Flakes

[billtime83]

Not going to call anybody out, but I have found that if I try to get a girl under 25 from this site, they either flake right before txting me a location, or force me to wait well past the set-up meet time.
Now, I'm a patient person for the most part, but leading someone on only to ghost them, or get me to a location then having me wait up to an hour is very frustrating. It's getting to the point where after an initial contact, if the girl isn't responding to a txt within an hour, I'm done.
Currently waiting on a girl that said we could meet this morning, but hasn't answered my two txts.
Anyone know any girls that are younger and fit that know what they're doing, are punctual and responsible?
This is just ridiculous.

[SweetArielRae]

That just shows their not professional what so ever. Maybe go with ladies like myself. Older providers.

[Whispers]

The girls under 25 are in much greater demand and are not going to be responding to you within an hour. They are seeing guys in 1 hour sessions, getting cleaned up, resetting their incall and then seeing another guy.

They can definitely be flakes as you said but I have typically enjoyed the ride they provide and found it often worth the wait.

Visiting providers are often more attentive to their schedules than local girls unfortunately. You might try there.

[billtime83]

Originally Posted by Whispers

The girls under 25 are in much greater demand and are not going to be responding to you within an hour. They are seeing guys in 1 hour sessions, getting cleaned up, resetting their incall and then seeing another guy.

They can definitely be flakes as you said but I have typically enjoyed the ride they provide and found it often worth the wait.

Visiting providers are often more attentive to their schedules than local girls unfortunately. You might try there.

I get that they might be in a session, but I don't think my txts are coming in at the VERY START of every session. I assume they would check in between sessions, so waiting an hour before giving up is not going overboard.
But I like your thoughts on visiting providers. Thank you.

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by billtime83

I get that they might be in a session, but I don't think my txts are coming in at the VERY START of every session. I assume they would check in between sessions, so waiting an hour before giving up is not going overboard.
But I like your thoughts on visiting providers. Thank you.

It would be the professional thing to do if they checked in between sessions but factor in Austin traffic and the impact that can have on someone being on time as well as the propensity for younger girls with less experience to not allow for enough time between sessions to deal with the guy that is 10 minutes late or stays 15 minutes beyond the scheduled time and often it's quite the evolution for them to handle getting ready for the next one.

You could also look at hooking up with an Agency or booker and getting in line for new girls they bring on board.

[Tan Khan]

I sometimes get the feel that some girls may have more than one guy "on the hook". Meaning booked but, if a more sure bet or a longer appointment comes along, she will move or ignore you.

Unfortunately, they deal with guys flaking on them all the time. They may book 6 guys, expecting 3 or 4 to actually show up. It goes both ways

Waiting around for an hour is not a good use of your time. You have to lower your expectations when it comes to responsibility and professionalism in many cases. Don't drive to the location until you confirm an hour prior and set a 10 or 15 minutes max to wait. If she didn't get back to you, count it a loss and move on.

[billtime83]

Originally Posted by Whispers

It would be the professional thing to do if they checked in between sessions but factor in Austin traffic and the impact that can have on someone being on time as well as the propensity for younger girls with less experience to not allow for enough time between sessions to deal with the guy that is 10 minutes late or stays 15 minutes beyond the scheduled time and often it's quite the evolution for them to handle getting ready for the next one.

You could also look at hooking up with an Agency or booker and getting in line for new girls they bring on board.

Are the agencies good/safe? The idea always felt sketchy...

[zmonator]

Originally Posted by billtime83

Not going to call anybody out, but I have found that if I try to get a girl under 25 from this site, they either flake right before txting me a location, or force me to wait well past the set-up meet time.
Now, I'm a patient person for the most part, but leading someone on only to ghost them, or get me to a location then having me wait up to an hour is very frustrating. It's getting to the point where after an initial contact, if the girl isn't responding to a txt within an hour, I'm done.
Currently waiting on a girl that said we could meet this morning, but hasn't answered my two txts.
Anyone know any girls that are younger and fit that know what they're doing, are punctual and responsible?
This is just ridiculous.

