General observations of ECCIE

[Fancyinheels]

Members will interpret posts as they will, not as the author intended.

More clear-cut definition, or at least understanding, of terms (like "outing," for instance) is needed before being so loosely bandied about.

Only providers care about provider safety.

Some providers realize they have a responsibility to their fellow ladies to help protect them from suspicious fellows, but others will remain silent to protect themselves.

Drama turns some members off, but entertains many. Apparently train wrecks are fascinating, despite the carnage, loss, and pain.

If someone has already formed a negative opinion about you, changing that is like Sisyphus rolling the boulder uphill, only to watch it always fall back to the bottom.

A sterling reputation can stand some tarnish, but a whole lot of spit polishing has to be done to brighten it up again.

Everybody thinks mods get free pussy, when all they really see is a whole lot of caterwauling.

Most gentleman don't want to screen. They think providers should just take their word for everything, specially if they have a handle on ECCIE.

Everyone here needs to do less posting, more porking. This is an adult hook-up site, ya know.

No matter what a provider says, some fellow will take it wrong.

No matter what a fellow says, some provider will take it wrong.

Clients want good girls in the streets, bad girls in the sheets, quiet girls on their knees, girls who don't just tease. Some members say please, while others just squeeze. Just gently bear in mind that tits and balls ain't cantaloupes.

Mutual respect and politeness seem to be foreign concepts. Our mamas would slap us for talking to each other the way we do here, 'tards.

Every fantasy has a reality. Just depends on how much you're willing to pay to make it happen.

Every companion has her fans and detractors. There really is someone for everyone on ECCIE, but a target on each backside somebody wants to slap.

Every gentleman has a budget. That isn't the same as being a cheap bastard.

Expensive doesn't necessary equate to quality.

Some ladies charge too much, others not enough, but all guys want it for free if they can wrangle it. The intelligent lads realize that they always pay for "carnal convenience," one way or another.

Many members have no concept of time. Some guys will berate a lady for being 5 minutes late, but then stay half an hour or more over their time without sanction, thought, or tip. Some ladies think an hour means until the "first pop," whether it be 5 minutes or 45, then fly off like a bat out of hell.

Better communication between both parties would eliminate a good percentage of NCNSs.

Members are often impatient, with each other, with the system, with imperfection, but rarely with themselves.

Tolerance is a dirtier work than "f**k" on the board.

Rumors are more fun than truth.

Cleanliness is next to godliness, but evidently some members worship agricultural deities.

More observations, anyone?

[WTF]

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

More observations, anyone?

Many valid/good/excellent observations...

Many self serving observations too...

Those are my observations.

One more, well two more.... your first post back is chocked full of controversy.

This is a poor attempt to comment on something you said in your first post back that you would not comment further on.



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[bojulay]

So this is a place where human nature is observed on a regular bases.

[dearhunter]

I'll play

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

Members will interpret posts as they will, not as the author intended. Is that what happened when you "interpreted" a fucktards PM to you?

More clear-cut definition, or at least understanding, of terms (like "outing," for instance) is needed before being so loosely bandied about. When you reveal RL "data", it is outing.......period

Only providers care about provider safety. By that logic; Only hobbyists care about hobbyists safety........except hobbyists don't ask for providers RL "data" before they will see them.

Some providers realize they have a responsibility to their fellow ladies to help protect them from suspicious fellows, but others will remain silent to protect themselves. Hobbyists realize they have a responsibility to their fellow hobbyists to help protect them from potty mouth whores. The others will side with the potty mouth whores. Because, the potty mouth whore has their RL "data".

Drama turns some members off, but entertains many. Apparently train wrecks are fascinating, despite the carnage and pain. You post it/you own it.

If someone has already formed a negative opinion about you, changing that is like Sisyphus rolling the boulder uphill, only to watch it always fall back to the bottom. You can't un-ring the potty mouth bell.


A sterling reputation can stand some tarnish, but a whole lot of spit polishing has to be done to brighten it up again. You can put lipstick on a potty mouth whore......but, she is still a potty mouth whore.

