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Originally Posted by gptxman
This is an every weekend thing for the wife and I and we both enjoy all aspects of it.
I don't have any problems with my SO getting some. When she can find the right guy that really turns her on and can fuck her very well it is even better. It is very common for her to hook up with several guys she has met since starting to swing. Sometimes we are together and I watch or don't watch and sometimes she is off on her own having fun.
You wouldn't be here if either don't get any at home or you like to experience different women. Not think if you feel this way your SO doesn't. I bet she is off doing the same (fucking others) as you already if you feel the need to. I believe it is true in all relationships that both partners will cheat eventually if there is not a way for them to deal with curiosity and the desire of others.
Swinging brings to a relationship the ability to freely enjoy ourselves with others (sexually & non-sexually) with out it causing marriage problems. For us it has allowed us to become closer and has made our relationship better than it ever was. We have lots of swinging couples we know with and they all say the same thing about it making their relationships better.
On a side note there are couples that we see in the clubs that we won't mess with. You can tell these couples have issues and we just don't like to deal with them. Most of the time we have found their issues are caused by one partner (sometimes the man and sometimes the woman) pushing the other into swinging. This will never work. It has to be something both want to do or it won't be fun for both and it won't work.
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Very good post.
I had the occasion to be involved in the swinging lifestyle some years back as a single guy. It was a lot of fun. For a single guy, the key to it is to make friends with some couple or couples and then go from there.
I found that there are quite a few couples in the swinging lifestyle that like to bring a single guy into the mix. In some ways, it's easier for them than trying to hook up with other couples. Sometimes, the dynamics of getting four people that all get along can be a bit of challenge.
As you said, there are some couples that give off a "vibe" that there is just something there that is not right. I've seen some situations where the husband pressures the wife into it until she finally goes along. And then a funny thing happens. She starts to enjoy herself. Too much. Then hubby gets jealous.
The thought actually occurred to me, that if I were pursuing an advanced degree in psychology or sociology, I'd do my thesis on something to do with the swinging lifestyle.
I had a lot of fun and met some really neat people.
