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Most providers these days seem to vary between 3-6 months on verification following a visit
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Ladies,
I have an issue with respect to your three to six month perspective to references. I understand your willingness to provide yourself as a reference to mean that you vouch for the following:
1) the Client was not a LEO;
2) your time with the Client was safe; and
3) nothing unusual happened during your time with the Client (you did not get a funny vibe).
If I am wrong about this, please let me know.
With these three things in mind, I do not understand how it would matter if we saw each other six days ago or six months ago. Regardless of our time apart, this separation did not change our time together. When providing a reference to another lady, your are not warranting that the other lady’s time will be identical to your own; you are only offering that our time together was safe and generally as expected.
As such, I do not expect you to keep a spreadsheet with names and notes. However, as it is 2017, I do anticipate that most of you save numbers from clients who were safe and, at minimum, block numbers from clients who were not safe. Additionally, though reference sites like P411, I also anticipate it would be as reasonably easy to add personal notes to a Client’s profile as it is for clients to add personal notes to a Lady’s profile.
It is your business, you will continue to run your encounters, and references, as you best see fit. However, I do ask you to please keep in mind, as many of you are low volume Providers, some of us are low volume Clients. As an example, I am in the USA six months, or less, per year. Additionally, it is rare that I am home in the USA four weeks at a time. When I am outside of the USA, I work in countries in which I would prefer to not entertain this hobby. As I offer one personal example as a demonstration of a reason for a low volume Client, I am confident that many other reasonable examples exist.
As you are uninterested in keeping spreadsheets and logs of clients (and I support this as it is probably also a poor idea for legal purposes too), I do ask that you have some consideration for your low volume clientele. I have a very good feeling that you can probably differentiate between the client with tons of experience and the client who is specifically low volume.
Additionally, please view this from the other end of the spectrum. After the visit, the Client has the option to review the Lady. That review is visible to other Clients and is not taken down three to six months after the encounter. That review will stand as long as you maintain the current profile, as a review to how the encounter went on that day. For all practical purposes, a positive review is a positive reference and vice versa. There is no reason that a Client could not take down his reviews every few months, but we would all consider this to be silly. With this, I struggle to understand why you would be willing to remove your reference after the same, limited, time window.
How you proceed will continue to be your prerogative. I only ask that you please make some consideration for the low volume Client.
Best Regards,
GBD
My Bio Page - Texas - Houston
My Bio Page - Texas - Houston