Everybody thinks mods get free pussy, when all they really see is a whole lot of caterwauling. What, no free modtard pussy?

Most gentleman don't want to screen. They think providers should just take their word for everything, specially if they have a handle on ECCIE. It turns out they don't want to screen for good reason.

Everyone here needs to do less posting, more porking. This is an adult hook-up site, ya know. blah blah blah.........

No matter what a provider says, some fellow will take it wrong.

No matter what a fellow says, some provider will take it wrong.

Clients want good girls in the streets, bad girls in the sheets, quiet girls on their knees, girls who don't just tease. Some fellows say please, while others just squeeze.

Mutual respect and politeness seem to be foreign concepts. Our mamas would slap us for talking to each other the way we do here, 'tards.

Every fantasy has a reality. Just depends on how much you're willing to pay to make it happen.

Every companion has her fans and detractors. There really is someone for everyone on ECCIE, but a target on each backside somebody wants to slap.

Every gentleman has a budget. That isn't the same as being a cheap bastard.

Expensive doesn't necessary equate to quality.

Many members have no concept of time. Some guys will berate a lady for being 5 minutes late, but then stay half an hour or more over their time without sanction, thought, or tip. Some ladies think an hour means until the "first pop," whether it be 5 minutes or 45, then fly off like a bat out of hell.

Better communication between both parties would eliminate a good percentage of NCNSs.

Members are often impatient, with each other, with the system, with imperfection, but rarely with themselves.

Tolerance is a dirtier work than "f**k" on the board.

Rumors are more fun than truth.

Cleanliness is next to godliness, but evidently some members worship agricultural deities.

More observations, anyone?

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by WTF

Many valid/good/excellent observations...

Many self serving observations too...

Those are my observations.

One more, well two more.... your first post back is chocked full of controversy.

This is a poor attempt to comment on something you said in your first post back that you would not comment further on.

And my observation is that you are the fellow who said that I handled my return statement exactly how you would have advised with no chance of rebuttal, and then proceeded to spend much time and numerous posts in multiple threads rebutting it.

What, your *********** ***** failed to kick in and you forgot that you made that post initially? Doesn't matter. I'm glad that you, and dearhunter, have embraced dissection as a Hobby, another one, that is. We all need our outlets.

My time away was very insightful. Just thought that I would share MY, and only my, reflections. I'm sure that there are many things, funny and serious, that can be pointed out about the board. I love the place, actually, for all its faults and frailties. There just isn't any other board like ECCIE. It is a living, evolving place full of surprises and shocks.

I'm delighted to be back.





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#16 - Posting about/Speculating about another person's medical condition is strictly forbidden. If a member encounters a medical issue and would like to get feedback from others or share it with the community, this would be allowed, but under no circumstances is a member to discuss or state anything about another member in this regard, unless it is in response to a question posed by that member.

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by bojulay

So this is a place where human nature is observed on a regular bases.

Exactly!

[GlobeSpotter]

I consider outing to also include the entry of ones partial data into a verification site (or infoshare).

If you ladies are searching verification sites using a handle, email etc and a license plate number you get looking out a notel window (or any other data).....

......shame the fuck on you.

Figure out a different way to "stay safe."

[FoxyNC]

My observation: Men still don't want to cough up screening information (observation)
Yet... have no P411, no references, and fail to realize that only 10 percent of total murders in the U.S. are committed by women*.
For us ladies, it can be a life or death issue, and by my observation, men fail to realize that.
They are worried about being "outed" while us ladies are worried about bodily harm or death. The weight of these concerns are far from equal.


*https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...ey-are-all-men

[38super]

Observation: its pretty obvious and a topic that has been discussed before but when people are "gone" when they come back they seem to have a lot of knowledge of whats been going on as if they never left. A lot of cases of multiple handle disorder hahaha

[Fancyinheels]

More observations:

Everybody on a hooker board with a separate identity to their real world persona has multiple personality disorder.

Whether or not a person is a member of ECCIE or even banned, they can still "lurk" and read any open board post, and read between the lines.

