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Originally Posted by sophieleediax
I don’t feel bad about what I do for a living, actually I truly enjoy it.
A few days ago at the strip club in Austin,Texas I was giving a guy a dance in VIP and he started to tell me how bad he feels that he is cheating on his wife with me.WTF? And I only gave him dances should I feel bad?
Honestly it pissed me off.
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Sophie, the fact that you started this thread tells me that what the guy said is bothering you. Don't let it bother you.
You did nothing wrong. You're just earning your living. You're doing what you have to do to put food on the table and pay your bills. There's nothing shameful about that. If you weren't there that day at the strip club, he would have cheated on his wife with another gal.
The problem is with him, not you. If he felt so guilty about cheating on his wife, he shouldn't have visited the strip club and he shouldn't have paid for dances. Don't let him infect you with his guilt.
Also he didn't cheat on his wife with you..not really. He just satisfied a physical urge. There were no emotions involved on either side. There was no love. I'm sure that his wife would prefer that he visits strippers/escorts rather than have a torrid love affair with another woman. Heck, she might even be relieved that she doesn't have to put out.