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gimme_that · 02-20-2010, 03:27 PM

I just have a question for gents and providers can chime in if need be.

Do your hobby dates routinely start on time and is it of any concern before you see a lady if you see no in that section of a review?

I can safely say 90 percent of the ladies I have seen in the hobby have been 30 minutes to even 2 hours late for appointments I set up which were all outcall. Although I dont especially like waiting past an appointment time, I have become accustomed to providers being late based upon all my previous experiences. I do outcalls mostly and book multiple hour appointments so I didnt know if I fit most hobbyist situation here as Im sure most gents do incalls.

I think the thing that really sucks is when you dont even recieve a courtesy call or text saying shes running late. More times often than not I have to initiate a phone inquiry to find out whats going on. But at that point it seems like overkill.
Am I just unlucky time wise or do others have the same issue here?

docdavid49 · 02-20-2010, 03:33 PM

Never done an outcall so maybe that is the difference. Since I am in a provider desert and have to travel, minimum of an hour, and they know this going in I have never had one to even put me on "circle the block and I'll call you." I also book multihour appointments so that isn't it.

Go question though and will be interesting to see the results.

SeaDog · 02-20-2010, 05:22 PM

Same story here, gimme_that. Exclusively outcall, mostly multi-hour; almost always 30 min. or more late.

I excuse the lateness IF she has good communications and I'm not left pacing my front porch waiting for her to arrive.

The set-up and punctuality are always mentioned in my reviews.

Outdoorsman · 02-20-2010, 05:24 PM

I have never done an outcall, so maybe thats it. My dates usually begin on time. I have been asked to wait outside, longest was 15 minutes. But I usually confirm about an hour to 30 minutes before hand unless a regular lady cause she already knows I will be on time. I do not appreciate tardy, it is a concern when booking, I do not want to wait.

juan2fork · 02-20-2010, 05:45 PM

When I have had outcalls they have often been late. Only time I was late was on the road & got lost in an unfamiliar city.

DallasRain · 02-20-2010, 06:24 PM

If a girl is late...then ya just gotta give her a good spanking...lol!

docdavid49 · 02-20-2010, 07:10 PM

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Originally Posted by DallasRain

If a girl is late...then ya just gotta give her a good spanking...lol!

Guess that is why Dallas is ALWAYS late for outcalls...

Jacquie · 02-21-2010, 01:01 PM

If I'm late for anything, it's one of two things.

1.) I'm lost. --Though, that shouldn't be a problem anymore as I finally have a good system for GPS.
2.) You didn't give me enough advanced notice. I require two hours. This is mostly because I usually have to create an escape plan from whoever I'm with, if I'm doing an out call. It's harder to do now that I'm not local to Louisiana. Haaa, my friends think my sneaking around is to see my ex-boyfriend. Little do they know...

gimme_that · 02-21-2010, 01:35 PM

I definitely have booked far in advance for most of the times I have set up appointments. I call 2 days before to confirm, early on the appointment day to let her know we are still on, when I check into hotel I call from the room to confirm an hour before or so.

At that point Im beyond ready and eager anticipation is an understatement.

I can't always have a plan B either based upon the duration of time I book although I have thought about it through prescreening with other ladies for short notice engagements.

Some ladies consider it rude to do that even if they are late, but at that point after I have checked into the room my confirmation should not be in question; and ifshe isn't present......I have seriously contemplated calling another and just cancelling. Most times Ill wait up to an hour or two before I do that.....it has only happened twice where I just cancelled and called someone else 2 hours after the original appointment time.

With the current advent of more ladies offering half hours I sometimes think maybe ladies are overboooking and maybe thinking because I have booked so much time its of no real consequence. Its sort of refreshing to see I wasn't the only one who's experienced this.

DallasRain · 02-21-2010, 04:51 PM

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Originally Posted by docdavid49

Guess that is why Dallas is ALWAYS late for outcalls...

lol--Doc babe....I have only been late once or twice....babe most times I am usually early for outcalls so I can get double the spankings...lol!!

Jacquie · 02-21-2010, 05:12 PM

Dallas honey, when I move back to the Big Sleazy, we'll have to meet. Maybe we can network for doubles and get so many more spankings. Tehe.

DallasRain · 02-21-2010, 06:55 PM

MMMMM Jacquie ya got it hon!!!!

dilbert firestorm · 02-21-2010, 09:42 PM

by my observation, outcall meets are usually 30 mins to 2 hrs late. on time appts are a rareity and depends on the girls activity at the time.

weebbadd · 02-23-2010, 08:21 PM

I'm kind of like to make sure I leave early in case I have a flat tire on the way kind of guy, and
I usually schedule a day or two in advance, and as I do mostly incall, I always set up a call an hour before the appt to confirm (after I have confirmed the day before) and as I usually do only an hour or two, it rarely is late and only once in a blue moon is there a cancellation.
I did get burned with no shows years ago, but I if that happened, a usually did not try to book that provider again. My time is valuable too.
I think that because of outcall or long appt times may have the effect to the girls, I don't know, but when I get delayed it sure is real pain in the ass.
I understand stuff happens, once I had a family emergency and had to cancel, but only once in the past 10 years.
I think seeing the proven regulars has been a real help, the girls I see are very organized and professional, and I steer away from the girls I know nothing about. Reviews are helpful, a good review will put a girl on top of my to do list. I also feel that the regular gals who post here are taking the time to introduce themselves, and I get a feel for the personalities that make me see a connection or not somewhat.

April Showers · 02-24-2010, 10:18 AM

Who are you guys seeing???

I am never more than 5 minutes late for an appointment incall or out. I am a stickler for time, being late is one of my pet peeves. I believe it is MY responsibility to leave with enough time for being in traffic or finding a place to park. Most of the time I am early by 15 minutes!