[38super]

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

More observations:

Everybody on a hooker board with a separate identity to their real world persona has multiple personality disorder.

Whether or not a person is a member of ECCIE or even banned, they can still "lurk" and read any open board post, and read between the lines.

Thats true i forgot about that. I lurked for weeks before actually joining

[N.M.]

First of all I'd like to say Welcome back Ms. Fancy you are definitely someone to look up to in the way you carry yourself and I have told you how I feel about you in private communications.

What I have observed is that this site somehow seems to be lost in the 1800's or early 1900's when women had no voice. And equality didn't exist.

Like you mention on your first statement members here (men specifically) interpret what providers post as how it makes sense to them and as how is going to favor them in a way that will allow them to attack you. Then they'll proceed to do just that, at any cost, call you every name on the book, harass you to answer questions, then when you do they'll twist it and use it against you, they'll go as far as bringing up family and some will even compare you to criminals such as murderers and serial killers, just to get under your skin.

Irony is that by the way they act, their lack of compassion and the cruel things that come out of their minds, makes them seem like they're probably the ones that share the same type of mind set as the criminals they're comparing us to....

What I find most amusing is that if you stand up for yourself or treat them the same way they treat you, then you're "bat shit crazy" and a drama whore. And label you as a horrible person even when they have never spent 2 minutes in your presence. Then they'll go and proceed to make countless of negative posts about you, even try to hickjack a stellar review of you, when again they have NEVER met you. Tebow forgives you acknowledge and address that to them because that will just give them more reasons to never stop defaming you.

Some mask their behavior by saying that they do it just for "entertainment" and "giggles", other ones justify it by saying that it is your own fault for even posting here, and will try to make you feel guilty and try to make you feel like is your own fault they're attacking you and ganging up against you.

Many have advised me to just post my ad and let it be it. And I absolutely appreciate their advise and get where they're coming from. But my question is WHY ? Why does it have to be this way? Why can't us providers voice our opinions and points of views? Even alerts go south when posted on a public forum and the provider making the alert usually gets attacked.
Is that what the owners of this site purpose for their site is ? Then why even have an option for providers to post in sections, other than the ads section ??

[rayg07]

Originally Posted by Natalia Mori

Why can't us providers voice our opinions and points of views?

You should be able to express your views but at the same time if this is a business for you you need to take that into consideration. For most of the guys this site is just a temporary get away from the real world. For you it may be part of your livelihood. So you have to tread a thin line when you express your opinion so it doesn't screw with business. At the end of the day you as a provider have to decide how much of your emotional self you want to share with this crowd. You also need to know the crowd you are dealing with. At the end of the day you have more to lose than the guys here. But I feel where you coming from.

[N.M.]

Originally Posted by rayg07

You should be able to express your views but at the same time if this is a business for you you need to take that into consideration. For most of the guys this site is just a temporary get away from the real world. For you it may be part of your livelihood. So you have to tread a thin line when you express your opinion so it doesn't screw with business. At the end of the day you as a provider have to decide how much of your emotional self you want to share with this crowd. You also need to know the crowd you are dealing with. At the end of the day you have more to lose than the guys here. But I feel where you coming from.

I agree with you sweetie, and I understand where you're coming from exactly too. And I know things around here will probably never change.
Is just in my nature to speak my mind on things I don't find to be fair. I have always been that way. But I'm here to make money not to try to fix what can't be fixed.
I appreciate your words it was very well put.

Kisses

[flyinghi]

yep, seems guys here like to abuse girls more. When we complain or stand up for the girls, we get warnings or banded. This site isnt what it used to be. Still dangerous, references dont mean as much as before, try to protect yourself, get bashed. Time to move on, thats why my favorite girls arent here anymore and wont come back. Get warned or called a WK, fine to me, my friends are still friends, even tho they quit. Keep abusing these girls and you too, might find yourself behind bars. Like the two that abused my friend. I dont give a crap about mods. Here's to you Fancy! You're so right. Adios to this site!