I have a saying "The good news is she's 21, The bad news is she's 21"

[Anonymous01]

I try not to see providers under 40 with less than 2-3 years of reviews and board "presence". Had too many bad experiences with the yung'uns.


My current ATF is in her late 40's, has a body that most 20-somethings would kill for (she works out every day and in general takes very good care of herself), and skills that no 20-something has ever had!


I've got more than a little kink in me, and the yung'uns go, "EWWWWW! GROSS!" My current ATF just says, "Let's do it - now!"


If it's been awhile since she's seen me, she texts my hobby number and lets me know what she wants to try the next time we're together in graphic detail. 20 somethings you may get a "K" as a response, if that.


Too much trouble and drama for very little BCD pleasure. Give me a well experienced cougar any day!

[bjarnibear]

Good reason why all of my long-term regulars are 39 and older.

[CurvyKatie]

Originally Posted by SweetArielRae

That just shows their not professional what so ever. Maybe go with ladies like myself. Older providers.

This^^^

[Parsifal]

If there is no effort to communicate, then there will also likely be equally lackluster effort BCD, especially for a new, unproven provider. Of course there are a few exceptions that prove the rule - one of my past ATF’s had atrocious TCB, but she was so amazing BCD I kept coming back up until she retired. I miss that sweet, sweet woman...

Also, keep in mind that some providers use bad TCB as a way to weed out those clients they’d prefer not to see; some of them don’t know how to be direct and/or honest if they just don’t want to see you, so they just ghost you instead. It’s lazy and immature, but so are they - kind of makes sense, actually.

Don’t chase - just schedule with those providers that actively participate with their TCB and disregard the others...they very quickly identify themselves with their bad TCB; you just have to decide if dealiing with it is worth it.

It very seldom is...

[RustyBalls]

Originally Posted by Parsifal

...keep in mind that some providers use bad TCB as a way to weed out those clients they’d prefer not to see; some of them don’t know how to be direct and/or honest if they just don’t want to see you, so they just ghost you instead. It’s lazy and immature, but so are they - kind of makes sense, actually.

Don’t chase - just schedule with those providers that actively participate with their TCB and disregard the others...

Above is very true. Stick with established providers (I like Mid-30s MILFs) who cater to your needs and wishes. For whatever reason, Mid-30 and above ladies in the hobby seem to be hitting their sexual prime and are open to lots of BCD fun without saying "Oh, EWWWWW".

Some providers will even recommend you some of their hobby friends and can be counted upon to provide you with solid references to other ladies.

As mentioned above, it's a lot more fun to hobby with ladies you like as people and who would be good friends in the Real World if you met them there. Remember, they are hobby friends and don't cross or confuse boundaries.

It's a good thing that we all like different things in the hobby. If you play your card right, there's more out there than most of us can handle/afford.

[TStar]

Originally Posted by RustyBalls

As mentioned above, it's a lot more fun to hobby with ladies you like as people and who would be good friends in the Real World if you met them there.

Agreed

[gc161]

Originally Posted by billtime83

Not going to call anybody out, but I have found that if I try to get a girl under 25 from this site, they either flake right before txting me a location, or force me to wait well past the set-up meet time.
Now, I'm a patient person for the most part, but leading someone on only to ghost them, or get me to a location then having me wait up to an hour is very frustrating. It's getting to the point where after an initial contact, if the girl isn't responding to a txt within an hour, I'm done.
Currently waiting on a girl that said we could meet this morning, but hasn't answered my two txts.
Anyone know any girls that are younger and fit that know what they're doing, are punctual and responsible?
This is just ridiculous.

That does sound frustrating. Sometimes, I wonder if the vigilance turns into abuse at a point. Genuine conversation is the cure in my opinion. It's pretty cool when it happens; although, no one can promise that you'll have a grief-free experience.

I do not know anyone that meets your criteria. I prefer someone around my age or higher who wakes up at night like a vampire. I have my grief and tribulations as well. I do want to know about that encounter when you find that special gal!