Romantic things for her

[Sir Lancehernot]

I fear a lot of ridicule and snark is coming, but I figure this is as good a place as any to start with this question.

So I've seen a young woman twice now. Going in, I was pretty sure she was someone I wanted to make an impression on, someone I'd like to see again and again.

So far, at least, she's all that and more.

For our first meeting, I found a wine that met her criteria. She said it was good. The candles in the otherwise-unlit room were, she said, "awesome."

More recently, it was a bottle of vodka, the candles again, and the petals of a dozen red roses arranged in a heart on the pulled-down bed. (Warning: They stained the sheets, lol.) Again, she seemed to be pretty impressed.

But I fear I've now gotten myself into a situation where I have to to something at least equal, if not better, for future meetings.

What other ideas might I sock away for future use? They don't need to be expensive, but they do need to communicate that my appreciation for her is genuine. Thoughts?

[Massagejunkyie69]

Yep, it’s time to move to the next level. This time in the room, besides vodka, you’ll want an assortment of toys set up. Buttplugs of various sizes, an assortment of vibrators, some handcuffs, gags, and blindfolds. On the bed, have the restraints already set up. Don’t forget the candles. But this time, you use them for pouring hot wax on her, not just lighting.

Then the coup de grace, in the middle of eating her out, where she’s totally naked, spreadeagled on the bed, fully restrained where she can’t get herself loose, and blindfolded, that’s when room service shows up to deliver your in room meal.

Regardless of whether the room service person is a guy or girl, invite them to play.

You’ll be happy you did.

[CG2014]

Whatever you do don't buy her any sex toys that are more endowed than you are



or that will please her better than you can.

[Dick Goesinya]

Yea. You want romance get a girlfriend. Wrong hobby for romance dude. This hobby is about fucking with no strings attached. No emotion chains. You want preference, ask what her favorite drink is or favorite scent and bring it. Moves you to the top of the list.

[winn dixie]

Why would anyone want to romance a provider?
Pay'em. Fuck'em. And leave-

[TheOracle]

Is the girl in question even a provider or a woman in the real world? He didn't really make it clear. I can't imagine why on earth you would rack your brain on something like this with a provider. If it is a provider, then dude you're doing it all wrong.

[Doug4343]

If its a provider holy shit run forest run! You gonna get taken advantage of. Ive fallen into that trap many years ago. So glad i came to my senses.

Ps. Dont let her tie you up with big sex toys around or you could have one end up in your anus.

[playerplano]

LOL I love these kind of threads. First it’s your time and money do what you want. I like (need) some connection so just walking in for a quickie doesn’t work for me.

On the other hand like Julia Roberts said “ This is all nice but I’m a sure thing. “ Some wine , a little talk and a lot of teasing foreplay works on hookers and IRL. It may only be me but I get off on getting them off so it might seem like I’m a generous lover but really it’s all about me lol. Real passion is preferred but honestly a good fake or IOP is acceptable!

[BLM69]

Let the OP romance this young woman, I wanna hear all about when the sh#t hits the fan.......and it will hit for sure

[winn dixie]

Originally Posted by playerplano

LOL I love these kind of threads. First it’s your time and money do what you want. I like (need) some connection so just walking in for a quickie doesn’t work for me.

On the other hand like Julia Roberts said “ This is all nice but I’m a sure thing. “ Some wine , a little talk and a lot of teasing foreplay works on hookers and IRL. It may only be me but I get off on getting them off so it might seem like I’m a generous lover but really it’s all about me lol. Real passion is preferred but honestly a good fake or IOP is acceptable!

I have a few pieces of property to sale you and maybe a bridge or 2.

[playerplano]

Originally Posted by winn dixie

I have a few pieces of property to sale you and maybe a bridge or 2.

Bridges ? Two bridges ? So I can put my face between them and motor boat ?

[Sir Lancehernot]

I said, "Young woman." I deliberately did not say, "provider."

But even if she was a pro, my experiences have been that, when you find someone whose company you enjoy, and who appears to enjoy yours, the quality of the experience can increase if you treat her like she's something more than an interchangeable cocksocket. True, such providers are a very small fraction, but it can happen.

