthusiasm(ha!) day in and out. Is it a pain in the ass and just a job? It's must be fun with some guys but what about the over weight, cock hound who thinks he is a porn star. What do we need to do to put a spark in the date? (if a spark can be done). Give some serious 411. Thanks.

KCQuestor · 11-13-2012, 01:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Dawg

Guys- what do you think or do. Don't tell me you bring flowers.

I don't understand the question. Are you asking what we do to make sure that the lady has a good time? Or what do we do to make sure we can cum three days in a row? I am seriously confused.

And then you ask the ladies what they do to get through the days of having sex over and over again? How do they keep enthusiastic when they are seeing an "over weight, cock hound who thinks he is a porn star"?

Can you repeat your question more clearly?

Guest102513-1 · 11-13-2012, 01:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Dawg

I am one of those guys that like to try and please my partner as much as she tries to please me. It makes the session fun for me. The first nut of the day is good, second is all right and the third or more is a little more challenging. Two or three days in a row, while feeling good is kind of tired.
Guys- what do you think or do. Don't tell me you bring flowers.
Ladies- how do you do it, with enthusiasm(ha!) day in and out. Is it a pain in the ass and just a job? It's must be fun with some guys but what about the over weight, cock hound who thinks he is a porn star. What do we need to do to put a spark in the date? (if a spark can be done). Give some serious 411. Thanks.

Add a c-note or two to her rate....hell I don't know, but I would imagine that would be an interesting bump to her enthusiam

And just so you know, I'm not flaming your thread, just throwing out an idea

equation · 11-13-2012, 08:47 AM

Variety is the spice of life. Try a little "role playing". Personally, I like the naughty female cop who stops me, checks me for weapons, and then goes on to assault me in the most sensual way against my will.

cuddlyteddybear · 11-13-2012, 09:43 AM

Find a provider who enjoys getting you off as much as you do her. Then just relax and let it go where it goes. It's not a contest. LOL.

And the basics: come to the date clean, fresh, looking well taken care of; be respectful; relax and let your inner freak out, which will get her to do the same; HAVE FUN.

i'va biggen · 11-13-2012, 12:21 PM

Find the most unattractive provider she will really be grateful you want to see her.(bring flowers)

b@ileythepistol · 11-13-2012, 04:03 PM

All I ask is that a man is clean and respectful and on time there really isent much more i would ask for.....

Guest052616 · 11-13-2012, 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Dawg

I am one of those guys that like to try and please my partner as much as she tries to please me. It makes the session fun for me. The first nut of the day is good, second is all right and the third or more is a little more challenging. Two or three days in a row, while feeling good is kind of tired.
Guys- what do you think or do. Don't tell me you bring flowers.
Ladies- how do you do it, with enthusiasm(ha!) day in and out. Is it a pain in the ass ONLY WHEN U DONT USE LOTS OF LUBE, LOL and just a job? It's must be fun with some guys but what about the over weight, cock hound who thinks he is a porn star. What do we need to do to put a spark in the date? (if a spark can be done). Give some serious 411. Thanks.

I was blessed with the pleasure of mutliple O's. I am also natural pleaser. I actually can get off more intensely when im pleasing someone... Dont need actual penetration to get my rocks off.

Plus i dont book back to back. I have plenty of time to nap... eat... nap.. workout....bubble bath...eat again...

guest073113-2 · 11-13-2012, 05:26 PM

For a guy to impress me or add that Spark, I like them to arrive
Clean body
Clean teeth
Dirty mind

I think that spark is started by a mutual beneficial relationships and it grows as you learn about ea. other. I my self enjoy watching my partner trying to hold back I not only enjoy but love to please! However I love it to when they return the favor!

Longermonger · 11-14-2012, 12:43 AM

+9000 on clean body, clean teeth, dirty mind.

Most times, because of STDs, there is only so much you can do to please a lady. Sometimes though, you can give her some DATY and DATO. In my experience, a carefully placed warm wet tongue is like a skeleton key; it unlocks all sorts of things that ladies usually keep locked up.

Allie_Kat · 11-16-2012, 03:04 PM

If he makes an effort to click with me, makes me smile, is a gentleman, smells nice & clean, these are some of the things that make me happy and make me want to respond in kind. It's really a case of treat others how you expect to be treated. If you see a good provider who enjoys this lifestyle and her reviews show it, you're on the right track.

i'va biggen · 11-16-2012, 03:53 PM

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Originally Posted by b@ileythepistol

All I ask is that a man is clean and respectful and on time there really isent much more i would ask for.....

How about the donation?

b@ileythepistol · 11-16-2012, 08:23 PM

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Originally Posted by ekim008

How about the donation?

Lol I guess that's important too but nobody else mentioned it I diddnt figure that was part of the question

DestinyInKC · 11-20-2012, 09:57 PM

I always have a great time on my "dates."
the only things that really bug me is when someone isnt clean!
or when someone is late, or desides not to come, but doesnt bother to call.. so you are kinda just sitting there waiting.
I love nice guys who like to talk and have fun.
But I do understand the first visit some guys are nervous. dont forget the female is probably just as nervous too on a first date!!
but for the most part, like i said I just like someone who is ready to have a good time.

malwoody · 11-20-2012, 11:25 PM

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Originally Posted by cuddlyteddybear

Find a provider who enjoys getting you off as much as you do her. Then just relax and let it go where it goes. It's not a contest. LOL.

And the basics: come to the date clean, fresh, looking well taken care of; be respectful; relax and let your inner freak out, which will get her to do the same; HAVE FUN.

Dang, I thought it was a "contest"..like a race to see who got there first....right??