I think I should start dating any pointers?

[82Vinny]

Are you single? Are you tired and fed up of seeing happy, in love couples kissing in parks and walking through the city arm in arm? Iam. I feel lonely and that everyone else in my social group has a boyfriend or a girlfriend? Being single is not a bad thing, it's just a hard thing to go through and can play with your emotions and self confidence. What are some good dating tips? And where should I start looking in San Antonio for a Nice,Handsome guy?

Tired of my brothers playing this song for me everytime we get into the car to go out! *SIGH
LOL
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m1VGhleMrsI

[SpursFan]

That's just so wrong of your brothers.

Can relate though, holidays are not fun for the singles out there.

I prefer to get the heck out of town.

SF

[Laz]

Pick me!!! Pick me!!!!

On a more serious note. I know how you feel. It would be nice to have someone to be close to without worrying about limits. However, if I had that I probably would not hobby anymore unless she also enjoyed it. Now that would be the best of both worlds.

[Guest081519]

You are asking the wrong community for dating advice. We are all a bit screwed up in that department (otherwise we wouldn't be here). I hope that you succeed finding someone that will love you.

[Sonya Playmate]

Originally Posted by JJ

You are asking the wrong community for dating advice. We are all a bit screwed up in that department (otherwise we wouldn't be here). I hope that you succeed finding someone that will love you.

True, JJ.

Vinny, I would try looking into dating sites. Very "rare" you find that special guy that understands. Good luck on happiness ;-) As we all deserve to be loved by the one!

[fishingtwo]

I can relate and wish you luck in your quest. btw I am available

[M.I.L.F. JOY]

Omg your bros are so mean!!

Girl just go out with me im the best in playing cupid.....

Your a beautiful girl yet being a provider takes a very special secure man to accept you. Trust me they exist!!! PM me when your ready to have some fun!!

If you dont remember me im the Gold Digger you met Holloweenie night!!

[guy fawkes]

I feel lonely and that everyone else in my social group has a boyfriend or a girlfriend? YES

Being single is not a bad thing, it's just a hard thing to go through and can play with your emotions and self confidence.
What are some good dating tips?
Try not to pick boys yet men. A mature person is important.

Please do not set your BAR high where the only man that can feel your needs is on a SOAP OPERA

Be willing to sacrifice and try to look for the good. DO NOT SETTLE. But understand no one is perfect. Even a virgin may have issues (baggage)

No one is rich, but someone that has a good job, carries himself well and is trying to move up. Is a person you can grow with and both of you can offer advice and life experiences.

And where should I start looking in San Antonio for a Nice,Handsome guy?

I would say church, but I am Atheist and that would be a funny

I would say volunteer.
Change your shopping to after 5:00
Handsome (Again being attracted to a person is 85 % of some relationships, but Matt Damon and Denzel are married)
A gym, but anyone that approaches you is on the prowl. A lite conversation i.e. asking for a "Spot" will tell you alot

[SofaKingFun]

Dating can be such a HUGE pain in the hind-end! Uggh!

Sorry that your brothers are picking on you though. Brothers can be so cruel sometimes...but I'd worry more if the didn't pick on you...picking on you means that they love you...It's a Mars-Venus thing, so please don't ask me to explain. lol

My suggestion is simply to be yourself and have fun.


First dates are typically nerve-racking for both of you and we try to put our best foot forward, so as to impress the other party. This is where you need to pay particular attention to any signs he might give off that will clue you in to differences you might have.

Play hard to get. Guys love a challenge. lol

Whatever you do, don't come across as desperate or clingy. Nothing sends us running for the hills faster than a "cling-on".

And I haven't really even thought about this but you're in a particularly unusual predicament as far as the dating thing goes.. because at some point, (not necessarily on the first or second date), you're going to have to tell him about your chosen profession. This is going to be a tough one and you're going to have to confront this at some point. It's up to you when that might be, but it's not fair to anyone to keep something like this a secret for too long. But cross that bridge when you get to it.

Meanwhile go out and have fun! You're a beautiful woman so finding dates shouldn't be a problem...AT ALL...it's finding someone who you enjoy being with and shares a mutual respect for you; that's the thing that's most difficult.

Good luck and happy dating!

Regards,
SofaKingfun- Dating Expert and Witch Doctor extraordinaire.

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[Big John Ac]

Vinny just make sure you find a nice honest sweet guy who will be by your side through thick and thin.

[82Vinny]

Thanks Ya'll I'm going out tonight for sure rough day!

Thanks for the Advice, Maybe I will start going to a gym. Geesh if I work out anymore I might just disappear. LMAo Thanks ANd love to evryone and now where are some good places to go out to in San Antonio?

[sanantonioman37]

Depends on the kind of guy your looking for? And yeah, sometimes it suck being the single person in your group of friends/family. They give that look or make that comment about why are you still single. Does wonders for your self esteem.

Bookstores/hobby shops tend to have your geek/nerdy types. Clubs tend to be a feeding frenzy for players although their are some nice guys there just have to work your way through the players/jerks. Grocery store/gym/star bucks/cd exchange, also think about joining an adventure club (sky diving, camping, hiking), join a coed volleyball/softball/bowling team.

No matter what, just have fun. So keep your chin up and get out there.

[wheels69]

you & I are together... right?

it those suck being single
noboby want me

[M.I.L.F. JOY]

Awww looks like Wheels69 & 82Vinny need to date.....

[Guest101114]

I would recommend to wait until after you were through with the hobby because if a guy really cares about you he ain't about to let you go f'n other guys to pay for school, bills, life and honestly, is that a good way to start a relationship? I mean, some would say that if he cares about you he should understand (if you are open to him about it from the beginning) but I wouldn't tell him where I advertise or where my incall was because it's only natural for guys to get jealous...........but love can come in all shapes, sizes and situations......like Rihanna sings(I think she's the one who sings it) "We found love in a hopeless place" hehe we are far from hopeless though but I don't know bout falling in love around here lalalalalala goodnight good folks.......kiss kiss kiss