In the end, provider, SB or civvie/girlfriend, it's my money and my experience. If I choose to buy candles, wine and (cheap) flowers because I enjoy hearing her say, "You are so fucking awesone!", and "Nobody has ever done anything like that before," and acting like she means it, I will do so, well-intended, though nonresponsive responses to the original question notwithstanding.

I was pretty sure this wouldn't be the best place to ask such a question, but I thought I'd start here. I'm a little surprised that no ladies piled on.

[VeryClean]

Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

I said, "Young woman." I deliberately did not say, "provider."

But even if she was a pro, my experiences have been that, when you find someone whose company you enjoy, and who appears to enjoy yours, the quality of the experience can increase if you treat her like she's something more than an interchangeable cocksocket. True, such providers are a very small fraction, but it can happen.

In the end, provider, SB or civvie/girlfriend, it's my money and my experience. If I choose to buy candles, wine and (cheap) flowers because I enjoy hearing her say, "You are so fucking awesone!", and "Nobody has ever done anything like that before," and acting like she means it, I will do so, well-intended, though nonresponsive responses to the original question notwithstanding.

I was pretty sure this wouldn't be the best place to ask such a question, but I thought I'd start here. I'm a little surprised that no ladies piled on.

You're absolutely right, SL. It's your money and if these romantic gestures make you happy, go for it.

The ladies haven't piled on with responses to your thread because almost all the ladies reading Coed threads are providers. Providers, as a whole, are not looking for romantic gestures. They want clean respectful mature gentlemen who arrive on time, give the full donation for their time, and then leave on time.

Romantic gestures such as candles, flowers, and rose petals arranged in a heart shape only make the situation awkward for them because it's not reciprocated. They don't love their clients or feel any romantic feelings for them. In fact, if a client does these romantic gestures, it worries them because they don't want to encourage the guy and make him think that he has a chance of entering a romantic relationship with her.

Now with civilian women, these romantic gestures will indeed go a long way in making her happy.

[VeryClean]

Originally Posted by Dick Goesinya

Yea. You want romance get a girlfriend. Wrong hobby for romance dude. This hobby is about fucking with no strings attached. No emotion chains. You want preference, ask what her favorite drink is or favorite scent and bring it. Moves you to the top of the list.

Great post and I like the suggestion about bringing her favorite perfume or drink as a gift. Better yet, add a hefty tip to her donation for her time if you want to show your appreciation. That will make her happy for sure.

Rose petals arranged in a heart shape are nice to look at but they won't pay her electricity bill or feed her hungry kids.

[Sir Lancehernot]

Originally Posted by VeryClean

The ladies haven't piled on with responses to your thread because almost all the ladies reading Coed threads are providers. Providers, as a whole, are not looking for romantic gestures. They want clean respectful mature gentlemen who arrive on time, give the full donation for their time, and then leave on time.

Romantic gestures such as candles, flowers, and rose petals arranged in a heart shape only make the situation awkward for them because it's not reciprocated. They don't love their clients or feel any romantic feelings for them. In fact, if a client does these romantic gestures, it worries them because they don't want to encourage the guy and make him think that he has a chance of entering a romantic relationship with her.

All I can say in response to that is that I agree, and, in general, you are right. But see my second paragraph. It's rare, but every now and then (about once every seven years on average in my hobby career), you run across someone who merits and appreciates the additional attention and gestures. (I've actually used the heart-shaped flowers with an escort; she's a more subdued type, so the reaction wasn't as intense, but she appreciated the thought and gesture.) The trick is in letting her know that you still understand the nature of the relationship.

I've seen posts from ladies before talking about nice things clients did for them that didn't involve extra cash, cars, vacations or shopping trips; I was hoping some might resurface in this thread.

Rose petals arranged in a heart shape are nice to look at but they won't pay her electricity bill or feed her hungry kids.

If you'd been there to see her reaction, I'd've kicked your unwanted ass out of the room. Seriously, when you hear her say, "No one's ever done anything like that before," and the appreciation i her voice, her smile, her eyes is evident, you know that what you have done has made bigger impression than an extra $10 would have. And she has no kids.