Your "fusion" definition is bang-on.
I've been learning about Tantra since my introduction in the early 80's via a lover who wrote a relationship book that included a Tantra chapter, numerous Tantricas, workshops, seminars and lovers with whom I practiced this concept.
Finding a Tantrica who truly believes in the philosophy is a hit and miss proposition. Although many advertise a Tantric experience, most use it as a buzz-word for a HJ, sometimes interspersed with rudimentary deep breathing.. I'm not negating the benefits of a long, slow tug but also not confusing it with the other-worldly, spiritual melding present in Tantric ceremony.
Hope you encounter what you're seeking.and personally feel that my explorations in Tantra have been worth the time/money.
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