Do Providers Suffer The Same Fate As One Night Stands?

[bangalores]

Do providers suffer the same fate as one night stand girls?
The old one and done syndrome, even though she might provide
a great service guys might be like, been there done that on to
the next.

[pyramider]

Call it an occupational hazard. Besides after I am done tickling taint the ladies are usually happy when I leave ... hoping to never hear from me again.

[mtabsw]

Funny timing - just had this discussion recently with a close friend.

There are as many reasons to hobby as there are dicks on this board.

From my view - there are a couple of types of guys that make one night stands with the providers their norm:

The collectors - trying to get as many "tshirt" as possible
The lovelorn - going from one to another trying to find true love
The fussy (me) - who while they might find an appealing look, skill etc, don't get the "click" so they move on.

Does that help?

[phildo]

What both those guys said...

[The Proper Stranger]

These days I tend to see most providers only once until I've found someone I particularly like and who treats me well. After that, I tend to revisit the ATF (or ATFs) of the moment for the most part, and occasionally look around when schedules don't fit, someone else intrigues me, or I'm just feeling adventurous. About 1/4-1/3 of the providers I've seen have been ones I've revisited often, the rest being 1 or 2 offs.

[Tara Evans]

Life is a big variety. I see a lot of regulars on a daily basis. But I joke around with them and say providers are like potatoe chips you can't stick with just one flavor. There are so many out there too try. Lol. But I hear ya once you have had the flavor you like you stick with it.

[Caleb]

Just my style, and I know there are many others, I have found repeat visits to be off the charts great experiences. If the first dance is great, the second and third will be mind blowing. I put some effort into researching new encounters with the great hope that the ever intangible "chemistry" will appear. By design, I have had very few one and done encounters, but that's just my preference. A big thanks to the one and done guys who go out and report back - it makes it possible to play my game!

[verygood69]

Originally Posted by Tara Evans

Life is a big variety. I see a lot of regulars on a daily basis. But I joke around with them and say providers are like potatoe chips you can't stick with just one flavor. There are so many out there too try. Lol. But I hear ya once you have had the flavor you like you stick with it.

I TOTALLY agree with Tara, If you have the flavor you like, WHY look for others? Take my word, if you found the flavor.....you will not find the same again. Just my old ass 2 cents worth.

[Tara Evans]

Originally Posted by Caleb

Just my style, and I know there are many others, I have found repeat visits to be off the charts great experiences. If the first dance is great, the second and third will be mind blowing. I put some effort into researching new encounters with the great hope that the ever intangible "chemistry" will appear. By design, I have had very few one and done encounters, but that's just my preference. A big thanks to the one and done guys who go out and report back - it makes it possible to play my game!

I couldn't agree more with what you just said. I have seen regulars for the past 5 years or longer and in each time this experience dose get better and better. I think that you start too feel very comfortable with that person and just a since of security as well and the times just feel so good with them. There are some customers that I have forgotten too get payment afterwards because it felt normal seeing them. They are the ones that say hey I forgot too pay you and I'm like oh yeah duh.

[omakase]

The great ones have a cult following. The up-and-comers might suffer that "flavor of the month" / "blue plate special" problem. But - correct me if I'm wrong - unless she offered you a review discount or bulk purchase punch card ... she's not heart broken if you don't show up at her door steps again.

This being said, so long as you treat people with respect, they will reciprocate in kind.

[VIP Mya Michelle]

I am not sure what you are trying to say, p4p relationships cant go on forever, (though i have heard of guys leaving escorts in their wills) as far as like if a provider is the same as just some promiscuous woman on the streets who gives it up to guys all the time before hardly 24-48 hours of knowing him, in no way are we the equivalent. Besides seems now-a-days not even a marriage is "forever". . . And if it's not forever then that means it has an expiration date.

Naturally more sexual women will naturally be more comfortable in this field and experience more success and actually maybe even learn how to conduct a business through it all. A one-night stand in the civie sense, is a girl you essentially tricked with some kind of sweet talk to get into bed very quickly or she may have caliced emotions towards sex that i cant explain where as in; civie life if you give it up to a guy and he never calls you again after that you are essentially a "dumbass" for giving it up on the first night, second night whatever. He won, The end.

I would still to this day even after being in the hobby, feel like a loser if i went out and freaked some guy because i was drunk and thought he was cute... I have no regrets from anyone i freaked in the hobby lol.

As a provider this is not the same, if i dont ever hear from a guy again it was a mutually beneficial hookup. No one got playled... & sure there might be a guy that you meet and really hope he see's you again, and he never does and you might feel a little hurt to the ego, but the longer you are in the biz, you realize it is NSA and no one is obligated to ever walk through your door again if they dont want to. lol , the numbers in the hobby are massive and surely every member is replaceable....

[bojulay]

I had a girl call me the next day one time.

[Kelly TNT]

Originally Posted by Caleb

Just my style, and I know there are many others, I have found repeat visits to be off the charts great experiences. If the first dance is great, the second and third will be mind blowing. I put some effort into researching new encounters with the great hope that the ever intangible "chemistry" will appear. By design, I have had very few one and done encounters, but that's just my preference. A big thanks to the one and done guys who go out and report back - it makes it possible to play my game!

I'm hope at some point you fit ME into your rotation Love.

Hubba Hubba

~Kelly TNT

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Caleb

Just my style, and I know there are many others, I have found repeat visits to be off the charts great experiences. If the first dance is great, the second and third will be mind blowing. I put some effort into researching new encounters with the great hope that the ever intangible "chemistry" will appear. By design, I have had very few one and done encounters, but that's just my preference. A big thanks to the one and done guys who go out and report back - it makes it possible to play my game!

Do you find that depends on the way you tickle their taint?

[Boltfan]

I only like ladies who love Battlestar Galactica