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Anita Lay · 10-23-2011, 10:33 PM

How many providers out there had a client fall in love with you? not talking about in the first session, talking about after seeing you for a year or so and he gets you a ring. What did you do with the ring? what did you say?
Another note, if a client buys you a lavish gift like a car ... do you take it? I am sure this kind of arrangement would be like a sugar daddy situation but what if he is falling in love with you? hmmmmm
What if he is married and wants to leave his wife?
what if he tries to get you pregnant with the attempt to make you marry him?
Don't laugh, I have heard of this before....
Dear Hobbyist, fess up if this sounds familiar...we are all human.

Naomi4u · 10-23-2011, 10:37 PM

I've had three (two last year and one this year) propose to me. Then there was the one that wanted to leave his wife and kids for me (didn't propose but ...yeah). You know that saying about "We pay them to leave?" It's all bullshit. A lot of these men catch feelings quick.

Clouddancer · 10-23-2011, 10:45 PM

I've made several promises and proposals in the heat of passion.
Fortunately, none have taken me seriously.

Col. Zodiak · 10-23-2011, 11:08 PM

Now, there is a difference between loving someone and being in love.

Have had a couple of ladies say that they love me. Gotta admit it is a great ego boost, but also realize that this is just probably part of their persona.

So how about it guys, how many of you have had this said to you?

The Colonel

Anita Lay · 10-24-2011, 12:37 AM

Naomi, did the ring come out? and how long did they see you before the question came up?

Schroedinger's Cat · 10-24-2011, 12:40 AM

I don't think I can wrap my head around marrying an escort.

anaximander · 10-24-2011, 12:53 AM

Yeah it could be weird at times.

No it's not bs we pay you to leave
to keep our little heads from making
severe judgement errors.

Love means different things
To different people.

Anita Lay · 10-24-2011, 12:56 AM

ummmm, SC... WE are ppl with feelings and its JUST A JOB.
You making it sound as if someone is not worthy of marriage.

Doc Holliday · 10-24-2011, 03:06 AM

That's the clicker! I have yet to be with an escort, but I fell in love with the first stripper I became a regular for; she was responsible, had a great personality, and liked the same things I did. But she saw me as just 'a friend' and didn't want a relationship. Of course, I was hurt. So, from then on out, I only went for dancers I didn't click with. By engaging with these girls I was physically attracted to but couldn't really hold a conversation with, I was able to separate the sex from the feelings. I would imagine I would need to do the same with escorts.

Ladies, why wouldn't you take the client up on his offer? Is it because you are well-off and would prefer to keep your job and see what's out there for a bit? Or is it because you think his emotions are temporary or disingenuous and he'll move on down the line?

Doc Holliday · 10-24-2011, 03:07 AM

(duplicate post from phone please delete)

Schroedinger's Cat · 10-24-2011, 05:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Anita Lay

ummmm, SC... WE are ppl with feelings and its JUST A JOB.
You making it sound as if someone is not worthy of marriage.

I never said you weren't. I basically said that I couldn't fall for and marry someone I paid to have sex with. Outside of this realm, I'm sure there are many that are marriage-material...just not for me.

Prolongus · 10-24-2011, 05:50 AM

In the heat of passion, the Provider was exploding the crap out of me...she just kept at it and us guys, I swear, will say the dumbest, weirdest things like I did: "Marry me, goddammitt!"
Of course, she knew I wasn't serious (only knew her for an hour at that point) but guys, what are some of the things you say or do besides clenching the sheets, gritting your teeth or yelling into a pillow?

Ed Highlight · 10-24-2011, 05:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Naomi4u

I've had three (two last year and one this year) propose to me. Then there was the one that wanted to leave his wife and kids for me (didn't propose but ...yeah). You know that saying about "We pay them to leave?" It's all bullshit. A lot of these men catch feelings quick.

Not meeeee!!! I only want to stalk you!!

Drtry2 · 10-24-2011, 06:34 AM

I'm a hopeless romantic, have had strong feelings for a couple of providers. When that happens I stay away from them and I never tell them why I stopped seeing them.

Is it wrong to not tell them why I stopped seeing them?

Still Looking · 10-24-2011, 06:48 AM

Come on Anita Lay... you must have something on your mind! Share your experiences with us! Cars, Diamonds, Stocks..??? Let her rip!