Providers - 69+ things a Hobbyist should never do!

[VIP Mya Michelle]

I dislike when the first thing a guy asks me upon making an appointment is whats the special?

[Guest071315]

I don't know.... If you have to go, you have to go!! I don't take it personally unless you destroy the bathroom. It is bad to hold in excrement and urine!

[Guest071315]

Ohhh, I have another.... Asking to be the first of the day!!!!!!! Ugh. Rude. How early do you start on such and such day is a better way to state that without hurting feelings.

[KittyLamour]

My worst pet peeve is when they don't do any reading (i.e. showcase, website) before calling & want you to quote rates and svcs.

My favorites are clients who aren't in a rush and have time to relax and enjoy themselves...

[Bobster36]

But so many of the providers post a special with the instruction to "email" or "contact me" to find out what it is. You're damned right that's going to be my first question!

And don't think we don't notice the girls that don't post specials on BOTH eccie and P411, only one of those. Or different rates in your showcase vs your website vs P411.

I can provide plenty of current examples. If the Providers were consistent, the hobbyists wouldn't always ask about rates. Don't get me started on the selective memory of some of you girls promising "grandfathered" consulting fees only to have memory loss later.....yep, hobbyists will always be focused on rates.

[VIP Mya Michelle]

Well i do not title my ad's with "S-P-E-C-I-A-L call me now!!"
In fact i have on my showcase that there are no specials for the rest of the year.
I do however offer a p411 special

I tried to offer a grandfather special to a client of mine and he asked me why i was lowering my rates, i said so i can get you to come back. He very warmly told me not to lower my prices he will pay my regular rate, i did not need to lower my rates to get his business. And that lowering rates is not the way to go, and can even be a turn off. As it comes off desperate, and as if you're cheapening yourself. A good provider never has to go down on her rates.... In any business the goal is to be able to stay at your curent rate, or thrive ahead to higher rates.


i forgot to add what i do like. I do like it when a client has funny stories, and pillow talk.

[Brooklyn Sky]

not being presentable... that rally grinds my gears lol

[projectbliss]

On the rates issue - hobbiest if you cannot afford it, dont engage in it. A woman has no obligation to sleep with you or see you at all and just because you pay for her time doesnt mean she will ignore disgusting or abhorent behavior. Go to the gym, take a shower and bring flowers, its a date - treat it that way.

[projectbliss]

On the rates issue - hobbiest if you cannot afford it, dont engage in it. A woman has no obligation to sleep with you or see you at all and just because you pay for her time doesnt mean she will ignore disgusting or abhorent behavior. Go to the gym, take a shower and bring flowers, its a date - treat it that way. If you remember you are on a date the rules apply if you impress her and strike her fancy you may get lucky and have an excellent night.

[luscious_mia]

Please do not ever "offer" what you will pay for the services of any lady I book for, and on the same token, do not offer to write an excellent review in exchange for a lowered rate...bad form.

Already had this occur three times here in Dallas, kind of shocked!

Rates and reviews are clearly posted, always.

[Guest100513-2]

Originally Posted by luscious_mia

do not offer to write an excellent review in exchange for a lowered rate...bad form.


Already had this occur three times here in Dallas, kind of shocked!

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I will give you a dollar if you name them, eccie handle only of course

[pyramider]

Don't fall for Monck's offer ... He will then get you to buy him KFC.

Just name the turds ...

[rcinokc]

Originally Posted by pyramider

If you go to the scraps site, you can probably still locate the rant by a retired Houston lady. She went on complete meltdown. And tards fanned the flames. SHMB gold. Since then I rarely even go near the bathroom except to hose off.

That was somewhat epic wasn't it

[DimSum]

Originally Posted by luscious_mia

Please do not ever "offer" what you will pay for the services of any lady I book for, and on the same token, do not offer to write an excellent review in exchange for a lowered rate...bad form.

Already had this occur three times here in Dallas, kind of shocked!

Rates and reviews are clearly posted, always.

Thats a shame.

I would have loved to have met up with you while you were in town but I'm still too new at this that i didn't want to waste your time.

Maybe next time.....hopefully

[Bliss of DFW]

I love it when he wants to listen to the same music I listen to.
Also, when they vocalize their appreciation in the extra effort I take in dressing up and getting dolled up. Finally, their return visit is always the upmost compliment.