Dressing up for sessions? Is it that much hassle?

[Guest082215]

I have a question I have always wanted to ask but never seem to got around to putting on the board until tonight.

I love when a provider dresses up for the session. In particular I love stockings, heels, the sexy outfit with match bra/panties etc. However, I find that when you arrive at a session with a provider a lot of times they are not dressed up. Sometimes when you request certain items, especially stockings, they moan and groan about putting them on. Or even worse, you show up, and they are casual and advise you to wait while they get dressed - to me the waiting and seeing the provider in a casual outfit ruins the moment for me. I am looking forward to seeing the pretty package - not to arrive and be told to wait, and then grunting about dressing up etc. I hate to show up and see a girl in jeans, tshirt and flip flops....or even worse with a bad manicure or pedicure - I usually just leave when i see this because it does ruin the deal for me as well.

Anyone else have this happen - my fellow dawgs? Providers I would love to hear your thoughts on this - I mean even if a guy does not request certain outfits etc. do you dress up anyway? I mean what guy does not like sexy outfits and heels?


Thanks
LFG

[Nicolet]

If someone asks me to wear stockings, I am happy to put them on. I always wear sexy heels and matching bra and panties, under my jeans and tshirt! But I try to dress for the surroundings, meaning if I am invited to the Ritz, I dress accordingly.

[RickForFun]

I agree with LFG. It is all about the total package.

[gimme_that]

I actually prefer most times for the ladies to dress comfortably or most times casually by my requests for a discreetness issue. The clothes are coming off eventually anyway so its of no overt concern to me unless we were going out which I rarely do.

I like a good shapely curvaceous woman in a pair of jeans though. I have no objections to seeing that. I agree that flip flops are a turn off, no matter how well her feet are done. Unless of course shes in a nice sundress or something.

Im sure I'm in the minority as hobbyist are concerned in my preferences for how they dress though. Im sure more would prefer the GFE ambiance of seeing a sexy setup of lingerie. But it would be nice if they wore it under their clothes and didnt have to dress into it.

Every overnight I had the ladies changed into them after the initial meet in greet via hotel room bathroom. With an hour or lesser booking time though...is their really time for this. Would the time start after she dressed or when she shows up?

[LAVixian]

I will not wear jeans and t shirt to a session unless I am told to dress casual. I try to dress nice without going overboard with something nice underneath. But be forewarned, I normally don't get asked for stockings and such, so unless I am told ahead of time so that I can go and by some, I will not have any on when I arrive. As for the groaning and moaning? There is no reason to do so.

After session is over, I can take them off. Now, with this heat wave we are going through, stockings and such will make a person sweat balls, so maybe this could be the cause of the groaning? Just my opinion.

[bassmaster02000]

I think if they present themselves as confident and sexy,what the have on does not affect me in any way, If they are a great provider they will be sexy for you when you arrive. If they are not presentable then its best you do leave because they are not takeing the time to be there best,they won't be with you, in my opinion. But i have never had a problem before and hope i don't , Its a long drive from M.C. even longer when your dissapointed.

[DATYMAN]

I totally agree w/ LFG. Very few these days go out of there way.

[naughtynatale]

I personally like this part .... getting to play dress up. I guess it would all depend on where you are meeting as well. If it is a first time date and you are coming to me I will probably have on something nice as opposed to a second or third date of lingerie. Also if I am touring I would probably wear something erotic underneath something that I could explain just in case it was housekeeping knocking at the door. But to answer your question. I prefer heels and stockings. I usually wear some sort of heels most of the time anyhow so that is not an unusual thing for me.

[April Showers]

It is very hard for us to have to guess what each gentleman will prefer as far as dress goes and as you can see from the responses it does vary quite a bit! Without any prior requests I just wear whatever I feel sexy in!

When doing incall I have met my callers at the door in teddies/babydolls, bra & panties,sundresses, jeans with a sexy tank top, booty shorts, just a towel, and my birthday suit! I am either barefoot or wearing heels.

When doing outcall I try to make my outward dress blend with my surroundings.... a dress, skirt, jeans, capris, shorts all with a nice top... I will wear heels, boots or sandals (cute little flippy ones) Underneath is usually a sexy bra & panty set.
I dress like I am going on a date and feeling lucky!

I haven't had any complaints yet so I guess I must be dressing right!

[barrybarry39]

Yeah, I like the Birtday Suit!
But did have a date answer the door in spike boots and a body net once before!
Man did I like that. I love the exoticness.

[swpaul]

I like casual wear myself, makes me more comfortable i guess

[lisa.lisa0302]

Depends on the gent.

If its someone I have seen before, I stay in my bday suit.

If it is someone new, I take a quick peek on his p411 and see if he posted something about what he likes the provider to wear and wear it...

I have asked the gents I have seen before, they say naked with thigh highs........well damn I was trying to spice it up a bit, but okay...

Whatever they want, its their fantasy....

[DallasRain]

I usually wear the outfits I have on in my pics....depends on my mood which outfit I wear.......I am a shopoholic,and I have so many clothes that sometimes it is hard to decide{lol}.......I espec love wifebeaters/daisydukes/funky socks or thigh highs/heels.....today I bought 5 new bra & panty sets

I also like wearing short skirts w no panties...that way the client can see up my skirt when I lead him upstairs!!!

When I stay in a hotel,I try to dress as skimpy as possible!

[haya1300]

I usually show up clothed....that way the lady usually opens the door for me and isnt frightened off my my hunchback and body hair.

[LilRed]

In my RL job I wear scrubs and tennis shoes all day, so I get excited at the chance to dress up for my dates. My panties and bra always match (if I'm wearing them!!). I will usually wear a dress or skirt, and at 5'1" I NEED the heels. I have a pedicure and manicure every other week because I like the way it makes me feel spoiled and girlie.
I will not usually have on stocking unless they are asked for. Unless a specific request has been made, I try my best to look like I am going on a 'date'.