Are Providers okay with hobbyist leaving after you open the door

[Amelia Sterling]

This is precisely why truth in advertising is vital in any industry. When expectations do not match reality, disappointment can have an over all negative effect on any encounter.

I have not had this happen to me, HOWEVER - if someone were to find themselves unattracted to me for ANY reason, I would hope that they be honest and upfront about it, and do us both the favor of leaving prior to any hanky-panky.
I would hope that they would offer me the same opportunity, as well.

Chemistry is terribly important in forging a passionate connection. Attraction can be influenced by any number of things; it is my belief that the best experiences are imbued with both. Anything less, and the parties involved are just going through the motions.

There is, of course, a right and a wrong way to extricate yourself from a less than desirable encounter; I prefer the honeyed approach (rather than vinegar). A simple, "I'm sorry, I hate to waste your time, but this will not work for me," should do, without flinging insults or vitriol. Alternatively, you could check your cell phone, feign concern, and say, "It looks like there's an emergency back at the office I have to take care of. I've got to go back right now; I'm sorry to have wasted your time."

It is up to the lady in question whether she may require a cancellation fee, and you may potentially have an issue on your hands negotiating your way out the door, but I truly feel that if you don't want to be there, then you shouldn't stay.

[Eccie Addict]

Originally Posted by poppy71

NFAP policy....no fake ass photos...ugly or not if its not you then the guy should walk.

I would go a step further and say it doesn't just need to be the lady in the pic but an up to date, accurate pic of the lady I'm booking with.

[poppy71]

Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

I would go a step further and say it doesn't just need to be the lady in the pic but an up to date, accurate pic of the lady I'm booking with.

I totally agree

[LexusLover]

Who on here would take deliver of a scratched up and beat up "brand new" vehicle for which they just signed up to pay full price with the "customary" advertised discount for "new vehicle purchases"?

I someone suggesting there is a difference, because it is a female?

[enderwiggin]

Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Understood, but needless bashing is not nearly as sexy as soft plush bunny fur.

We can't all be as sexy as EA.

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by poppy71

NFAP policy....no fake ass photos....

You just created a new acronym, I think. I'll have to put that in my ads. (In my case, it could also mean, "Naughty Fancy Assures Pleasure.")

Perhaps gents should start using NFAP in reviews?

[poppy71]

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

You just created a new acronym, I think. I'll have to put that in my ads. (In my case, it could also mean, "Naughty Fancy Assures Pleasure.")

Perhaps gents should start using NFAP in reviews?

Hell I like yours better

[heinz5710]

It goes both ways. You book a two hour appointment and when the lady sees you, she tells you that it is thirty minutes. Of course the price is the same. I had that happen once. I left because of the bait and switch.

[citizen44]

It would be interesting if all the hobbyist had to post a picture on their p411 or Eccie profile. I suspect there are a lot of dudes who would find that lots of providers all the sudden became constantly overbooked.

[Alyssa XOXO]

Originally Posted by citizen44

It would be interesting if all the hobbyist had to post a picture on their p411 or Eccie profile.

Now THAT would be PRICELESS, especially for the biggest sh*t talkers. A full body shot so that we may judge height/weight ratio (for those who aren't aware yet) and be reminded of the visual every time they bully someone

[Guest082824]

Originally Posted by citizen44

It would be interesting if all the hobbyist had to post a picture on their p411 or Eccie profile.

Works for me...I have some on my P411 profile


To the OP, it's hard out there in the hobby for a face guy....

[Wakeup]

Once the hookers start paying us to fuck them, we'll put up pics...until then, they get to shut the fuck up and deal...

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by Wakeuр

Once the hookers start paying us to fuck them, we'll put up pics...until then, they get to shut the fuck up and deal...

Just kill me.... I agree with Wakeup.
As long as the gentleman is clean, punctual, and abides by whatever rules/boundaries that the lady posts, shouldn't matter otherwise.

Some fellows send me their face photos to be polite, so I'll know who I'll be opening my door to, but I've never made assumptions or conclusions about any fellow's looks ahead of time because it never mattered to me. I like men of all shapes and sizes and every color of the rainbow. Just be nice.... until it's time to be bad.

[GlobeSpotter]

^^^^^^ Those are nice words Fancy.

Originally Posted by citizen44

It would be interesting if all the hobbyist had to post a picture on their p411 or Eccie profile......

Originally Posted by DickEmDown

Works for me...I have some on my P411 profile ......

I do too.....might as well come clean.....for the ladies to decide.



Click here for my selfie.


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[BFCjosh]

Originally Posted by citizen44

It would be interesting if all the hobbyist had to post a picture on their p411 or Eccie profile. I suspect there are a lot of dudes who would find that lots of providers all the sudden became constantly overbooked.

Really? If providers only saw men who looked physically attractive in their pictures, the prostitution business would lose 90% of it's revenues overnight. Providers care more about their safety, the guy's hygiene, his behavior, etc.