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Old 02-25-2020, 12:16 PM   #1
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This never really bothered me before, but as i get more into this hobby im realizing how annoying and unprofessional it is. I completely understand if maybe the email went to junk folder or you just didn't see it, but ignoring text and DMs or basically all forms of communication except direct calls when you HAVE multiple ways of contact on your ad is just silly.

If you only want to communicate via a phone call then please state that. Dont state "i can be messaged via email, text, Snapchat, insta, twitter, cellphone, etc" and ignore all of it except direct call. Or worse, you read the email and say "call me". What is even the point of listing your email then??? I don't mind calling, but sometimes id be at work or in a situation where phone calling is more inconvient than a simple email or text
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Old 02-25-2020, 04:34 PM   #2
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You have to understand that these girls have stuff going on in their life like everyone else. I don’t take offense when I don’t get a answer. This is just a small part of my life and I understand that they might have family stuff or other things going on outside of this. A lot of these girls you wouldn’t even know have kids but the good ones hide it well.

Not trying to white knight but I’m sure they get probably 100 calls or texts a day. Just brush it off and maybe try again. You have to also maybe look at your approach when contacting them.
When I started sending my name, screening information and what time I wanted to meet with notice all in one message I started getting way better responses. Just don’t take things personal with these girls I mean. They owe us no explanation. They’re not our wives or girlfriends
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Old 02-25-2020, 05:56 PM   #3
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You have to understand that these girls have stuff going on in their life like everyone else. I don’t take offense when I don’t get a answer. This is just a small part of my life and I understand that they might have family stuff or other things going on outside of this. A lot of these girls you wouldn’t even know have kids but the good ones hide it well.

Not trying to white knight but I’m sure they get probably 100 calls or texts a day. Just brush it off and maybe try again. You have to also maybe look at your approach when contacting them.
When I started sending my name, screening information and what time I wanted to meet with notice all in one message I started getting way better responses. Just don’t take things personal with these girls I mean. They owe us no explanation. They’re not our wives or girlfriends

I understand that and that isn't what gets me. What gets me is that they state they only answer phone calls despite having email and other messaging listed. They just outright refuse to answer the email they have listed any day of the week and when asked about it you get blocked as if you are wasting their time by asking about anything not related to scheduling. But the next day they have the exact copy pasted ad with email contact? Don't get it.

All im saying is DO NOT list your email or say you can be contacted by text/DM when you have no intention to do so. In phone calls with some of these girls they straight up admit they don't look at the email they provided. It has nothing to do with being busy or overlooking the email which i understand, its the fact they just have no intention of ever using it period.
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Old 03-05-2020, 12:17 PM   #4
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So what you saying is..

You cant find anybody to answer your requests???

Oh ok


I guess so.

Cuz..I cant seem to understand why guys call/text/email

With complete and utter garbage....nothing to do scheduling...thus getting blocked..

Thanks
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Old 03-12-2020, 10:47 PM   #5
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Lightbulb READ THEIR FUCKING ADS!!

Not..
1. Hey sexy
2. Available
3. Dick pic


How bout this gents..


Hi my name is (dick)
I saw your ad and RATES.. i was wonding if u had time today qt (please includ when da fuck your talking about)
And if she responds .

Go from there...

90 percentile get rejected cause your idiots not minding to WASTE THEIR TIME.... YET WANNA GO TO THEIR HOUSE?? HMMMMMj.s
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Old 03-13-2020, 06:14 PM   #6
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So what you saying is..

You cant find anybody to answer your requests???

Oh ok


I guess so.

Cuz..I cant seem to understand why guys call/text/email

With complete and utter garbage....nothing to do scheduling...thus getting blocked..

Thanks
The text i send is 100% about scheduling appointments. my first text to a provider usually looks like this: "hey, my name is xxxx and i seen your ad on xxxsite which im also a member of. I would like to schedule a appointment/meeting for x/xx if you are available"

a typical responses from these people would look like
"call me" which i would respond back saying "i am currently not in a position to call over phone atm (work, personal business, in a crowded area, generally no privacy at that time etc)I am more than happy to call you when i am free, i just need to know if you will be available for the time i gave.

After that id receive no response, and when i am FINALLY free to actually call it goes straight to Voice, indicating she probably blocked me. Makes no sense to me, maybe you ladies have a better idea of what im doing wrong?


This doesnt happen often and i do get alot more professional responses. it is probably entirely site dependent where this mostly happens on less professional sites, but it does happen. I tend to go to AMPs more because it skips all this hassle of scheduling and verifying. all i have to do is go in and get out within an hour. So when this happens it just makes it all the more frustrating.
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Old 03-13-2020, 08:04 PM   #7
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Sorry for your luck.
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